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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I know, I know... It's been said a millions times before....
But we were at Eureka's tonight (had a lovely time, thanks for asking) and noticed the same guys prowling up and down the single-friendly play rooms which were, of course, completely deserted because of the guys prowling up and down!
Considering it was a party, and people were all drinking and generally having a ball (wey-hey), if they'd have engaged with people, they'd have gotten such better luck. Silly sausages.
It just made me laugh and wanted to share. |
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By *hyguyMan
over a year ago
Sheffield |
"I know, I know... It's been said a millions times before....
But we were at Eureka's tonight (had a lovely time, thanks for asking) and noticed the same guys prowling up and down the single-friendly play rooms which were, of course, completely deserted because of the guys prowling up and down!
Considering it was a party, and people were all drinking and generally having a ball (wey-hey), if they'd have engaged with people, they'd have gotten such better luck. Silly sausages.
It just made me laugh and wanted to share. "
I must be one of those odd guys who go to clubs as I'm always chatting/laughing at the bar and have a fabulous time  
.. Much more fun than walking several miles and wearing the carpet out haha  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think if they have paid a large amount to get into the party they expect a plate with a slice of the cake on it for them to eat.
They don't expect to stand round talking the cake and cajoling it until it says 'oh go on then, eat me'
This isn't defending their behaviour btw, rather offering a somewhat slanted _iew of their mindset on entering.
Most will go in a club for a shag, not a chat that may lead to one.
They aren't there for the lifestyle, they are there to empty their balls.
The rest is just a means to an end.
Some just play the game better than others. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think if they have paid a large amount to get into the party they expect a plate with a slice of the cake on it for them to eat.
They don't expect to stand round talking the cake and cajoling it until it says 'oh go on then, eat me'
This isn't defending their behaviour btw, rather offering a somewhat slanted _iew of their mindset on entering.
Most will go in a club for a shag, not a chat that may lead to one.
They aren't there for the lifestyle, they are there to empty their balls.
The rest is just a means to an end.
Some just play the game better than others."
this with etiquette, viv la F&G emporiums oh you forgot empty their wallet to    hugs |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"I know, I know... It's been said a millions times before....
But we were at Eureka's tonight (had a lovely time, thanks for asking) and noticed the same guys prowling up and down the single-friendly play rooms which were, of course, completely deserted because of the guys prowling up and down!
Considering it was a party, and people were all drinking and generally having a ball (wey-hey), if they'd have engaged with people, they'd have gotten such better luck. Silly sausages.
It just made me laugh and wanted to share. "
did you go up and introduce yourself to any and started chatting |
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Ha ha yes. But that's why they are there as single guys. Because the best way to introduce yourself to a couple is the smell of fags and the sound of wanking behind you as you are in a mff. But if they had refrained from smoking and wore a suit and been chatting upstairs earlier. If have asked them to be on standby to fill holes as desired.
If I went to a club as a single guy I think I'd do a lot of fucking. But it would start with talking. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know, I know... It's been said a millions times before....
But we were at Eureka's tonight (had a lovely time, thanks for asking) and noticed the same guys prowling up and down the single-friendly play rooms which were, of course, completely deserted because of the guys prowling up and down!
Considering it was a party, and people were all drinking and generally having a ball (wey-hey), if they'd have engaged with people, they'd have gotten such better luck. Silly sausages.
It just made me laugh and wanted to share.
did you go up and introduce yourself to any and started chatting "
This.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think if they have paid a large amount to get into the party they expect a plate with a slice of the cake on it for them to eat.
They don't expect to stand round talking the cake and cajoling it until it says 'oh go on then, eat me'
This isn't defending their behaviour btw, rather offering a somewhat slanted _iew of their mindset on entering.
Most will go in a club for a shag, not a chat that may lead to one.
They aren't there for the lifestyle, they are there to empty their balls.
The rest is just a means to an end.
Some just play the game better than others."
Eurekas does not charge a lot of money. Their prices are extremely affordable so I don't think that is the reason they were hanging around outside the room.
It could be they lack social skills and that they expect to be approached. I have seen many couples usually the male approach the single male on the females behalf.
Also when in the throes of passion. I have seen the nearest cock being invited to play. Maybe other men have seen this too and think it will happen again as it has happened before. |
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It has always baffled us as to why single guys will follow couples around but can't crack open a conversation. That said it must be hard not knowing whether you'll be welcome or not. Why can't clubs hand out an orange whist band to females that are happy to be approached by single guys. Approach meaning start a conversation NOT walk up grab a tit and expect a BJ lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think if they have paid a large amount to get into the party they expect a plate with a slice of the cake on it for them to eat.
They don't expect to stand round talking the cake and cajoling it until it says 'oh go on then, eat me'
This isn't defending their behaviour btw, rather offering a somewhat slanted _iew of their mindset on entering.
Most will go in a club for a shag, not a chat that may lead to one.
They aren't there for the lifestyle, they are there to empty their balls.
The rest is just a means to an end.
Some just play the game better than others.
Eurekas does not charge a lot of money. Their prices are extremely affordable so I don't think that is the reason they were hanging around outside the room.
It could be they lack social skills and that they expect to be approached. I have seen many couples usually the male approach the single male on the females behalf.
Also when in the throes of passion. I have seen the nearest cock being invited to play. Maybe other men have seen this too and think it will happen again as it has happened before. "
Take the cost out of the equation then ... the scenario still stands
Many men don't frequent clubs to socialise. They go down The Dog & Duck for that.
I do understand peoples frustrations with this kind of behaviour, but counter it against the attitude of a poster above
Who's right and who's wrong here ?
I dare say, in many instances, both parties |
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"It has always baffled us as to why single guys will follow couples around but can't crack open a conversation. That said it must be hard not knowing whether you'll be welcome or not. Why can't clubs hand out an orange whist band to females that are happy to be approached by single guys. Approach meaning start a conversation NOT walk up grab a tit and expect a BJ lol "
I'll have to agree with this. The first time I went I knew nobody. The worst part was not knowing who is looking for single guys.
Now the worst part was when I actually went up to a couple to ask was the actual disdainful looks that I got.
The second time I went......I had arranged to meet at the club. Because I was "with" This couple I was treated differently.
These were at two different clubs so maybe it was the vibe that was different but hereby of I got disdainful looks from one couple.
I agree with the above comments on wearing an indicator but certain couples can also act in a distasteful manner towards guys.
I'm not advocating the behaviour from guys just saying it's a two way street. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wonder what single women would do if they were alone in clubs and no one approached them."
I wander around watching people fuck. I don't talk to couples because they are generally so up their own arses it's untrue. I'm not into all that elitist swinger shit.
(I've chatted to some lovely couples too. They aren't all rude eejits.) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not all clubs are clique so single blokes don't stand a chance. Go to a friendly one which will give you a better chance of meeting. Or go to a greedy girls if you don't want to socialise. Mr W |
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By *amYam16Man
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
The rubber band suggestion is a good idea. Would help everyone know what they are looking for
Like a traffic light system green band = couples only
Orange band = single men welcome
Red band = avoid lol |
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By *UNCHBOXMan
over a year ago
folkestone |
I've been to clubs on many occasions and i don't think i've ever been approached by a couple to talk to me. I'd get quite bored if i was to just follow couples round the club all night, and so try to talk to as many people as i can, but some can be difficult to try to engage with, even on a simple 'where have you come from?' etc etc.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" I'd have asked them to be on standby ...
Really ? I mean really ?
Yes. When you start off in a mff you quite often would like to change the dynamic. I'm pretty good at orchestrating things. X"
Am sorry, but if anyone asked me to be on standby they would be told where to get off
These are guys you are referring to, not toys there for your gratification
That said, am sure there are guys that would go to any end to get a shag
They need some lessons in self respect |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" I'd have asked them to be on standby ...
Really ? I mean really ?
Yes. When you start off in a mff you quite often would like to change the dynamic. I'm pretty good at orchestrating things. X
Am sorry, but if anyone asked me to be on standby they would be told where to get off
These are guys you are referring to, not toys there for your gratification
That said, am sure there are guys that would go to any end to get a shag
They need some lessons in self respect "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wonder what single women would do if they were alone in clubs and no one approached them. they would have a wank in front of a couple !!! "
Really ? Lol ! I go to Eurekas alone! |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
see... i do have this conversation with some blokes who do the "patrolling/wandering around/grooves in the carpet"..... i also have the same conversatin with couples who complain they can't find anyone to play with....
"all good conversations (and a fair few shitty ones) start off with the same word....... HELLO!!!!"
if they word scares ya, you have no hope....
an "hello" isn't some sort of M.O or codeword to try and get into someone's knickers... its just a hello!!!
if people read more into a hello than that... their problem, not yours (normally tell by the scowl you get in return..... but those then to be the exception rather than the norm)
I actually find the best places to chat or just to say hello to people is the bar... or the outdoor space with the smokers (even though i don't anymore)
when you tell some people you probably have a better chance of playing with people if you have spoken to them, than if you had not (this names stuff... who knew it can make people feel more personable than just a random "random!!!)" you do get a confused look as if you have just give them war and peace to read |
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"see... i do have this conversation with some blokes who do the "patrolling/wandering around/grooves in the carpet"..... i also have the same conversatin with couples who complain they can't find anyone to play with....
"all good conversations (and a fair few shitty ones) start off with the same word....... HELLO!!!!"
if they word scares ya, you have no hope....
an "hello" isn't some sort of M.O or codeword to try and get into someone's knickers... its just a hello!!!
if people read more into a hello than that... their problem, not yours (normally tell by the scowl you get in return..... but those then to be the exception rather than the norm)
I actually find the best places to chat or just to say hello to people is the bar... or the outdoor space with the smokers (even though i don't anymore)
when you tell some people you probably have a better chance of playing with people if you have spoken to them, than if you had not (this names stuff... who knew it can make people feel more personable than just a random "random!!!)" you do get a confused look as if you have just give them war and peace to read "
we find hello works really well! |
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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago
Southend |
"I think if they have paid a large amount to get into the party they expect a plate with a slice of the cake on it for them to eat.
They don't expect to stand round talking the cake and cajoling it until it says 'oh go on then, eat me'
This isn't defending their behaviour btw, rather offering a somewhat slanted _iew of their mindset on entering.
Most will go in a club for a shag, not a chat that may lead to one.
They aren't there for the lifestyle, they are there to empty their balls.
The rest is just a means to an end.
Some just play the game better than others."
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It may be some of the single guys that 'patrol' are single due to a lack of social skills. Sorry guys, But if you cannot talk to people in the outside world, It is highly unlikely you will have much success in a club.
I've just given a similar reply in another thread as I will here. Treat it like a night out. Talk to people. If you get a bit fun it is a bonus.
I'm there for the no strings aspect. I know all the ladies there, single or in a couple are not looking for anything long term.
Guys if it is just a fuck you want. There are plenty of ladies out there you can hire for that. |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"I know, I know... It's been said a millions times before....
But we were at Eureka's tonight (had a lovely time, thanks for asking) and noticed the same guys prowling up and down the single-friendly play rooms which were, of course, completely deserted because of the guys prowling up and down!
Considering it was a party, and people were all drinking and generally having a ball (wey-hey), if they'd have engaged with people, they'd have gotten such better luck. Silly sausages.
It just made me laugh and wanted to share. "
I see them often enough; darting out of one room and into another. They never stop anywhere long enough to chat with anyone or give anyone a chance to chat to them. I've nicknamed them 'meerkats'
Having said that, it must be daunting for a single guy to approach a group who are already in conversation. Last night at a party, I saw a guy who took my fancy. I made all the necessary eye-contact, smiled at him, but nothing seemed to work. I was in a group of three people and finally, I just looked at him and asked him to join us and he did gladly. And he wasn't even the shy type  |
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I see them often enough; darting out of one room and into another. They never stop anywhere long enough to chat with anyone or give anyone a chance to chat to them. I've nicknamed them 'meerkats'
Having said that, it must be daunting for a single guy to approach a group who are already in conversation. Last night at a party, I saw a guy who took my fancy. I made all the necessary eye-contact, smiled at him, but nothing seemed to work. I was in a group of three people and finally, I just looked at him and asked him to join us and he did gladly. And he wasn't even the shy type "
LOL @ The Meercats. I agree it is exceedingly difficult to talk to groups. I am also terrible at picking up signals to come over and talk. I tend to speak to couples who are not in a group as it is a bit easier.
Worst I saw recently was last Wednesday in Infusion. A large gentleman lay in the orgy room naked the whole night from around 9 to midnight, Pulling his pecker. Unsurprisingly nobody used the room the whole night. |
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" I'd have asked them to be on standby ...
Really ? I mean really ?
Yes. When you start off in a mff you quite often would like to change the dynamic. I'm pretty good at orchestrating things. X
Am sorry, but if anyone asked me to be on standby they would be told where to get off
These are guys you are referring to, not toys there for your gratification
That said, am sure there are guys that would go to any end to get a shag
They need some lessons in self respect "
I don't think anyone is particularly interested in being judged by you. I've not gone to a club as a single guy but I would imagine an offer of watching two hot women fucking and then the chance to join in is pretty good. Don't think many guys would knock that back. |
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By *teed99Man
over a year ago
Kettering |
I'm a regular visitor at The Vanilla Alternative and we never get couples or single ladies being followed anywhere. As the club has an open play format, everyone can see exactly what is going on and the single guys on Friday nights make every effort to socialise in the bar and snug areas earlier in the evening before moving down to the massive hot tub to continue chatting with the rest of the visitors.
With single guy numbers restricted to a maximum of 10, couples and single ladies can socialise and have fun in a way that suits them. Yes, single guys watch but usually from a distance and by using just a little common sense, find no shortage of visitors wishing to have them join in, when that is what they want.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wonder what single women would do if they were alone in clubs and no one approached them."
As if that is likely? Not that many single women in clubs..... |
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" I'd have asked them to be on standby ...
Really ? I mean really ?
Yes. When you start off in a mff you quite often would like to change the dynamic. I'm pretty good at orchestrating things. X
Am sorry, but if anyone asked me to be on standby they would be told where to get off
These are guys you are referring to, not toys there for your gratification
That said, am sure there are guys that would go to any end to get a shag
They need some lessons in self respect
I don't think anyone is particularly interested in being judged by you. I've not gone to a club as a single guy but I would imagine an offer of watching two hot women fucking and then the chance to join in is pretty good. Don't think many guys would knock that back. "
Depends on his definition of hot I guess |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" I've not gone to a club as a single guy ... "
Yet are quite willing to 'use' single guys to suit your own needs and treat them like accessories at your beck and call : way to go |
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I once went to a club (which i am not naming) alone.
I was at the bar drinking coffee, dressed and chatting to the lady behind the bar.
A couple came to the bar next to me and i simply said
'Good evening'
The guy of the couple said said
'dont waste your time we dont play with single men'
the girl with him and the woman behind the bar (who clearly knew them) burst out laughing.
I put down my coffee and left !
So whilst I accept some men's behavoir is unacceptable; we are not the only ones who need lessons in civility !! |
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By *ohndelMan
over a year ago
Preston |
Interesting debate. I visit well known club in Manchester, as a single fella. Most of the regulars detest the groups of patrolling men, it is demeaning for everyone, however some do get lucky, using this tactic.
However the much debated topic, that single men, cannot do right for doing wrong. By that, if a single fella approaches a couple, is he interfering, if he doesn't, us he ignoring them.
Like a pub, the best place is the bar, where sooner or later everyone has to go to, and at least their you can start a dialogue, albeit probably brief, without getting into to much trouble
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"I once went to a club (which i am not naming) alone.
I was at the bar drinking coffee, dressed and chatting to the lady behind the bar.
A couple came to the bar next to me and i simply said
'Good evening'
The guy of the couple said said
'dont waste your time we dont play with single men'
the girl with him and the woman behind the bar (who clearly knew them) burst out laughing.
I put down my coffee and left !
So whilst I accept some men's behavoir is unacceptable; we are not the only ones who need lessons in civility !! "
Totally agree there is no excuse for anyone being rude to another. A person can easily explain they don't want singles politely.
Personally I feel you should of contacted the club owners regarding the unprofessional behaviour of the hostess. It shoudn't matter if they are regular or not. |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
"I wonder what single women would do if they were alone in clubs and no one approached them.
As if that is likely? Not that many single women in clubs....."
I go to a local club once or twice a month alone. Sitting by the bar chatting to staff and a variety of people nearby. Maybe you're not going to the right clubs if you don't normally see single ladies! |
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" I'd have asked them to be on standby ...
Really ? I mean really ?
Yes. When you start off in a mff you quite often would like to change the dynamic. I'm pretty good at orchestrating things. X"
Wow. Just wow   |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
In the 5 or 6 years years I have been visiting clubs, I have only ever had to complain four times; twice about single guys and twice about couples. That is not too bad considering that I have been to various clubs well over 100 times
Yes, there are the meerkats and the loners but I don't see them as a problem. The zombies and penguins can be annoying but are still not a problem
For me, the problem is if someone touches me without permission or is rude. And that is very rare |
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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago
Nr Manchester |
"I once went to a club (which i am not naming) alone.
I was at the bar drinking coffee, dressed and chatting to the lady behind the bar.
A couple came to the bar next to me and i simply said
'Good evening'
The guy of the couple said said
'dont waste your time we dont play with single men'
the girl with him and the woman behind the bar (who clearly knew them) burst out laughing.
I put down my coffee and left !
So whilst I accept some men's behavoir is unacceptable; we are not the only ones who need lessons in civility !! "
You are right about the need to be civil. I would suggest that under our 21st century exterior lurks a caveman. The caveman wants to protect his mate and is anxious about confrontation. It takes two people to be civil so I guess that the fear is that me - as the male of the couple - being civil - might not be met with civility in return.
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"This is why we only go on nights for couples and single females. "
In our experience, they are the worst! Not all, but can be much more entitled than single men .... which is why we avoid couples nights.... |
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"I'm not a big talker in clubs, I like to watch how people interact, but see no need to participate.
Surely that's the advantage of a club?"
For some people looking to hook up that may be what they want. From what I have experienced most do want to talk to the other person first.
Using this as an example. Most clubs will let bi guys in. If as a straight guy, A bi guy started following you around or trying to touch you up. Would you be happy? |
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"I'm not a big talker in clubs, I like to watch how people interact, but see no need to participate.
Surely that's the advantage of a club?
For some people looking to hook up that may be what they want. From what I have experienced most do want to talk to the other person first.
Using this as an example. Most clubs will let bi guys in. If as a straight guy, A bi guy started following you around or trying to touch you up. Would you be happy?"
Totally different, I have massive personal space...
But I see no need for them to even come over, when two people are mutually attracted you just know...
Acting on any less is wasting energy. |
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"I'm not a big talker in clubs, I like to watch how people interact, but see no need to participate.
Surely that's the advantage of a club?
For some people looking to hook up that may be what they want. From what I have experienced most do want to talk to the other person first.
Using this as an example. Most clubs will let bi guys in. If as a straight guy, A bi guy started following you around or trying to touch you up. Would you be happy?
Totally different, I have massive personal space...
But I see no need for them to even come over, when two people are mutually attracted you just know...
Acting on any less is wasting energy."
But that is exactly the point, A lot of these ladies do not give any indication of interest yet still get followed.
I reiterate, Would you think it acceptable for a bi guy to follow you round the club or stand next to you pulling his pud? I'm guessing no hence why conversation in most cases is needed.
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"I wonder what single women would do if they were alone in clubs and no one approached them."
I go to a club alone and would not dream of not talking to all sorts of people. I want to be in the company of likeminded adults and if fun happens with an attractive man, great. If not, its not the end of the world but I would still would of had a good time there.
I would not be a sad bugger and expect it to be down to someone else to approach me. |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
I only read about half a dozen of the posts and its annoyed me abit. Single men get a really hard time of it. In my opinion the single men I've met in clubs have mostly been respectful. Yes they want to fuck, but isn't that the whole point of swingers clubs?
People need to remember that clubs are for everyone, most clubs have nights where single men aren't allowed, if you don't like single guys stick to couples nights! |
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"I wonder what single women would do if they were alone in clubs and no one approached them."
they would probably just talk to one another and maybe some would get off with one another while the rest would probably get d*unk....dance and maybe get into fights/arguments with one another. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I once went to a club (which i am not naming) alone.
I was at the bar drinking coffee, dressed and chatting to the lady behind the bar.
A couple came to the bar next to me and i simply said
'Good evening'
The guy of the couple said said
'dont waste your time we dont play with single men'
the girl with him and the woman behind the bar (who clearly knew them) burst out laughing.
I put down my coffee and left !
So whilst I accept some men's behavoir is unacceptable; we are not the only ones who need lessons in civility !!
Totally agree there is no excuse for anyone being rude to another. A person can easily explain they don't want singles politely.
Personally I feel you should of contacted the club owners regarding the unprofessional behaviour of the hostess. It shoudn't matter if they are regular or not. "
Unfortunately some women and couples think that sort of behaviour is acceptable.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I only read about half a dozen of the posts and its annoyed me abit. Single men get a really hard time of it. In my opinion the single men I've met in clubs have mostly been respectful. Yes they want to fuck, but isn't that the whole point of swingers clubs?
People need to remember that clubs are for everyone, most clubs have nights where single men aren't allowed, if you don't like single guys stick to couples nights! "
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"I wonder what single women would do if they were alone in clubs and no one approached them."
I went to a local club on my own recently....only 2 people spoke to me.....and they were single guys......the women in couples just looked me up and down and ignored me even when I started chatting....don't think I'll bother going back there.....  |
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"I wonder what single women would do if they were alone in clubs and no one approached them.
I went to a local club on my own recently....only 2 people spoke to me.....and they were single guys......the women in couples just looked me up and down and ignored me even when I started chatting....don't think I'll bother going back there..... "
I've had the same. I just ignore them now. It's really no wonder guys just walk around silently. Too many couples are rude or ignorant when you try chatting... why bother?!
They don't stop me going though. Some guys are lovely. They like having someone that actually treats them like a human being. |
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" I'd have asked them to be on standby ...
Really ? I mean really ?
Yes. When you start off in a mff you quite often would like to change the dynamic. I'm pretty good at orchestrating things. X
Am sorry, but if anyone asked me to be on standby they would be told where to get off
These are guys you are referring to, not toys there for your gratification
That said, am sure there are guys that would go to any end to get a shag
They need some lessons in self respect "
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