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Singles night at chams idea- part 2
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By *eeley OP Woman
over a year ago
Dudley |
So, I thought I'd continue this on since the other thread got closed. I'm going to make a list of interested parties to the management this weekend so anyone else who is interested could you please let me know asap? Thanks |
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We d be interested as a couple please. We have always found the single guys completely respectful whenever we have visited the club. There does seem to be the same faces though so some new faces may spice things up a bit. As another post said, a lot of single guys are put off Chams because they believe there is a long waiting list so this may help the club get some fresh blood through the doors and they will always, as ever, vet behaviour and manage their ratios accordingly. Go for it ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We would be interested. We are a couple but play as singles. We are members and travel down often for a Friday night anyway so hopefully this new night is on a weekend ?? |
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Keeley
Can I first offer my support for you making the effort to actually do something for the greater good.
First up whilst I would be happy to put my name down it would be off little use as I am only an occasional visitor to Chams and only go when travelling that way. ( I am a member already so no real need).
I would like to make a couple of observations –
‘not enough single guys in the club’ I can fully understand the how that can be said even when there is a ratio of 5:1 of an evening – actually what is being said is there aren’t enough appropriate single guys. Hey I quite often have fun at Chams even when there is a plethora of blokes – so that gives an idea of the competition !
‘Sausage fest’ – I understand that this is not to satisfy the ‘greedier girls out here who like the attention of 4+ guys at a time – I think you want to make this clearer. I am assuming it it for ladies who like 1:1 attention with maybe a dabble with 2:1 but want extra choice to achieve this .
If I may make a suggestion. This will work best if a) – someone bothers to spend a lot of time matching requirements and b) - it is not publicised.
You need to go through the ladies who have expressed an interest or commented on the lack of numbers and find out their requirements – I imagine there will be demand for the tall guys in there 30’s with a sixpack (oh how far away am I from that !) - as I presume there are the least represented in clubs. There will I am sure those not so specific but requiring some limits appendage / colours / builds. You would then need to trawl the list of those interested to check which boxes they tick and ask the reciprocal questions on type. Then it would be a question of matching supply to demand and privately suggesting a night to hold the event and get people together – you give a list to the management having cleared them to attend as guests for the event so membership isn’t an issue and if you have 5 ladies wanting to attend you choose maybe the guys at a 2:1 ratio to their needs. As I assume there will be some overlap there would be a good chance that half the guys there will appeal in some form or other to all of the ladies - You don’t need to let each person know the matches. As you may have noticed this is very similar to arranging a small party – lots of work.
The idea behind not advertising the date is that all that will happen is that all the members of chams on here will pile in on the night and ruin the balance and it will just be like any other Friday.
Of course you have no idea of the guys (or girls) who come along will the type you would like to converse with etc. but as long as they know the etiquette it is sex appeal rather than companionship which is required.
There are of course all the other people that may be there on the night anyway so it may work even better.
Management gets some extra visitors – and hopefully new members of both genders going forwards – people get to try the club out with less hassle than normal ( I presume they will have to bring ID still) WIN WIN
But a lot of work! – fun though :-
Right I shall shut up now.
Alan
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So, I thought I'd continue this on since the other thread got closed. I'm going to make a list of interested parties to the management this weekend so anyone else who is interested could you please let me know asap? Thanks "
Count me in please madam! Sounds a super idea  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So, I thought I'd continue this on since the other thread got closed. I'm going to make a list of interested parties to the management this weekend so anyone else who is interested could you please let me know asap? Thanks
Count me in please madam! Sounds a super idea "
I know we are couple but can we come he will sit in the corner and do as he is told  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So, I've got the list and it seems good, just got to check with chams that the ratio is ok.
What night would people prefer? "
No particular day, I work rotating shifts so will have to hope the night in question falls right for me. |
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By *eeley OP Woman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"I wouldn't be able to do an afternoon as I work till 6.30 but any evening would be good "
Okies.
Save double posting ill add this onto my reply.
If this all goes ahead I'll private message everyone on the guest list to tell them the date, this will prevent the club being bombarded with randomers.
Please, if you want to attend this event let me know here or private message me. If you're not a member or not on the list (single guys) you probably won't get in! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok, I've put all your names down and a Friday night has been agreed by the club, just need to decide which one lol. "
Will it be this side of new year or after? |
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By *eeley OP Woman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"Ok, I've put all your names down and a Friday night has been agreed by the club, just need to decide which one lol.
Will it be this side of new year or after? "
This side I hope, I'll have a chat to the manager on Friday, I'm hoping it will be the end of Nov/ beginning of Dec time |
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"Ok, I've put all your names down and a Friday night has been agreed by the club, just need to decide which one lol.
Will it be this side of new year or after?
This side I hope, I'll have a chat to the manager on Friday, I'm hoping it will be the end of Nov/ beginning of Dec time "
My birthday beginning of December so could be a fun birthday night out for me. |
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By *eeley OP Woman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"Ok, I've put all your names down and a Friday night has been agreed by the club, just need to decide which one lol.
Will it be this side of new year or after?
This side I hope, I'll have a chat to the manager on Friday, I'm hoping it will be the end of Nov/ beginning of Dec time
My birthday beginning of December so could be a fun birthday night out for me. "
I'll take that into consideration |
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"Ok, I've put all your names down and a Friday night has been agreed by the club, just need to decide which one lol. "
Can I make a plea for the 20th of November, purely because I'm definitely free  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok, I've put all your names down and a Friday night has been agreed by the club, just need to decide which one lol.
Can I make a plea for the 20th of November, purely because I'm definitely free "
Oh and I'm off work that weekend too |
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"Ok, I've put all your names down and a Friday night has been agreed by the club, just need to decide which one lol.
Can I make a plea for the 20th of November, purely because I'm definitely free
Oh and I'm off work that weekend too "
I'd say that's sorted then |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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id like to know about the date too..please several on here my friends so can they let me know, as my filters are on..thank you xx
i havent visited chams either..so if i need to do anything before hand, is there a procedure as a single female ? |
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"id like to know about the date too..please several on here my friends so can they let me know, as my filters are on..thank you xx
i havent visited chams either..so if i need to do anything before hand, is there a procedure as a single female ?"
Hi Suzy, as you're on my friend list I'll be happy to let you know the date.
As a single female you should be able to get membership by turning up on the night, (single ladies always in demand) but to be sure you could phone the club before driving up. |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
"id like to know about the date too..please several on here my friends so can they let me know, as my filters are on..thank you xx
i havent visited chams either..so if i need to do anything before hand, is there a procedure as a single female ?
Hi Suzy, as you're on my friend list I'll be happy to let you know the date.
As a single female you should be able to get membership by turning up on the night, (single ladies always in demand) but to be sure you could phone the club before driving up. "
thankyou honey, id really appreciate that, and yes, i can do that phone before hand..i have ID too, if its necessary x does it cost to join for a female do you know? x |
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By *eeley OP Woman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"id like to know about the date too..please several on here my friends so can they let me know, as my filters are on..thank you xx
i havent visited chams either..so if i need to do anything before hand, is there a procedure as a single female ?"
As a female you can just turn up as membership and entry is free. |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
"id like to know about the date too..please several on here my friends so can they let me know, as my filters are on..thank you xx
i havent visited chams either..so if i need to do anything before hand, is there a procedure as a single female ?
As a female you can just turn up as membership and entry is free."
thankyou very much _eeley for that information and organizing the opportunity xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"id like to know about the date too..please several on here my friends so can they let me know, as my filters are on..thank you xx
i havent visited chams either..so if i need to do anything before hand, is there a procedure as a single female ?
As a female you can just turn up as membership and entry is free."
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By *eeley OP Woman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"id like to know about the date too..please several on here my friends so can they let me know, as my filters are on..thank you xx
i havent visited chams either..so if i need to do anything before hand, is there a procedure as a single female ?
As a female you can just turn up as membership and entry is free. "
Don't tell me you're shocked by that? |
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"id like to know about the date too..please several on here my friends so can they let me know, as my filters are on..thank you xx
i havent visited chams either..so if i need to do anything before hand, is there a procedure as a single female ?
As a female you can just turn up as membership and entry is free.
thankyou very much _eeley for that information and organizing the opportunity xx"
Oooohhhhh I could actually meet you if we are both able to attend!!! |
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"id like to know about the date too..please several on here my friends so can they let me know, as my filters are on..thank you xx
i havent visited chams either..so if i need to do anything before hand, is there a procedure as a single female ?
Hi Suzy, as you're on my friend list I'll be happy to let you know the date.
As a single female you should be able to get membership by turning up on the night, (single ladies always in demand) but to be sure you could phone the club before driving up.
thankyou honey, id really appreciate that, and yes, i can do that phone before hand..i have ID too, if its necessary x does it cost to join for a female do you know? x"
Bring your ID, as I took a newbie female there before and they asked to see her ID before they issued a membership. As Keely said membership is free and free entry too for single ladies. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"id like to know about the date too..please several on here my friends so can they let me know, as my filters are on..thank you xx
i havent visited chams either..so if i need to do anything before hand, is there a procedure as a single female ?
As a female you can just turn up as membership and entry is free.
Don't tell me you're shocked by that?"
You said it |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
"id like to know about the date too..please several on here my friends so can they let me know, as my filters are on..thank you xx
i havent visited chams either..so if i need to do anything before hand, is there a procedure as a single female ?
As a female you can just turn up as membership and entry is free.
thankyou very much _eeley for that information and organizing the opportunity xx
Oooohhhhh I could actually meet you if we are both able to attend!!! "
claps hands excitedly xx  |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
"id like to know about the date too..please several on here my friends so can they let me know, as my filters are on..thank you xx
i havent visited chams either..so if i need to do anything before hand, is there a procedure as a single female ?
Hi Suzy, as you're on my friend list I'll be happy to let you know the date.
As a single female you should be able to get membership by turning up on the night, (single ladies always in demand) but to be sure you could phone the club before driving up.
thankyou honey, id really appreciate that, and yes, i can do that phone before hand..i have ID too, if its necessary x does it cost to join for a female do you know? x
Bring your ID, as I took a newbie female there before and they asked to see her ID before they issued a membership. As Keely said membership is free and free entry too for single ladies."
i will do. thankyou. it would be good to see you too sweet x |
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By *educedWoman
over a year ago
Birmingham |
"id like to know about the date too..please several on here my friends so can they let me know, as my filters are on..thank you xx
i havent visited chams either..so if i need to do anything before hand, is there a procedure as a single female ?
Hi Suzy, as you're on my friend list I'll be happy to let you know the date.
As a single female you should be able to get membership by turning up on the night, (single ladies always in demand) but to be sure you could phone the club before driving up.
thankyou honey, id really appreciate that, and yes, i can do that phone before hand..i have ID too, if its necessary x does it cost to join for a female do you know? x
Bring your ID, as I took a newbie female there before and they asked to see her ID before they issued a membership. As Keely said membership is free and free entry too for single ladies.
i will do. thankyou. it would be good to see you too sweet x"
Woo hoo. Be good to see you |
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