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By *icknsuck2 OP Couple
over a year ago
Cornwall. St Ives Bay. |
Hi people.
What do people looking for when going to a club?
1.)Couples only.
2.)Couples and single females.
3.) Couples and single males
4.) Couples & single females and males TV etc.
Plus what else do people look for when deciding on what club to try??
Thanks peeps xxxx |
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"I look out for d*unken neanderthals at the bar who might take a swing 
It's not the done thing to get d*unk in clubs 
A club where you don't drink?!
Whatever next?"
You do but not to excess. Well some people do but it's frowned upon. You know the look |
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over a year ago
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"I like to check out the decor and the soft furnishings 
youd be part of the soft furnishings, if peeps got their way im sure x"
I have been told I resemble a beanbag |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"I like to check out the decor and the soft furnishings
youd be part of the soft furnishings, if peeps got their way im sure x
I have been told I resemble a beanbag "
fabulous.. i really could say something totally ruder..but i wont |
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"I like to check out the decor and the soft furnishings
youd be part of the soft furnishings, if peeps got their way im sure x
I have been told I resemble a beanbag
fabulous.. i really could say something totally ruder..but i wont "
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"I look out for d*unken neanderthals at the bar who might take a swing
It's not the done thing to get d*unk in clubs
A club where you don't drink?!
Whatever next?
You do but not to excess. Well some people do but it's frowned upon. You know the look "
I have no problems with opprobrium |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"I like to check out the decor and the soft furnishings
youd be part of the soft furnishings, if peeps got their way im sure x
I have been told I resemble a beanbag
fabulous.. i really could say something totally ruder..but i wont
Thank you for sparing my blushes "
ill just have very naughty thoughts instead ...big grin  |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
"So a club with a sauna/ hot tub/ steam room. Plus swings and other play room is a good.?"
and private rooms..id like to see one with private rooms and furniture..but thats me..i like options |
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"I like to check out the decor and the soft furnishings
youd be part of the soft furnishings, if peeps got their way im sure x
I have been told I resemble a beanbag
fabulous.. i really could say something totally ruder..but i wont
Thank you for sparing my blushes
ill just have very naughty thoughts instead ...big grin "
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By *icknsuck2 OP Couple
over a year ago
Cornwall. St Ives Bay. |
Ok.
Just trying to figure out why a newish club we go to in Leicester isn't rammed with couples and females.
Has sauna/ hottub / steam room.
About 6 private play room.
Big room. With swingers.
Glory home room.
Cinema.
Bar area and pool table.
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"Ok.
Just trying to figure out why a newish club we go to in Leicester isn't rammed with couples and females.
Has sauna/ hottub / steam room.
About 6 private play room.
Big room. With swingers.
Glory home room.
Cinema.
Bar area and pool table.
X"
just a suggestion..you say its new..for someone like me who hasto travel at least an hour and ahlf to get to any of the clubs beyond cambridge...i go where i know im going to have a good time, with people that i know and have a laugh with, and the atmosphere is always good..i have found that place..now, it would have to be a pretty good reason for me to go anywhere else now..not impossible, but i wouldnt take the risk... |
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"I look out for d*unken neanderthals at the bar who might take a swing
It's not the done thing to get d*unk in clubs
A club where you don't drink?!
Whatever next?
You do but not to excess. Well some people do but it's frowned upon. You know the look
I have no problems with opprobrium "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I go to Kestrels for the pool mainly and then the hot tubs.
And to chat with my female friend that I go with.
If I'm looking to play, then it will be predominantly with single men though I wouldn't rule out playing with a couple |
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"The clubs midswingers in Leicester.
You peeps should have a look see if it loom any good on the club reviews. Xx"
Just looked at the website which says events are no longer being organised...couldnt really make out if its generally open or only for events and opening times are 10.30pm which seems late. So a confusing website may be an issue. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi people.
What do people looking for when going to a club?
1.)Couples only.
2.)Couples and single females.
3.) Couples and single males
4.) Couples & single females and males TV etc.
Plus what else do people look for when deciding on what club to try??
Thanks peeps xxxx"
Single Men.
Male/Male couples.
Nothing else really. |
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By *icknsuck2 OP Couple
over a year ago
Cornwall. St Ives Bay. |
"The clubs midswingers in Leicester.
You peeps should have a look see if it loom any good on the club reviews. Xx
Just looked at the website which says events are no longer being organised...couldnt really make out if its generally open or only for events and opening times are 10.30pm which seems late. So a confusing website may be an issue."
Club is only open 2 Saturday nights a month it's close at the min till. 15th and 29th I think opens 10.30pm till 4am.
Bettystreet is the fab profile of the host. |
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"The clubs midswingers in Leicester.
You peeps should have a look see if it loom any good on the club reviews. Xx
Just looked at the website which says events are no longer being organised...couldnt really make out if its generally open or only for events and opening times are 10.30pm which seems late. So a confusing website may be an issue."
I've just looked at the reviews and the website.
No reviews since November and the website dos suggest that swinging events are no lager running.
I would assume on that basis that it is not currently open for business as a swingers club.
If the OP is a regular it may be worth suggesting the wording in th website is changed.
Nita |
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By *icknsuck2 OP Couple
over a year ago
Cornwall. St Ives Bay. |
It's cost £20.00 for couples to entre plus no membership fees For the club.
Smart casual dress. Jeans are OK.
Plus
You get a towl and flip flops for you to entre the spa area when entering the club and locker key.
Free comdons and lubs in the play rooms so you don't have to carry any around or buy any at the bar. Xx |
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"The clubs midswingers in Leicester.
You peeps should have a look see if it loom any good on the club reviews. Xx
Just looked at the website which says events are no longer being organised...couldnt really make out if its generally open or only for events and opening times are 10.30pm which seems late. So a confusing website may be an issue.
Club is only open 2 Saturday nights a month it's close at the min till. 15th and 29th I think opens 10.30pm till 4am.
Bettystreet is the fab profile of the host."
Think that needs making clear.
To be honest if the ratio of single guys to ladies is as high as suggested on the website, coupled with the fact it seems to be a "wet" club, it's unlikely it would suit us.
Though I'm sure that plenty will think differently
Nita
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"The clubs midswingers in Leicester.
You peeps should have a look see if it loom any good on the club reviews. Xx
Just looked at the website which says events are no longer being organised...couldnt really make out if its generally open or only for events and opening times are 10.30pm which seems late. So a confusing website may be an issue.
Club is only open 2 Saturday nights a month it's close at the min till. 15th and 29th I think opens 10.30pm till 4am.
Bettystreet is the fab profile of the host."
Two saturday nights a month, and late night start time. My partner and I usually leave clubs at 2330/0000ish, because it's usually a decent drive back home for both of us. Also we tend to go to clubs spontaneously rather than planning weeks in advance. It would be unlikely for us to coincide with the opening times. |
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By *icknsuck2 OP Couple
over a year ago
Cornwall. St Ives Bay. |
"The clubs midswingers in Leicester.
You peeps should have a look see if it loom any good on the club reviews. Xx
Just looked at the website which says events are no longer being organised...couldnt really make out if its generally open or only for events and opening times are 10.30pm which seems late. So a confusing website may be an issue.
Club is only open 2 Saturday nights a month it's close at the min till. 15th and 29th I think opens 10.30pm till 4am.
Bettystreet is the fab profile of the host.
Think that needs making clear.
To be honest if the ratio of single guys to ladies is as high as suggested on the website, coupled with the fact it seems to be a "wet" club, it's unlikely it would suit us.
Though I'm sure that plenty will think differently
Nita
If we honest we have been going to most nights since June.
There is more couples that go to the club then single males and there is the odd few single females.
They have become very strict now on allowing single males in.
Single males are limited and are only allowed to come if invited.
If your a single male you can't just turn up on the night as youll be turned away.
Xx
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" To be honest if the ratio of single guys to ladies is as high as suggested on the website, coupled with the fact it seems to be a "wet" club, it's unlikely it would suit us.
Though I'm sure that plenty will think differently
Nita
If we honest we have been going to most nights since June.
There is more couples that go to the club then single males and there is the odd few single females.
They have become very strict now on allowing single males in.
Single males are limited and are only allowed to come if invited.
If your a single male you can't just turn up on the night as youll be turned away.
Xx
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The website states that They allow 2 single men per lady on a Friday, 3 per lady on a Saturday and 5 per lady on certain occasions. in which case men could for outnumber women. |
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By *icknsuck2 OP Couple
over a year ago
Cornwall. St Ives Bay. |
" To be honest if the ratio of single guys to ladies is as high as suggested on the website, coupled with the fact it seems to be a "wet" club, it's unlikely it would suit us.
Though I'm sure that plenty will think differently
Nita
There advertising needs changing by the looks of it. As there only open on Saturday nights now.
There probably about 8couples 3 single males and 1 to 2 single females
If we honest we have been going to most nights since June.
There is more couples that go to the club then single males and there is the odd few single females.
They have become very strict now on allowing single males in.
Single males are limited and are only allowed to come if invited.
If your a single male you can't just turn up on the night as youll be turned away.
Xx
The website states that They allow 2 single men per lady on a Friday, 3 per lady on a Saturday and 5 per lady on certain occasions. in which case men could for outnumber women."
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
Would really like a club for single women and single men on Saturday evenings
Failing that, a club which holds events for single women and single men and couples too on Saturday evenings |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi people.
What do people looking for when going to a club?
1.)Couples only.
2.)Couples and single females.
3.) Couples and single males
4.) Couples & single females and males TV etc.
Plus what else do people look for when deciding on what club to try??
Thanks peeps xxxx"
Wether we can steal the towels without Anyone noticing |
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By *icknsuck2 OP Couple
over a year ago
Cornwall. St Ives Bay. |
"Hi people.
What do people looking for when going to a club?
1.)Couples only.
2.)Couples and single females.
3.) Couples and single males
4.) Couples & single females and males TV etc.
Plus what else do people look for when deciding on what club to try??
Thanks peeps xxxx
Wether we can steal the towels without Anyone noticing "
Hehehehehe. You have to hand your towl in when you leave with the locker keys.x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would really like a club for single women and single men on Saturday evenings
Failing that, a club which holds events for single women and single men and couples too on Saturday evenings"
Same here.
And one that encourages same sex sex on a Saturday night. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For us, the swinging genre moving on from nearly always 'off premise' to nearly always 'on premise' over the years, has all but killed the main vibe of a Swinging club.
When clubs were 'off premise' the social area - i.e. bar & fancefloor - was full all night (lot's of friskiness on the dance floor & a mood laden with sexual charge). But now, the majority of clubs cater for those who want to fuck....which is fine, but just look at the bar & dance floor area after midnight .....the're dead!!!
Anyway to answer the question...
1. A smart place (doesn't have to be top drawer, but we don't want to feel we're in some down at heel venue)
2. Good attendance (Nobody wants to visit an empty club)
3. Warm comfortable temperature (we've been to some clubs that are positively Baltic - not conducive on iota to getting naked)
4. A fun party-esque atmosphere
5. A hand picked selection of well mannered & well presented single males.
6. A dry club. |
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"Hi people.
What do people looking for when going to a club?
1.)Couples only.
2.)Couples and single females.
3.) Couples and single males
4.) Couples & single females and males TV etc.
Plus what else do people look for when deciding on what club to try??
Thanks peeps xxxx"
In a club we look for a mix, we look for people who are open to bi male play happening and not frowning on it and some bi male and/or TV action .... we also look to go and play together and meet up with friends on the scene socially. A couple of different things from different places ... we try to steer clear of anyone who says no to mixed race or black males or bi males .... don't like that sort of atmosphere, as it seems like people are out to judge us |
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"Hi people.
What do people looking for when going to a club?
1.)Couples only.
2.)Couples and single females.
3.) Couples and single males
4.) Couples & single females and males TV etc.
Plus what else do people look for when deciding on what club to try??
Thanks peeps xxxx
In a club we look for a mix, we look for people who are open to bi male play happening and not frowning on it and some bi male and/or TV action .... we also look to go and play together and meet up with friends on the scene socially. A couple of different things from different places ... we try to steer clear of anyone who says no to mixed race or black males or bi males .... don't like that sort of atmosphere, as it seems like people are out to judge us"
Oh yes, and a wet room for watersports, lol, but that is asking too much ... surely |
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" To be honest if the ratio of single guys to ladies is as high as suggested on the website, coupled with the fact it seems to be a "wet" club, it's unlikely it would suit us.
Though I'm sure that plenty will think differently
Nita
If we honest we have been going to most nights since June.
There is more couples that go to the club then single males and there is the odd few single females.
They have become very strict now on allowing single males in.
Single males are limited and are only allowed to come if invited.
If your a single male you can't just turn up on the night as youll be turned away.
Xx
The website states that They allow 2 single men per lady on a Friday, 3 per lady on a Saturday and 5 per lady on certain occasions. in which case men could for outnumber women."
I think it would be rather hard to tell how many ladies would turn up for the ratio of men to be right. You wouldn't know until they were actually in the building on the night. |
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"Would really like a club for single women and single men on Saturday evenings
Failing that, a club which holds events for single women and single men and couples too on Saturday evenings
Same here.
And one that encourages same sex sex on a Saturday night."
Agree with both of the above! |
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By *icknsuck2 OP Couple
over a year ago
Cornwall. St Ives Bay. |
The clubs has some regular and someone off couples that turn up.
But we just wish the club would get busyier.
Females and couple are allowed to just turn up but single males are only just allow to come to the club if invited.
We do love the club the lay out and its clean with nice facilities and not over paying to get in plus drink are cheaper then the bars in the city centre.
We be nice if all the couples and females that post looking for a meet turn up at the club or use the club as a meeting place to play with others they have been chatting to online.
Think it's just the club need to be more known to people on fab maybe and get the right crowd of people going. Xxx
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"Hi people.
What do people looking for when going to a club?
1.)Couples only.
2.)Couples and single females.
3.) Couples and single males
4.) Couples & single females and males TV etc.
Plus what else do people look for when deciding on what club to try??
Thanks peeps xxxx"
If it was 2 we would go all the time and pay double |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Attractive bi females, ideally younger than myself that don't smoke and that will play in private without their husband/partner watching.........you'd be amazed as to HOW difficult this is to find.
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"Hi people.
What do people looking for when going to a club?
1.)Couples only.
2.)Couples and single females.
3.) Couples and single males
4.) Couples & single females and males TV etc.
Plus what else do people look for when deciding on what club to try??
Thanks peeps xxxx
Wether we can steal the towels without Anyone noticing "
Ha ha
At Chams you put your used towels in a wash basket in the changing room so if you take a big enough bag with you, you can steal a few should you wish |
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By *icknsuck2 OP Couple
over a year ago
Cornwall. St Ives Bay. |
When we go will only play with couples or single females.
We would love to see more couple around 25- late 30s.
Which there has been a few but mainly older.
We not really in to chain smokers. X |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"Hi people.
What do people looking for when going to a club?
1.)Couples only.
2.)Couples and single females.
3.) Couples and single males
4.) Couples & single females and males TV etc.
Plus what else do people look for when deciding on what club to try??
Thanks peeps xxxx
Wether we can steal the towels without Anyone noticing
Ha ha
At Chams you put your used towels in a wash basket in the changing room so if you take a big enough bag with you, you can steal a few should you wish "
I have hard of used panties; but towels; is that a new fetish which, as usual, passed me by |
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"When we go will only play with couples or single females.
We would love to see more couple around 25- late 30s.
Which there has been a few but mainly older.
We not really in to chain smokers. X"
All the people my age that I know who are into swinging don't tend to go to clubs as much because bisexual men are discouraged from playing in so many places. I think (in my experience) that younger couples are more likely to be bisexual (or at least open to same sex activity) which is why the action tends to happen at home and at private parties. |
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"All the people my age that I know who are into swinging don't tend to go to clubs as much because bisexual men are discouraged from playing in so many places. I think (in my experience) that younger couples are more likely to be bisexual (or at least open to same sex activity) which is why the action tends to happen at home and at private parties."
I do wish bisexual men weren't so frowned upon! People need to get over it already. Don't want to play with them ... fine? Don't want to watch them ... fine? Go to another area of the club! |
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