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What would you say is the cheapest club in the south east as I am in berkshire and im a single guy. As I can respect why prices for single guys are as high as they are but I want to meet some new people and not have to take out a mortgage to do it.
And if anyone would loke to take me to a club sometime that would be great as have only ever experienced kestrels when I was able to get there. Any help advice would be helpful.  |
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Have a look in swing club events forum for socials at clubs near you. They generally run a guestlist so you don't need to be a member just pay the entrance fee. You can also join in with the banter on the thread and establish some connections so you don't feel so isolated when you get there.
There's no guarantee of play but it's a great way to join the swinging community. |
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"Have a look in swing club events forum for socials at clubs near you. They generally run a guestlist so you don't need to be a member just pay the entrance fee. You can also join in with the banter on the thread and establish some connections so you don't feel so isolated when you get there.
There's no guarantee of play but it's a great way to join the swinging community."
Great advice as always oh wise one |
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"Have a look in swing club events forum for socials at clubs near you. They generally run a guestlist so you don't need to be a member just pay the entrance fee. You can also join in with the banter on the thread and establish some connections so you don't feel so isolated when you get there.
There's no guarantee of play but it's a great way to join the swinging community."
Thank you. I know there is no guarantee of play but that is not all that important to me as would just like to get to know people with mutual ideas and interests.
The play can come later when or if all parties are comfortable.
Sadly I think my closest club is abfabs and as much as I like the place I cant get there let alone the single guy costs... |
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"Have a look in swing club events forum for socials at clubs near you. They generally run a guestlist so you don't need to be a member just pay the entrance fee. You can also join in with the banter on the thread and establish some connections so you don't feel so isolated when you get there.
There's no guarantee of play but it's a great way to join the swinging community.
Thank you. I know there is no guarantee of play but that is not all that important to me as would just like to get to know people with mutual ideas and interests.
The play can come later when or if all parties are comfortable.
Sadly I think my closest club is abfabs and as much as I like the place I cant get there let alone the single guy costs... "
Then look a little further afield and make a weekend of it. There are parties being planned all over, often well in advance so people can take advantage of hotel deals. |
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My advice would be don't go to a club because it's the cheapest, go to a club that suits your needs, they all have different facilities and massively different dynamics. Some may not suit you and that may colour your experience and therefore your opinions of clubs as a whole |
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"My advice would be don't go to a club because it's the cheapest, go to a club that suits your needs, they all have different facilities and massively different dynamics. Some may not suit you and that may colour your experience and therefore your opinions of clubs as a whole"
Great advice, you should be asking (or researching yourself) what is the best club in your area not the cheapest option.
Plus, as you are probably aware there are one or two single men on this site, my advice to you would be to make your self as desirable as poss.
So far from this thread alone you've told us you cant get to make the clubs that you used to (this tells me your car-less or reluctant to travel or just cant plan ahead), you want people to take you to clubs (think about asking if you can escort people to clubs, its a little more manly), and you cant really afford it.
Hardly a catch....
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"My advice would be don't go to a club because it's the cheapest, go to a club that suits your needs, they all have different facilities and massively different dynamics. Some may not suit you and that may colour your experience and therefore your opinions of clubs as a whole
Great advice, you should be asking (or researching yourself) what is the best club in your area not the cheapest option.
Plus, as you are probably aware there are one or two single men on this site, my advice to you would be to make your self as desirable as poss.
So far from this thread alone you've told us you cant get to make the clubs that you used to (this tells me your car-less or reluctant to travel or just cant plan ahead), you want people to take you to clubs (think about asking if you can escort people to clubs, its a little more manly), and you cant really afford it.
Hardly a catch....
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I can see where your coming ftom and some helpful tips in there. And its not that im not willing to travel as I am at the moment car-less sadly. And there are reasons behind not being able to afford as much as I would like. And how would one go about be desirable. . |
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"Jaydees on a Tuesday is sing and swing. It's only a fiver to get in. Its a great night to socialise and meet people. Check the website for details "
Thank you sounds good |
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Why not save up rather than go to the cheapest? Abfabs is a great club over the summer and well worth the extra cash especially as it's your local.
Granted we see where your coming from about singles getting charged a bomb. |
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"Why not save up rather than go to the cheapest? Abfabs is a great club over the summer and well worth the extra cash especially as it's your local.
Granted we see where your coming from about singles getting charged a bomb. "
Yes its a good idea I will start saving just hate being limited by public transport. And I accept the reasons behind the high single guy prices as if it was to low the place would just be way way over run with us lol. And never had the pleasure of being to abfabs in the evening only kestrels during the day |
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"Why not save up rather than go to the cheapest? Abfabs is a great club over the summer and well worth the extra cash especially as it's your local.
Granted we see where your coming from about singles getting charged a bomb.
Yes its a good idea I will start saving just hate being limited by public transport. And I accept the reasons behind the high single guy prices as if it was to low the place would just be way way over run with us lol. And never had the pleasure of being to abfabs in the evening only kestrels during the day"
Eureaka is slightly cheaper than kestrels and is close to a trai-n station open allday similar to kestrels |
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"Why not save up rather than go to the cheapest? Abfabs is a great club over the summer and well worth the extra cash especially as it's your local.
Granted we see where your coming from about singles getting charged a bomb.
Yes its a good idea I will start saving just hate being limited by public transport. And I accept the reasons behind the high single guy prices as if it was to low the place would just be way way over run with us lol. And never had the pleasure of being to abfabs in the evening only kestrels during the day
Eureaka is slightly cheaper than kestrels and is close to a trai-n station open allday similar to kestrels "
Sounds good will check web site if they have one and then check what kind of travel plans I would have to make thank you |
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