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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi,
I have never been to a swingers club before but I'm really keen to try.
Chameleons is I think the closest to me in darlaston. What's their policy on single guys? When I walk through the doors for the first time, what should I be expecting?
If any ladies wanted a virgin date to take along then please message me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi,
I have never been to a swingers club before but I'm really keen to try.
Chameleons is I think the closest to me in darlaston. What's their policy on single guys? When I walk through the doors for the first time, what should I be expecting?
If any ladies wanted a virgin date to take along then please message me!"
The first thing you should do is contact them about single male membership I know it's not always immediately available because of over subscription |
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"Hi,
I have never been to a swingers club before but I'm really keen to try.
Chameleons is I think the closest to me in darlaston. What's their policy on single guys? When I walk through the doors for the first time, what should I be expecting?
If any ladies wanted a virgin date to take along then please message me!"
I was just going to say as mentioned already you should contact them first about single male membership |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi Matty
Yes like others of said do not attempt to just turn up and get in , you do have to become a member and pretty sure there is a waiting list for single guy membership
Awesome club though and well worth the wait
Best to phone them first
Xtasia is also a option for you , again another great club and as far as we are aware it's easier to get membership
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By *oo hotCouple
over a year ago
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"Was told by a guy on here recently that took 12months to get Chams membership"
That seems ridiculous. Maybe they should cancel memberships of those that haven't been for a year and keep things fluid. Those that go regularly stay members and those that have a break and want to come back they reapply. Chams needs more single guys in the 35-45 bracket.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Although I'm not male, I got my name on a party guest list from the club meets section
you don't need membership to go on a guestlist, which was a good thing for me as was visiting (I'm five hours away)
I'm sure it still applies to men, still need I.d at the door
it would be a good way of seeing if you like it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I paid as a guest a few times, which is more expensive than a memeber would pay, then they offered me full memebership, prob best to turn up with your I.D and ask if you can go in as a guest for a night. |
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"Was told by a guy on here recently that took 12months to get Chams membership
That seems ridiculous. Maybe they should cancel memberships of those that haven't been for a year and keep things fluid. Those that go regularly stay members and those that have a break and want to come back they reapply. Chams needs more single guys in the 35-45 bracket.
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Single male membership is an annual thing anyway. |
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always best to contact the club. the 12 months wait was told to us by a guy who was going for first time and said he'd literally registered on a waiting list a year previously. Club may well have different options for bi bights/party with guest nights etc. Can't comment on Xtasia as not been lucky enough to get there yet |
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It is easier for single men to get a bi night membership but that means that you can only attend on bi nights.
It is aimed a bi sexual men. Clearly if you are not comfortable with attention from men or by seeing sex take place between men then you should not consider it.
Even if you are you need to realise that straight men who get bi night membership are taking places away from bi men. |
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"Was told by a guy on here recently that took 12months to get Chams membership
That seems ridiculous. Maybe they should cancel memberships of those that haven't been for a year and keep things fluid. Those that go regularly stay members and those that have a break and want to come back they reapply. Chams needs more single guys in the 35-45 bracket.
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I totally agree I think they should re-look at the guys memberships to see when they were last used if that's at all possible. Definitely need some new young guys  |
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"Was told by a guy on here recently that took 12months to get Chams membership
That seems ridiculous. Maybe they should cancel memberships of those that haven't been for a year and keep things fluid. Those that go regularly stay members and those that have a break and want to come back they reapply. Chams needs more single guys in the 35-45 bracket.
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Well seeing as single male membership is only 12 months anyway..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Was told by a guy on here recently that took 12months to get Chams membership
That seems ridiculous. Maybe they should cancel memberships of those that haven't been for a year and keep things fluid. Those that go regularly stay members and those that have a break and want to come back they reapply. Chams needs more single guys in the 35-45 bracket.
I totally agree I think they should re-look at the guys memberships to see when they were last used if that's at all possible. Definitely need some new young guys "
Agree with the above - but can we make it 25-45 please?? Adore hot men with hot, athletic, muscled toned bodies!
Getting all excited now just thinking about it!
Mmmmmmm!   |
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"Was told by a guy on here recently that took 12months to get Chams membership
That seems ridiculous. Maybe they should cancel memberships of those that haven't been for a year and keep things fluid. Those that go regularly stay members and those that have a break and want to come back they reapply. Chams needs more single guys in the 35-45 bracket.
I totally agree I think they should re-look at the guys memberships to see when they were last used if that's at all possible. Definitely need some new young guys
Agree with the above - but can we make it 25-45 please?? Adore hot men with hot, athletic, muscled toned bodies!
Getting all excited now just thinking about it!
Mmmmmmm! "
Wow Paula yeah you do look amazing on your pictures. Loved em and great profile  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Was told by a guy on here recently that took 12months to get Chams membership
That seems ridiculous. Maybe they should cancel memberships of those that haven't been for a year and keep things fluid. Those that go regularly stay members and those that have a break and want to come back they reapply. Chams needs more single guys in the 35-45 bracket.
I totally agree I think they should re-look at the guys memberships to see when they were last used if that's at all possible. Definitely need some new young guys
Agree with the above - but can we make it 25-45 please?? Adore hot men with hot, athletic, muscled toned bodies!
Getting all excited now just thinking about it!
Mmmmmmm!
Wow Paula yeah you do look amazing on your pictures. Loved em and great profile "
Thank you! Most kind! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it is possible to get membership quicker but you need to get known.
The guestlist at a social is a good way - no membership required. I know as I have organised chat socials there.
Being introduced by a couple or female means they will probably let you in as a guest for one visit then they will see how suitable you are.
As someone says membership is annual so, by definition, they will have had to have been there in the past year.
I wouldn't suggest bi night unless you are bi as you risk being "found out" you will never get in again probably.
It's misinformation and rumour that is the curse of trying to get membership - none of the above is a state secret - some of it may just work. |
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By *amdacarrCouple
over a year ago
lincoln and chameleons |
I totally agree I think they should re-look at the guys memberships to see when they were last used if that's at all possible. Definitely need some new young guys
Totally agree. Would be nice to see a few (OK a lot lol) of fit young guys under 30 there |
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"Was told by a guy on here recently that took 12months to get Chams membership
That seems ridiculous. Maybe they should cancel memberships of those that haven't been for a year and keep things fluid. Those that go regularly stay members and those that have a break and want to come back they reapply. Chams needs more single guys in the 35-45 bracket.
I totally agree I think they should re-look at the guys memberships to see when they were last used if that's at all possible. Definitely need some new young guys
Agree with the above - but can we make it 25-45 please?? Adore hot men with hot, athletic, muscled toned bodies!
Getting all excited now just thinking about it!
Mmmmmmm!
Wow Paula yeah you do look amazing on your pictures. Loved em and great profile
Thank you! Most kind! "
No problem. Anytime |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
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Only reason why I haven't gone to chams in ages is having to wait for single guy membership period can't be bothered which does means I don't get to see some of the cpls and females in the Midlands |
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