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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ive been to Chams twice now with a lovely, experienced, male friend i found on fab.
I'm feeling the urge to visit by myself but am worried that i will just spend the evening wandering between the bar and smoking area and won't get spoken to! Any advice? Especially from other single ladies xx |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"Ive been to Chams twice now with a lovely, experienced, male friend i found on fab.
I'm feeling the urge to visit by myself but am worried that i will just spend the evening wandering between the bar and smoking area and won't get spoken to! Any advice? Especially from other single ladies xx"
go boo boo xx
i find that when im with someone alot of people don't always approach even for chatting...when i go on my own, not only do people see you on your own, and make the effort to talk to you..there is a certain liberation in just being you in that situation.
good luck honey, my advice is to go somewhere youve been before, or, do all new at once, and go somewhere far away that you've always wanted to try, but never did..but then i get off on the challenge of the unknown its only ever unknown for 30 seconds anyway xx  |
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"Ive been to Chams twice now with a lovely, experienced, male friend i found on fab.
I'm feeling the urge to visit by myself but am worried that i will just spend the evening wandering between the bar and smoking area and won't get spoken to! Any advice? Especially from other single ladies xx"
Seriously too little attention is not going to be your problem at chams!
They'll be plenty interested there from my experience |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"go boo boo xx
i find that when im with someone alot of people don't always approach even for chatting...when i go on my own, not only do people see you on your own, and make the effort to talk to you..there is a certain liberation in just being you in that situation.
good luck honey, my advice is to go somewhere youve been before, or, do all new at once, and go somewhere far away that you've always wanted to try, but never did..but then i get off on the challenge of the unknown its only ever unknown for 30 seconds anyway xx "
Lovelovelove this! Exactly why i want to go by myself. Totally my own adventure then! Youve made me feel all brave now!  xx |
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Don't think that you'll have problems in getting into conversations, your problem may well be the opposite...people who you may not want to go beyond chatting with not "letting go". Also watch out for those people who think it's their "duty" to protect single ladies from those horrible single guys.
Be prepared with some "get outs" in case you see someone you like and you think you are being tied down. It's your night, do it your way and enjoy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have been on my own and i really enjoyed it.
Sometimes you can get guys who want to keep you to themselves but they are easy enough to get rid of, be blunt if they don't take the hint lol
Enjoy it |
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I've joined Chams as a single female and to start I sit at the bar as you easily get chatting to other singles and couples - have a walk about the different levels as your sure to bump into fun and frolics. |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"go boo boo xx
i find that when im with someone alot of people don't always approach even for chatting...when i go on my own, not only do people see you on your own, and make the effort to talk to you..there is a certain liberation in just being you in that situation.
good luck honey, my advice is to go somewhere youve been before, or, do all new at once, and go somewhere far away that you've always wanted to try, but never did..but then i get off on the challenge of the unknown its only ever unknown for 30 seconds anyway xx Lovelovelove this! Exactly why i want to go by myself. Totally my own adventure then! Youve made me feel all brave now! xx"
funking loving it....have a ball honey..hope to say hi on your booboo adventures sometime xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We have often meet single females at chams so you won't be on your own for long . Everyone who goes to chams are lovely chatty people . Be brave and you will not find yourself left out . Hope this hepls |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Great advice, thanks guys I do worry about extracting myself from overly keen men! I'm too damn polite! Lol. Would be lovely to see you all there at some point!  xx |
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