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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Been once as a drop in never again! I will now always arrange to meet someone there or before to go there as makes life alot easier when you get in there, Your not so nervous and someone to play with that draws in other people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a real personal experience, some will love it and others won't like it at all. I've been to clubs and seen guys struggle, but others have been just fine and getting on with their night with a smile.
I'd suggest not to overthink it and try it.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It really depends what you want..
I normally choose to work on my own merit..as a single guy.
I have on many occasions been a real couple,or an on paper couple..
Though I will add i like the fact that having some fanny with me, makes me more desireable to meet than if I dont...  |
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Speak to people. Make eye contact. Don't just follow people round... there's nothing more hideous for me than having a lone single bloke trailing round behind. Start a conversation, to me it's much less of a pressure to talk to someone and go from there either way. I find it a bit letchy otherwise. |
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"Speak to people. Make eye contact. Don't just follow people round... there's nothing more hideous for me than having a lone single bloke trailing round behind. Start a conversation, to me it's much less of a pressure to talk to someone and go from there either way. I find it a bit letchy otherwise. "
dunno about the eye contact...my face is usually buried between the legs |
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"Speak to people. Make eye contact. Don't just follow people round... there's nothing more hideous for me than having a lone single bloke trailing round behind. Start a conversation, to me it's much less of a pressure to talk to someone and go from there either way. I find it a bit letchy otherwise.
dunno about the eye contact...my face is usually buried between the legs"
Does that not make it tricky to walk?! |
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
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Stay in the bar and talk to people, let people get to know you rather than wander around hoping that someone will take pity on you, they won't. You might not get to play on that night but it may lead to some fun either at the club on a later date or a private meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Speak to people. Make eye contact. Don't just follow people round... there's nothing more hideous for me than having a lone single bloke trailing round behind. Start a conversation, to me it's much less of a pressure to talk to someone and go from there either way. I find it a bit letchy otherwise.
dunno about the eye contact...my face is usually buried between the legs
Does that not make it tricky to walk?!"
havent you seen the human centipede?-is easy to walk on all 8's |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Been once as a drop in never again! I will now always arrange to meet someone there or before to go there as makes life alot easier when you get in there, Your not so nervous and someone to play with that draws in other people"
Same for me. Been to clubs on the off chance of bumping into people and it's never quite worked out. Only use them as a social thing now and wouldn't play. |
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"Stay in the bar and talk to people, let people get to know you rather than wander around hoping that someone will take pity on you, they won't. You might not get to play on that night but it may lead to some fun either at the club on a later date or a private meet."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Speak to people. Make eye contact. Don't just follow people round... there's nothing more hideous for me than having a lone single bloke trailing round behind. Start a conversation, to me it's much less of a pressure to talk to someone and go from there either way. I find it a bit letchy otherwise.
dunno about the eye contact...my face is usually buried between my legs"
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By (user no longer on site)
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Never been a struggle for me, I go in, meet new people and generally have a goid time whilst im there.
It's not a place for a guaranteed shag, more like a social event with the possibility of a little fun later in the evening.
Get yourself known in a regular club, make friends and enjoy just going there!
Hope this helps anyone nervous of going alone. |
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