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Hey folks!
I've had a look on the abfabs site, and am a bit confused with the "single men" and single ladies" nights and what they mean.....
Are they nights where only those people are allowed to go?
I'm a single (generally straight) lady, so I don't want to go to a night full of other single ladies...
I think I'm missing something pretty vital here... Someone enlighten me? Lol |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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The single guy night I believe single guys are welcome to attend in addition to the other clientele. I think they are having a monthly single girl night and that is purely for females and no males at all are allowed to attend. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Saturday nights are couples and single ladies only nights.
Friday nights, single men are allowed to go.
I think they have ladies only nights once a month.
Monday nights are bi nights. |
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By *lovisMan
over a year ago
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I'm guessing you're referring to Friday and Saturday nights.
Friday night is single women, single men and couples night.
So if you're a single woman looking for single men that's your best night
Saturdays are couples and single women only. As a single woman you might only want to play with the male of a couple but you're more likely to be in a MFF scenario
Monday is bi night and Tuesday and Wednesday are club nights - this is where daytime Kestrels becomes Ab Fabs at 6pm and you can be dressed as opposed to naked during the day. These nights are attended by couples, single males and females.
Hope that helps |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think they are having a monthly single girl night and that is purely for females and no males at all are allowed to attend."
So they are lesbian nights? Sounds interesting. Which clubs do them? |
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By *ty31Man
over a year ago
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"I think they are having a monthly single girl night and that is purely for females and no males at all are allowed to attend.
So they are lesbian nights? Sounds interesting. Which clubs do them?"
Ab Fab do a women only night on the third Thursday of a month where all men are barred.
It is closed all other Thursdays.
Single men are not permitted on Saturday nights and only in restricted numbers on Friday nights |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think they are having a monthly single girl night and that is purely for females and no males at all are allowed to attend.
So they are lesbian nights? Sounds interesting. Which clubs do them?"
Townhouse do a female only night called indulgence which is always a great night out  |
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"I'm guessing you're referring to Friday and Saturday nights.
Friday night is single women, single men and couples night.
So if you're a single woman looking for single men that's your best night
Saturdays are couples and single women only. As a single woman you might only want to play with the male of a couple but you're more likely to be in a MFF scenario
Monday is bi night and Tuesday and Wednesday are club nights - this is where daytime Kestrels becomes Ab Fabs at 6pm and you can be dressed as opposed to naked during the day. These nights are attended by couples, single males and females.
Hope that helps "
Very helpful, thank you!
"I think they are having a monthly single girl night and that is purely for females and no males at all are allowed to attend.
So they are lesbian nights? Sounds interesting. Which clubs do them?
Ab Fab do a women only night on the third Thursday of a month where all men are barred.
It is closed all other Thursdays.
Single men are not permitted on Saturday nights and only in restricted numbers on Friday nights"
Why are single men not allowed/ restricted?
This seems to be skewed towards women pretty severely.... Why is this?
Sorry if I'm still being obtuse, I just don't understand why single guys are being stopped from going to these? Are they generally lesbian clubs? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm guessing you're referring to Friday and Saturday nights.
Friday night is single women, single men and couples night.
So if you're a single woman looking for single men that's your best night
Saturdays are couples and single women only. As a single woman you might only want to play with the male of a couple but you're more likely to be in a MFF scenario
Monday is bi night and Tuesday and Wednesday are club nights - this is where daytime Kestrels becomes Ab Fabs at 6pm and you can be dressed as opposed to naked during the day. These nights are attended by couples, single males and females.
Hope that helps
Very helpful, thank you!
I think they are having a monthly single girl night and that is purely for females and no males at all are allowed to attend.
So they are lesbian nights? Sounds interesting. Which clubs do them?
Ab Fab do a women only night on the third Thursday of a month where all men are barred.
It is closed all other Thursdays.
Single men are not permitted on Saturday nights and only in restricted numbers on Friday nights
Why are single men not allowed/ restricted?
This seems to be skewed towards women pretty severely.... Why is this?
Sorry if I'm still being obtuse, I just don't understand why single guys are being stopped from going to these? Are they generally lesbian clubs? "
They're not generally lesbian clubs, no. Clubs restrict single men mostly because single men are icky and couples almost exclusively only want to have sex with single women. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm guessing you're referring to Friday and Saturday nights.
Friday night is single women, single men and couples night.
So if you're a single woman looking for single men that's your best night
Saturdays are couples and single women only. As a single woman you might only want to play with the male of a couple but you're more likely to be in a MFF scenario
Monday is bi night and Tuesday and Wednesday are club nights - this is where daytime Kestrels becomes Ab Fabs at 6pm and you can be dressed as opposed to naked during the day. These nights are attended by couples, single males and females.
Hope that helps
Very helpful, thank you!
I think they are having a monthly single girl night and that is purely for females and no males at all are allowed to attend.
So they are lesbian nights? Sounds interesting. Which clubs do them?
Ab Fab do a women only night on the third Thursday of a month where all men are barred.
It is closed all other Thursdays.
Single men are not permitted on Saturday nights and only in restricted numbers on Friday nights
Why are single men not allowed/ restricted?
This seems to be skewed towards women pretty severely.... Why is this?
Sorry if I'm still being obtuse, I just don't understand why single guys are being stopped from going to these? Are they generally lesbian clubs? "
no sweety you're not being obtuse the clubs although paid for by the single guy inflated entry fees which at adfabs are in the £70 area for a single guy to get in ,chams £110 these clubs heavily favour single women and couples who form the basis of swinging ,so if you think about conventional night's out to the pub etc you would go on the basis of cost so how regular you went out would be related to that ,so single women who get in adfabs for £ 10 can make that a very regular cheap night out and couples to guys unfortunately have to save up and can only go now and again ,hope this helps            |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Got it! Thanks folks!
LMAO, yeah, single guys ARE icky, aren't they....? Lol"
Yes we are, and I'd like the thank the swinging world for opening my eyes to that truth  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Someone will always pay if only once "
And therein lies the rub. If clubs charged for entry on a 'per head' basis, most women and couples couldn't go as often, the ratios attending would skew even more towards single men who would then stop going as well and clubs would close. Whereas, even if individual men only attend rarely due to the cost, there are enough of them to generate adequate numbers every night. |
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"Someone will always pay if only once
And therein lies the rub. If clubs charged for entry on a 'per head' basis, most women and couples couldn't go as often, the ratios attending would skew even more towards single men who would then stop going as well and clubs would close. Whereas, even if individual men only attend rarely due to the cost, there are enough of them to generate adequate numbers every night."
Errrr most women and couples COULDNT or WOULDNT?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Errrr most women and couples COULDNT or WOULDNT? "
Based on previous threads on the topic, couldn't. Not often enough to support all the clubs operating at the moment. |
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"This place is going to hell on a handcart
23 posts and not one single man has offered to take the OP to Ab Fabs....
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Ha ha ha ha ha ha! Obviously not interesting enough a person to warrant that kind of attention. Lol. |
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By *lovisMan
over a year ago
Twickenham |
"This place is going to hell on a handcart
23 posts and not one single man has offered to take the OP to Ab Fabs....
Ha ha ha ha ha ha! Obviously not interesting enough a person to warrant that kind of attention. Lol. "
Don't take it personally....
I'm certain you'd get plenty of attention on a Friday night at Ab Fabs.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This place is going to hell on a handcart
23 posts and not one single man has offered to take the OP to Ab Fabs....
Ha ha ha ha ha ha! Obviously not interesting enough a person to warrant that kind of attention. Lol. "
I'd offer, but you turned me down once already |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This place is going to hell on a handcart
23 posts and not one single man has offered to take the OP to Ab Fabs....
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Why would a woman need a man to take her to a club? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This place is going to hell on a handcart
23 posts and not one single man has offered to take the OP to Ab Fabs....
Why would a woman need a man to take her to a club?"
I believe it was meant as a joke - single women talking about going to clubs are typically inundated with offers from men hoping for cheap entry and a guaranteed shag. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Someone will always pay if only once
And therein lies the rub. If clubs charged for entry on a 'per head' basis, most women and couples couldn't go as often, the ratios attending would skew even more towards single men who would then stop going as well and clubs would close. Whereas, even if individual men only attend rarely due to the cost, there are enough of them to generate adequate numbers every night."
Single men heavily subsidise single women and couples. No point denying it. |
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" no sweety you're not being obtuse the clubs although paid for by the single guy inflated entry fees which at adfabs are in the £70 area for a single guy to get in ,chams £110 these clubs heavily favour single women and couples who form the basis of swinging ,so if you think about conventional night's out to the pub etc you would go on the basis of cost so how regular you went out would be related to that ,so single women who get in adfabs for £ 10 can make that a very regular cheap night out and couples to guys unfortunately have to save up and can only go now and again ,hope this helps
Wow, that is extortionate!
Actually, it's a £10 one off membership fee for everyone on first joining, single men pay £60 on Friday nights, but £40 on Monday's, Tuesday's and Wednesday's so not as expensive as some would have you believing."
Well, is that supposed to be cheap? Would you pay that to attend? |
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" no sweety you're not being obtuse the clubs although paid for by the single guy inflated entry fees which at adfabs are in the £70 area for a single guy to get in ,chams £110 these clubs heavily favour single women and couples who form the basis of swinging ,so if you think about conventional night's out to the pub etc you would go on the basis of cost so how regular you went out would be related to that ,so single women who get in adfabs for £ 10 can make that a very regular cheap night out and couples to guys unfortunately have to save up and can only go now and again ,hope this helps
Wow, that is extortionate!
Actually, it's a £10 one off membership fee for everyone on first joining, single men pay £60 on Friday nights, but £40 on Monday's, Tuesday's and Wednesday's so not as expensive as some would have you believing.
Well, is that supposed to be cheap? Would you pay that to attend?"
Yes I would. It's a lot less than a lot pay to go and watch a football game for example. |
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" no sweety you're not being obtuse the clubs although paid for by the single guy inflated entry fees which at adfabs are in the £70 area for a single guy to get in ,chams £110 these clubs heavily favour single women and couples who form the basis of swinging ,so if you think about conventional night's out to the pub etc you would go on the basis of cost so how regular you went out would be related to that ,so single women who get in adfabs for £ 10 can make that a very regular cheap night out and couples to guys unfortunately have to save up and can only go now and again ,hope this helps
Wow, that is extortionate!
Actually, it's a £10 one off membership fee for everyone on first joining, single men pay £60 on Friday nights, but £40 on Monday's, Tuesday's and Wednesday's so not as expensive as some would have you believing.
Well, is that supposed to be cheap? Would you pay that to attend?
Yes I would. It's a lot less than a lot pay to go and watch a football game for example."
More sex than a football match. Lol |
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" no sweety you're not being obtuse the clubs although paid for by the single guy inflated entry fees which at adfabs are in the £70 area for a single guy to get in ,chams £110 these clubs heavily favour single women and couples who form the basis of swinging ,so if you think about conventional night's out to the pub etc you would go on the basis of cost so how regular you went out would be related to that ,so single women who get in adfabs for £ 10 can make that a very regular cheap night out and couples to guys unfortunately have to save up and can only go now and again ,hope this helps
Wow, that is extortionate!
Actually, it's a £10 one off membership fee for everyone on first joining, single men pay £60 on Friday nights, but £40 on Monday's, Tuesday's and Wednesday's so not as expensive as some would have you believing.
Well, is that supposed to be cheap? Would you pay that to attend?
Yes I would. It's a lot less than a lot pay to go and watch a football game for example.
More sex than a football match. Lol"
You've clearly never been to a club with me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think they are having a monthly single girl night and that is purely for females and no males at all are allowed to attend.
So they are lesbian nights? Sounds interesting. Which clubs do them?"
I know the townhouse do women only events called 'indulgence' nights |
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Townhouse do women only nights and male only nights
Not all single women or couples only want single women
Lots of us refuse to attend couples only nights and actually want single men.
I've been known to chat up single men and enjoy mff with another single female |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I do a 'women's only' night round my place on Saturday night once a month at least!
Do a guy's only night too but it's a fiver for the FIFA Competition lads, winner takes all! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Townhouse do women only nights and male only nights
Not all single women or couples only want single women
Lots of us refuse to attend couples only nights and actually want single men.
I've been known to chat up single men and enjoy mff with another single female "
This
Don't understand why nights like New Years Eve are couples and single ladies only.
As a single lady, I'd much rather play with single men or have mmf. |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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If I'm going with a playmate I tend to prefer couples nights.
If I'm going by myself then I would be looking to interact with single men weather it's to socialise or play so the couples nights don't feel as comfortable to me in that situation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This place is going to hell on a handcart
23 posts and not one single man has offered to take the OP to Ab Fabs....
Ha ha ha ha ha ha! Obviously not interesting enough a person to warrant that kind of attention. Lol. "
I am a single man and I do not go to venues that over charge, that is what this site is all about isn't it? best to chat and meet here if you have the chance. I use Paradise, not a very up to date place but it is only £25 but there are no Christmas events? |
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So, yeah, having looked at the adfab site a bit more, many of their non-regular Titled parties say "couples and single women". But I wouldn't want to play with couples, or attached men. Which strikes all those events off my radar. Which only leaves me with times when single guys are "allowed". Which are kind of rare. Again, still don't really understand why...
Like, I understand if numbers of single men are capped, if there are many of them, but not why they're not invited altogether... Hm... |
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"So, yeah, having looked at the adfab site a bit more, many of their non-regular Titled parties say "couples and single women". But I wouldn't want to play with couples, or attached men. Which strikes all those events off my radar. Which only leaves me with times when single guys are "allowed". Which are kind of rare. Again, still don't really understand why...
Like, I understand if numbers of single men are capped, if there are many of them, but not why they're not invited altogether... Hm..."
Single guys are only TOLERATED because they are the geese that lay the golden eggs.
If couples had their way, they would play with only couples. Sort of you fuck my wife, I fuck yours. You don't have a woman for me to fuck, you can fuck off. They man in a couple would VET a single guy and give the green light first even if the woman is up for it. The man in a couple does not need the partner's VETTING before settling on a single woman.
Because of this issue, couples would rather play with other couples. |
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"So, yeah, having looked at the adfab site a bit more, many of their non-regular Titled parties say "couples and single women". But I wouldn't want to play with couples, or attached men. Which strikes all those events off my radar. Which only leaves me with times when single guys are "allowed". Which are kind of rare. Again, still don't really understand why...
Like, I understand if numbers of single men are capped, if there are many of them, but not why they're not invited altogether... Hm...
Single guys are only TOLERATED because they are the geese that lay the golden eggs.
If couples had their way, they would play with only couples. Sort of you fuck my wife, I fuck yours. You don't have a woman for me to fuck, you can fuck off. They man in a couple would VET a single guy and give the green light first even if the woman is up for it. The man in a couple does not need the partner's VETTING before settling on a single woman.
Because of this issue, couples would rather play with other couples. "
Really??!
You're saying women in couples need to have their play partner "approved" by the man in the couple, but the man doesn't need that "approval" for the female play partner he has? Seems a bit unbalanced... But *shrug* I've never been in the situation so can only shut up and learn...
"I do a singles night every night at mine any other singles wanna join ) Cracking night own space watch what u want lol. "
If I were in Manchester I'd be right in there! |
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"If couples had their way, they would play with only couples. Sort of you fuck my wife, I fuck yours. You don't have a woman for me to fuck, you can fuck off. They man in a couple would VET a single guy and give the green light first even if the woman is up for it. The man in a couple does not need the partner's VETTING before settling on a single woman.
Because of this issue, couples would rather play with other couples. "
Not all couples.
As a couple, my partner and I would rather play with single men or male/male couples.
But then again, he doesn't think he owns me either. Perhaps that's the difference. |
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"This place is going to hell on a handcart
23 posts and not one single man has offered to take the OP to Ab Fabs....
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I was going to say that... Or lady!... |
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