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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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As some of you may know we have recently been arranging social nights for those into the lifestyle in the North West. It's been fun but always seeking to make these nights better for those attending. At the moment we in talks to have an exclusive night in a swingers club for only those that are into the lifestyle which would take place once a month. The point of this post is to ask you all what would you like to see at these parties? All feedback welcome as we wish to make these nights successful for everyone seeing that a) there is such a large scene and b) full of diverse elements. These nights would possibly be on a tuesday or a sunday so also which would people prefer? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sunday for us
As all cucks should know there place and make their lovely hotwifes enjoy the best including the best bulls maybe each cuck should be responsible for ensuring at least 2 bulls attended covering travel costs entry and buying them drink for the night.as many bulls have failed to show up for these events time we make sure they attended to Sat Nov our Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What was the last party like? Shame we missed it. Many bulls there? "
Was an an even split we believe between couples and bulls. A few extra people came down to the club to have a nosey as well so was a pretty good night. We certainly hope you'll be able to make it to the next one guys x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sunday would be a great evening to host, as a bull it would be great to have regular meeting where hotwifes/cucks/bulls are all together to meet socially and to play if compatible.
Gutted i missed the last one, a crushed elbow stopped me attending but all healed now and ready to meet you cuckolds.
No doubt it takes a hell of a lot of organising and time consuming so a huge well done and thankyou for arranging these events. DB. X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sunday would be a great evening to host, as a bull it would be great to have regular meeting where hotwifes/cucks/bulls are all together to meet socially and to play if compatible.
Gutted i missed the last one, a crushed elbow stopped me attending but all healed now and ready to meet you cuckolds.
No doubt it takes a hell of a lot of organising and time consuming so a huge well done and thankyou for arranging these events. DB. X"
It's increasing with each event as we try to tweak and improve to make sure everyone has a good time and as many aspects of cuckolding as possible are catered for as possible and hopefully you can attend the next one x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone has something in common....cuckolding and different variations as no two cuckold couples are the same.
That's why these nights will be a great success. I most certainly will be attending this one and also future events. Many thanks again. DB. X |
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By *jxxxxCouple
over a year ago
Leeds |
Numbers will come as reputation of your events grows. Tbh as long as the quality is good, fewer people not a massive problem and there was both good looking guys and couples. Whatever day for us if we can get babysitter we'll be there.
We would relax a little more in a private party as playing naughty games in a public room is prob not for us unless everyone on board. Sat we kept goig to private rooms as didn't feel comfortable with all watching.
Also feel private party feel would allow you to play more bar games.
It's been mentioned before but for all cucks to be banned from couples room so bull and wife only.
More restraint options in the dungeon for those pesky cucks.
Demonstrations from experienced people would be a lot of fun. Whether it be cuck scenarios/pegging/loads of ideas .....
Dancing, dancing, dancing!! Need this.....how hot would it be watching all the sexy wives dancing with the bulls!
Potentially themed events where the hotwife has to bring her favourite bull to share with the group so the great single guys we all know are networked with other like minded couples. The wife's guest could get in at discounted rate or as part of a special couple price.
Dressing up areas? and dressing up boxes - could be a lot of humiliating fun!!
Fluffer/cleaning area.
Naughty boy corner.
Sorry think I got carried away with ideas. Xxxx
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Numbers will come as reputation of your events grows. Tbh as long as the quality is good, fewer people not a massive problem and there was both good looking guys and couples. Whatever day for us if we can get babysitter we'll be there.
We would relax a little more in a private party as playing naughty games in a public room is prob not for us unless everyone on board. Sat we kept goig to private rooms as didn't feel comfortable with all watching.
Also feel private party feel would allow you to play more bar games.
It's been mentioned before but for all cucks to be banned from couples room so bull and wife only.
More restraint options in the dungeon for those pesky cucks.
Demonstrations from experienced people would be a lot of fun. Whether it be cuck scenarios/pegging/loads of ideas .....
Dancing, dancing, dancing!! Need this.....how hot would it be watching all the sexy wives dancing with the bulls!
Potentially themed events where the hotwife has to bring her favourite bull to share with the group so the great single guys we all know are networked with other like minded couples. The wife's guest could get in at discounted rate or as part of a special couple price.
Dressing up areas? and dressing up boxes - could be a lot of humiliating fun!!
Fluffer/cleaning area.
Naughty boy corner.
Sorry think I got carried away with ideas. Xxxx
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We were going to do some icebreaking games but as it was a mixed night felt wasn't a great idea but next time we intend on playing a few and providing a buffet.
The 'couples' room would obviously only be for hotwife and bulls. Cucks would have to stand outside and watch and as for the dungeon can ask the management what they can do for us.
Demostrations could be a thing to consider and yes more dancing so you ladies can get close and personal with the bulls before deciding whether to play.
Dressing up areas/boxes for those cucks who dress to impress their lady and fluffing/cleaning areas I'm sure can be arranged.
We'll have to speak about a 2+1 rate although already been suggested cucks pay for 1-2 bulls admission lol
Certainly a lot of ideas to mull over some of which a little scary for this particular cuck but if that's what the hotwives want who am I to disagree  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All great ideas there, and certainly alot of thought. Quality always wins over quantity and personally find there are alot of cuckold/bull wannabees out there.
So private club certainly better than public bar as will stop the chancers.
Could have rooms segregated, bull&hotwife only......humiliation room....cuck room.....
Look forward to been part of this great idea. DB. X |
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We attended on Saturday for the first time, there were plenty of couples and a few single guys. because it was a normal club night it was difficult to work out who were hot wives and who were just regular swinging couples. A specific eventjust for cuckold couples I think would need quite a bit of time to build up and the biggest problem would be getting genuine bulls. 2 single guys we spoke to were not really bulls, they were just regular swingers looking for a bit of fun. As others have said there are so many different aspects to cuckolding. If you are going to do a cucks and bulls night you need to make sure the guys are genuine bulls. If they ask for an invite but have nothing about cuckolding etc on their profile then they should not be allowed to attend. I think that as it is the couples wanting the Bulls then on these nights the guys should get a reduced entry cost and the cuck couples pay a little more. it would make a refreshing change for the guys I am sure. We hope you get something sorted and we will keep an eye out. |
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By *jxxxxCouple
over a year ago
Leeds |
I won't answer for cinnamon and ginger but the differences between us all make it all the more fun. As long as our gorgeous wife's are receiving the pleasure, the cucks should be happy with whatever role/duty they are asked to perform
For us the key is C being the centre of attention and getting what she deservesand i crave seeing. The eextremes are the extreme and we only play this way with people we trust and connect with. Most people we met on Saturday understood this fully. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Like this idea although there are cukcs and there are cucks. Some like the humiliation while some couples are more into the hotwife scenario. we're more the latter so would that be an issue?"
As said earlier each cuckold is different, as no doubt is each bull. The beauty of this is that we all have cuckolding in common and to be able to meet likeminded people in a relaxed venue will be special for all invited.
I am certain you'll be popular, as will each of us who is there. DB. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some great ideas and as has been mentioned a few times each of us has their take on the concept. I love to see my hotwife let her hair down and enjoy herself. Like all cucks I understand she has needs to be fulfilled and parties like these get all like minded ( bulls, cucks and hot wife's) together in one place for mutual fun. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's a great idea and I know people who would probably go but the bulls would have to be black and I suspect that might take you down a route that's too niche to work. Good luck! "
We have a few couples where that is their particular niche and don't think it would be too difficult to do considering a few places already do such a night. We are planning on arranging such a night ourselves to cater for those guys and couples interested in interracial play. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Shame these parties are not held closer to home for us"
"Be loverly if we had a party in Norfolk like yours."
Well it has been suggested to us we took these parties on the road which although a great idea is a bit restrictive for us due to work and having to travel. Our parties started off as a simple idea on the forum so although we've become organisers for Manchester and surrounding people are more than welcome to arrange parties like ours closer to home  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Shame these parties are not held closer to home for us
Be loverly if we had a party in Norfolk like yours.
Well it has been suggested to us we took these parties on the road which although a great idea is a bit restrictive for us due to work and having to travel. Our parties started off as a simple idea on the forum so although we've become organisers for Manchester and surrounding people are more than welcome to arrange parties like ours closer to home "
Any cuckold couples in yorkshire area or bulls fancy arranging a evening? I'd be willing to help organise. Also more than happy with just attending cin&gin organised events, let's all enjoy. DB. x |
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By *jxxxxCouple
over a year ago
Leeds |
"Shame these parties are not held closer to home for us
Be loverly if we had a party in Norfolk like yours.
Well it has been suggested to us we took these parties on the road which although a great idea is a bit restrictive for us due to work and having to travel. Our parties started off as a simple idea on the forum so although we've become organisers for Manchester and surrounding people are more than welcome to arrange parties like ours closer to home
Any cuckold couples in yorkshire area or bulls fancy arranging a evening? I'd be willing to help organise. Also more than happy with just attending cin&gin organised events, let's all enjoy. DB. x"
Maybe you should get together with CinandGing and take the party out on a Yorkshire tour one day |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We attended on Saturday for the first time, there were plenty of couples and a few single guys. because it was a normal club night it was difficult to work out who were hot wives and who were just regular swinging couples. A specific eventjust for cuckold couples I think would need quite a bit of time to build up and the biggest problem would be getting genuine bulls. 2 single guys we spoke to were not really bulls, they were just regular swingers looking for a bit of fun. As others have said there are so many different aspects to cuckolding. If you are going to do a cucks and bulls night you need to make sure the guys are genuine bulls. If they ask for an invite but have nothing about cuckolding etc on their profile then they should not be allowed to attend. I think that as it is the couples wanting the Bulls then on these nights the guys should get a reduced entry cost and the cuck couples pay a little more. it would make a refreshing change for the guys I am sure. We hope you get something sorted and we will keep an eye out."
Like to apologise as only just seen your post. On the night there was a reduced entry for bulls on the guest list as normally non members would have to pay guest rates or become members. The price was the same for couples and members and we will try to negotiate a similar deal for next time. The chances are will be a closed event so guest list only but problem is its easy to change your interests to include cuckolding so we can vet so much potential bulls for the night. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Like this idea although there are cukcs and there are cucks. Some like the humiliation while some couples are more into the hotwife scenario. we're more the latter so would that be an issue?"
Well we've spoken quite extensively today together but just to set peoples mind at ease in relation to this it wouldn't be an issue. Obviously some couples might be at the further end of the cuckold spectrum but the great thing is that there is likely to be someone for everyone. Certainly we will make it clear that peoples boundaries are to be respected and that no 2 couples are the same. Hopefully everyone will adhere to that and discuss with each other before any play starts as after all cuckolding/hotwiving play is a 3 way dynamic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Like this idea although there are cukcs and there are cucks. Some like the humiliation while some couples are more into the hotwife scenario. we're more the latter so would that be an issue?
Well we've spoken quite extensively today together but just to set peoples mind at ease in relation to this it wouldn't be an issue. Obviously some couples might be at the further end of the cuckold spectrum but the great thing is that there is likely to be someone for everyone. Certainly we will make it clear that peoples boundaries are to be respected and that no 2 couples are the same. Hopefully everyone will adhere to that and discuss with each other before any play starts as after all cuckolding/hotwiving play is a 3 way dynamic."
That's the beauty of cuckolding, each and everyone from bull's to cucks to hotwifes are all different. Even the social side of finding what we all want is major excitement, finding the couple who are on the same level or wanting to go to the next level,but unsure and been able to talk to other people with exactly the same interest.
Bring on these events, will be a huge success. |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
Dublin and London |
"Shame these parties are not held closer to home for us
Be loverly if we had a party in Norfolk like yours.
Well it has been suggested to us we took these parties on the road which although a great idea is a bit restrictive for us due to work and having to travel. Our parties started off as a simple idea on the forum so although we've become organisers for Manchester and surrounding people are more than welcome to arrange parties like ours closer to home "
Sounds like these have become a rip roaring success, well done guys, would London or close to London be a runner? J |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sounds like these have become a rip roaring success, well done guys, would London or close to London be a runner? J "
You never know we shall just have to see what the future holds but for now 1 step at a time |
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Whilst I love the cuckold dynamic I very much doubt I am what you want at your parties, but it seems they are popular with sexy couples and hot 'bulls'; nice to see things being arranged for peoples tastes in play.
Good for you both xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Whilst I love the cuckold dynamic I very much doubt I am what you want at your parties, but it seems they are popular with sexy couples and hot 'bulls'; nice to see things being arranged for peoples tastes in play.
Good for you both xxx "
And why would that be? We've had couples of all ages and preferences attend our parties. |
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By *igwilly2kMan
over a year ago
The Land of Kink! |
Just throwing this one in there but how about the wives have an 'objective' list for the cycle to complete. Could do it were every kinky humiljateing objectivecompleted get a reward and a pre set punishment for ever one that isn't. Leading on from this maybe have a gay/bi master in the dungeon to Use Abuse & Humiliate thec cocks, I'm sure this is an incentive for the cucks to clean up all mess a bull makes or anything else the wife's say!
Olive the dressing up box mentioned above. How about on entry there is a board with numbers and every chick pics a numberthat has a kinky or humiliating task or challenge they must also preform during the night either in front of the group or privately or be sent to thed dungeon to be abused by the master.
I would love to apply to be a cuck, so if anyone is looking please message me and we can have a chat and I'll send my face pics and number over if you like?!
Hope you like my ideas, cheers!x     |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Hi we loved the idea of speed dating. We see it could go like this. All couples have to bring their favourite bull along to share with other hot wives.
Part 1. Social and mingling.
Part 2. At a certain time in the evening the hotwives take a sheet and a place in the middle of the room. The cucks have to site opposite or stand at the bar to watch their wives get chatted up by all the bulls in the room. The wives mark on the sheet which bulls they would like to 'have a dance with' After each bull has had 3 minutes with each wife all the sheets are collected in and stored somewhere where the bulls can read what they have put. This way they can see if their favourite wives have put their name down which leads nicely onto the next stage.
Stage 3: Party. All the wives dance in the middle of the room waiting for bulls to come and dance with them...and of course the cucks have to watch all this going on in front of them.
Stage 4: Bulls take their wives upstairs for some fun...cucks can watch if they dare! or alternatively wait for their wives to return some time later all ruffled and with a big smile on their face to tell them what they have been up to.
What do you think? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hi we loved the idea of speed dating. We see it could go like this. All couples have to bring their favourite bull along to share with other hot wives.
Part 1. Social and mingling.
Part 2. At a certain time in the evening the hotwives take a sheet and a place in the middle of the room. The cucks have to site opposite or stand at the bar to watch their wives get chatted up by all the bulls in the room. The wives mark on the sheet which bulls they would like to 'have a dance with' After each bull has had 3 minutes with each wife all the sheets are collected in and stored somewhere where the bulls can read what they have put. This way they can see if their favourite wives have put their name down which leads nicely onto the next stage.
Stage 3: Party. All the wives dance in the middle of the room waiting for bulls to come and dance with them...and of course the cucks have to watch all this going on in front of them.
Stage 4: Bulls take their wives upstairs for some fun...cucks can watch if they dare! or alternatively wait for their wives to return some time later all ruffled and with a big smile on their face to tell them what they have been up to.
What do you think?"
Think both bulls and hotwifes need to score each other and then someone works out the best matches otherwise you might have 1 bull who happens to not only be charming but good looking on everyones list. To improve the match they could vote on looks and personality or include other traits to narrow down the match even more but seeing just a bit of fun lets try to keep it as uncomplicated as possible for the poor sod trying to match x with y |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi we loved the idea of speed dating. We see it could go like this. All couples have to bring their favourite bull along to share with other hot wives.
Part 1. Social and mingling.
Part 2. At a certain time in the evening the hotwives take a sheet and a place in the middle of the room. The cucks have to site opposite or stand at the bar to watch their wives get chatted up by all the bulls in the room. The wives mark on the sheet which bulls they would like to 'have a dance with' After each bull has had 3 minutes with each wife all the sheets are collected in and stored somewhere where the bulls can read what they have put. This way they can see if their favourite wives have put their name down which leads nicely onto the next stage.
Stage 3: Party. All the wives dance in the middle of the room waiting for bulls to come and dance with them...and of course the cucks have to watch all this going on in front of them.
Stage 4: Bulls take their wives upstairs for some fun...cucks can watch if they dare! or alternatively wait for their wives to return some time later all ruffled and with a big smile on their face to tell them what they have been up to.
What do you think?
Think both bulls and hotwifes need to score each other and then someone works out the best matches otherwise you might have 1 bull who happens to not only be charming but good looking on everyones list. To improve the match they could vote on looks and personality or include other traits to narrow down the match even more but seeing just a bit of fun lets try to keep it as uncomplicated as possible for the poor sod trying to match x with y "
From the guest list you could draw up a list of matches from our profiles/interests/veris, maybe 2 matches per bull or hotwife couple. Then have 15/20 mins interview to chat further, and leading to much fun.
How about somewhere with a huge cage to put the caged cucks in while bull&hotwife get to know each other? P.M me if you'd like to discuss any ideas cin & gin. DB. X |
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By *inups99Couple
over a year ago
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"We attended on Saturday for the first time, there were plenty of couples and a few single guys. because it was a normal club night it was difficult to work out who were hot wives and who were just regular swinging couples. A specific eventjust for cuckold couples I think would need quite a bit of time to build up and the biggest problem would be getting genuine bulls. 2 single guys we spoke to were not really bulls, they were just regular swingers looking for a bit of fun. As others have said there are so many different aspects to cuckolding. If you are going to do a cucks and bulls night you need to make sure the guys are genuine bulls. If they ask for an invite but have nothing about cuckolding etc on their profile then they should not be allowed to attend. I think that as it is the couples wanting the Bulls then on these nights the guys should get a reduced entry cost and the cuck couples pay a little more. it would make a refreshing change for the guys I am sure. We hope you get something sorted and we will keep an eye out."
good point as some of us are very interested (as you know but more as voyeurs of hotwives rather than compliant cucks who may require some aspect of humiliation. very interested in coming along though!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Have set up a new profile Cuckoldparties so keep an eye out for updates hopefully will have an announcement to make about the next one in the next few days |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Forgive my ignorance, but surely a Cuckold party can't be just for those in the lifestyle? Otherwise there will be lots of women surrounded by men who are supposed to stand and watch, but NO men having their women?
So how does this work? |
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"Forgive my ignorance, but surely a Cuckold party can't be just for those in the lifestyle? Otherwise there will be lots of women surrounded by men who are supposed to stand and watch, but NO men having their women?
So how does this work?"
Maybe read the thread ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Forgive my ignorance, but surely a Cuckold party can't be just for those in the lifestyle? Otherwise there will be lots of women surrounded by men who are supposed to stand and watch, but NO men having their women?
So how does this work?
Maybe read the thread ? "
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"Forgive my ignorance, but surely a Cuckold party can't be just for those in the lifestyle? Otherwise there will be lots of women surrounded by men who are supposed to stand and watch, but NO men having their women?
So how does this work?
Maybe read the thread ?
Thank you "
A pleasure to point out the obvious at any time...but especially so for you my lovely  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Forgive my ignorance, but surely a Cuckold party can't be just for those in the lifestyle? Otherwise there will be lots of women surrounded by men who are supposed to stand and watch, but NO men having their women?
So how does this work?
Maybe read the thread ?
Thank you
A pleasure to point out the obvious at any time...but especially so for you my lovely "
Thanks. I re-read and did some 'Googling'. I didn't realise what a 'Bull' was. I've always swung as a single and even though I've encountered a few couples where this was their scene, and even though I'd had sex with their lovely wife while he stood by and ran for drinks I didn't know I was 'A bull'. Thanks. I understand now. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Forgive my ignorance, but surely a Cuckold party can't be just for those in the lifestyle? Otherwise there will be lots of women surrounded by men who are supposed to stand and watch, but NO men having their women?
So how does this work?
Maybe read the thread ?
Thank you
A pleasure to point out the obvious at any time...but especially so for you my lovely
Thanks. I re-read and did some 'Googling'. I didn't realise what a 'Bull' was. I've always swung as a single and even though I've encountered a few couples where this was their scene, and even though I'd had sex with their lovely wife while he stood by and ran for drinks I didn't know I was 'A bull'. Thanks. I understand now."
Tbh we're not keen fans of the word but it seems to have stuck as a label and now you see all the fun you hadn't quite been missing out on sure you'll be eager to search out more |
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"Yay can now post on forum
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/events/424876 for guest list"
Get me on the guest list guys, looking forward to seeing you hotwifes. |
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