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chams. what to wear??
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hiya lovely people! Am soon going on my first visit to a club :D Think chams is closest to me. Very excited and quite terrified! Lol.
What should i expect and most importantly what do i wear?? Need advice please, especially from the ladies! Xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So i could wear a dress like i was just going to a normal club but wear a nice sexy something underneath and see how i feel? Lol. I definitely cant pull off a towel, need heels! xx |
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"So i could wear a dress like i was just going to a normal club but wear a nice sexy something underneath and see how i feel? Lol. I definitely cant pull off a towel, need heels! xx"
Yes heels look good, but i saw a sexy lady in there a couple weeks ago wearing nothing but a pair of thigh high kinky black boots. 
One of my faves to see the ladies in is always a open croth fishnet bodystocking (with heels). |
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"So i could wear a dress like i was just going to a normal club but wear a nice sexy something underneath and see how i feel? Lol. I definitely cant pull off a towel, need heels! xx
Yes heels look good, but i saw a sexy lady in there a couple weeks ago wearing nothing but a pair of thigh high kinky black boots.
One of my faves to see the ladies in is always a open croth fishnet bodystocking (with heels). "
Typo, open crotch, lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So i could wear a dress like i was just going to a normal club but wear a nice sexy something underneath and see how i feel? Lol. I definitely cant pull off a towel, need heels! xx"
Yes that's fine x |
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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago
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We think you would probably feel overdressed in a dress, just the underwear would be better, but heels i think is a must, but tricky up and down the stairs. Ann summers dress or outfit or towel is what majority wear. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Thank u for posting this thread as im doing my first visit in a couple of weeks xx"
Youre welcome hun, its nice to feel prepared! Lol. Does anyone ever go in the day? Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always wear heels, a micro skirt and a tiny top.
The only bit of floor that's caught me out is to the left of the bar as you look at it. There is a little slope there.
Most ladies wear lingerie or a bedroom style dress or simply a towel. |
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"I always wear heels, a micro skirt and a tiny top.
The only bit of floor that's caught me out is to the left of the bar as you look at it. There is a little slope there.
Most ladies wear lingerie or a bedroom style dress or simply a towel. "
That bloody slope gets me every time and I have been going there for 4 years!  |
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I've seen plenty struggle with the stairs barefoot let alone in heels!
And yes I'd agree a proper dress might be a bit much from what I've seen but most women wear more then just the towel as well
Some lingerie or a skimpy outfit with the towel is usually fine |
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Hi op, firstly, you'll love it I'm sure.
The pic of Kate on the bed was taken in one of the hotel club rooms just before going in. So gives an idea.  .
She always wears heels. so sexy underwear or towel, but sexy underwear goes much better with heels.
Have fun.
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By *ona29Woman
over a year ago
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I go Chams as single female Friday nights don't be nervous the stuff are friendly very helpful as well, people are friendly meet lovlig people too, You can wear normal cloth when you go the club chance in to something sexy that is what all the ladies do,for me I wear my lingerie under my dress take of the dress and mingle.
You are sexy lady and yes guys or girls approach you, smile, mingle relax don't worry you be having fun. Aaaah jazzuzi is to die for
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thank u for posting this thread as im doing my first visit in a couple of weeks xx
Youre welcome hun, its nice to feel prepared! Lol. Does anyone ever go in the day? Xx"
I'm planning on going in the day, one day this week. When are you thinking of going? |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
I wore a teal turquoise bra and knickers set with a see through flowery fringed kimono type top the first time I went (one of the short fringed ones). And sparkly flat sandals since I didn't want to fall over in heels. I figured if I got self-conscious I could just wrap the kimono rather than leave it open. |
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"Haha. I got a body stocking (see pic!) But dont know if i'd have the nerve to wear it! Xx"
Seen lots of women wear body stockings in there so you would fit in very well. If you want to be daring then don't wear any knickers with it.  |
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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago
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"I would not wear heels, most of the place is stairs and a bit of uneven flooring. The smoking bit has decking on it. "
And there are lots of people walking around barefoot who would definitely NOT appreciate a stiletto on there toes! |
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That looks perfect. Perhaps a wrap too to begin with in case your self conscious - this can be discarded when you have built up your courage.
Don't forget if you want to pop into the jacuzzi then you will have to get naked.
If your going for a first time the maybe a Sunday is a good start - Friday's could be too busy and daunting - Wednesday /Thursday are quieter and may be easier.
Have fun and enjoy - and remember Just say NO if someone If doing something you don't like - don't get d*unk....
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"Haha. I got a body stocking (see pic!) But dont know if i'd have the nerve to wear it! Xx"
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"Thanks everyone great advice. Am i likely to get approached much? Xx"
Err just a bit - maybe you will need to borrow a stick to beat them off....
You will also get followed .... Remember just say NO !! |
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"Thanks everyone great advice. Am i likely to get approached much? Xx
Err just a bit - maybe you will need to borrow a stick to beat them off....
You will also get followed .... Remember just say NO !!"
Or, if you want to have fun, just say yes! X |
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"Thanks everyone great advice. Am i likely to get approached much? Xx"
Chams has a great atmosphere, I'm sure this is why everyone is so friendly. So you probably will be approached, but only in a friendly way.
I find all the single men are very respectful, I always have a chat with them, if I like them I offer to go to a private room.
I don't mind if I get followed, it would be a lot less fun if I found myself with no one to play with lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Haha. I got a body stocking (see pic!) But dont know if i'd have the nerve to wear it! Xx"
You would look great, in that body stocking
right so that our clothes sorted, you in a body stocking and me in a sexy slightly damp white chic towel straight of the cat walks of Milan - I only hope I don't upstage in my damp towel xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Lol. Ive been twice now and loved it so much! On my first visit i wore a little floaty number and hold ups and on my last visit a gorgeous bodystocking :D And of course the towering heels! :p x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So i could wear a dress like i was just going to a normal club but wear a nice sexy something underneath and see how i feel? Lol. I definitely cant pull off a towel, need heels! xx
Yes heels look good, but i saw a sexy lady in there a couple weeks ago wearing nothing but a pair of thigh high kinky black boots.
One of my faves to see the ladies in is always a open croth fishnet bodystocking (with heels). "
I always wear heels when I go to chams! I do love leaving them on to have fun in too |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lol. Ive been twice now and loved it so much! On my first visit i wore a little floaty number and hold ups and on my last visit a gorgeous bodystocking :D And of course the towering heels! :p x"
We hope to see you there soon too! |
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"I need the heels!  lol xx
Of course!!! Next minute someone will suggest trainers
You stick with heels!"
Heels are definitely they way to go - as long as you avoid the dip by the bar and can handle all the stairs !!
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By (user no longer on site)
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Not everyone wears heels, many of us prefer bare feet and panic whenever someone with high spikey heels gets to close to them
When ever i go i find far more fems are wearing just a towel which is also what i wear |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Lol. Ive been twice now and loved it so much! On my first visit i wore a little floaty number and hold ups and on my last visit a gorgeous bodystocking :D And of course the towering heels! :p x
We hope to see you there soon too! "
Definitely lovelies xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I need the heels! lol xx
Of course!!! Next minute someone will suggest trainers
You stick with heels!
Heels are definitely they way to go - as long as you avoid the dip by the bar and can handle all the stairs !!
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I'm so slow going up and down those stairs in my bloody heels! Haha x |
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" I'm so slow going up and down those stairs in my bloody heels! Haha x"
Well that gives everyone behind a nice view up the stairs .... lol
Have to admit a tad of concern about getting my foot spiked by some killer stilettos - had a couple of close calls ... |
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"Not everyone wears heels, many of us prefer bare feet and panic whenever someone with high spikey heels gets to close to them
When ever i go i find far more fems are wearing just a towel which is also what i wear "
I always wear heels at Chams :D I generally team them with hold ups, an underbust corset, nipple jewellery and a thong. If it's a really warm night I may wear just heels and a floaty pair of frenchies :D The very end of the evening may see me in just a towel for the jacuzzi - but that's not often x |
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