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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It seems there aren't many real mistresses and dom/sub couple on fab, too elusive to find here, please identify yourself if you are one of them..."
Probably better sites than this to find them. Though there is a cross over |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are if you look hard enough.
Met few mistresses here but they ask for money.. Crap"
Because in the pro domme world, you need to prove your worth to them, they're not just gonna say yes I'll meet you. If they said they will shag you, its prostitution, if they aren't shagging you, its not |
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You're on the wrong website. Fab is a swinging site and most Mistresses will not declare their status on here for many reasons. I am a Dominant of 15 years and very well known in the NW area but as this is a swinging site, I don't make a point of it. Sex doesn't come into my work as a Mistress, so I wouldn't come on here as a Mistress. |
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"There are if you look hard enough.
Met few mistresses here but they ask for money.. Crap
Because in the pro domme world, you need to prove your worth to them, they're not just gonna say yes I'll meet you. If they said they will shag you, its prostitution, if they aren't shagging you, its not"
Well said... Even to prove worth they ask for pricey gifts lol |
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"You're on the wrong website. Fab is a swinging site and most Mistresses will not declare their status on here for many reasons. I am a Dominant of 15 years and very well known in the NW area but as this is a swinging site, I don't make a point of it. Sex doesn't come into my work as a Mistress, so I wouldn't come on here as a Mistress. "
Fair point, many so called mistresses i have met here are fake
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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"You're on the wrong website. Fab is a swinging site and most Mistresses will not declare their status on here for many reasons. I am a Dominant of 15 years and very well known in the NW area but as this is a swinging site, I don't make a point of it. Sex doesn't come into my work as a Mistress, so I wouldn't come on here as a Mistress. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There are if you look hard enough.
Met few mistresses here but they ask for money.. Crap
Because in the pro domme world, you need to prove your worth to them, they're not just gonna say yes I'll meet you. If they said they will shag you, its prostitution, if they aren't shagging you, its not
Well said... Even to prove worth they ask for pricey gifts lol"
Exactly, because the more expensive they are, the more you prove your worth to them, if you buy her something of £20, she isn't gonna meet you, if you buy her something of £50, then maybe you might |
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"There are if you look hard enough.
Met few mistresses here but they ask for money.. Crap
Because in the pro domme world, you need to prove your worth to them, they're not just gonna say yes I'll meet you. If they said they will shag you, its prostitution, if they aren't shagging you, its not
Well said... Even to prove worth they ask for pricey gifts lol
Exactly, because the more expensive they are, the more you prove your worth to them, if you buy her something of £20, she isn't gonna meet you, if you buy her something of £50, then maybe you might"
is that not prostitution of different kind? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are if you look hard enough.
Met few mistresses here but they ask for money.. Crap
Because in the pro domme world, you need to prove your worth to them, they're not just gonna say yes I'll meet you. If they said they will shag you, its prostitution, if they aren't shagging you, its not
Well said... Even to prove worth they ask for pricey gifts lol
Exactly, because the more expensive they are, the more you prove your worth to them, if you buy her something of £20, she isn't gonna meet you, if you buy her something of £50, then maybe you might
is that not prostitution of different kind?"
No because there are no sex acts being performed |
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"There are if you look hard enough.
Met few mistresses here but they ask for money.. Crap
Because in the pro domme world, you need to prove your worth to them, they're not just gonna say yes I'll meet you. If they said they will shag you, its prostitution, if they aren't shagging you, its not
Well said... Even to prove worth they ask for pricey gifts lol
Exactly, because the more expensive they are, the more you prove your worth to them, if you buy her something of £20, she isn't gonna meet you, if you buy her something of £50, then maybe you might
is that not prostitution of different kind?
No because there are no sex acts being performed"
Well hope to find a discreet mistress....pound 50 is resonable lol |
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This may cause a lot of controversy but like everything in life, you get what you pay for. A good professional Mistress, with many years experience, who can practice safely and responsibly, can respond to minute body responses, who will practice with a safe word, who runs professional chambers....will charge much more than £50!!!!! I think you need to go on the other well known Fetish website and do your homework. Find out more about Pro Domination and why Mistresses charge and what is involved in a session.
It is VERY important that you understand that sex is NEVER involved in pro sessions and if you ask for sexual services, you will be swiftly ejected from the dungeon.
I would say that you have a lot to learn and in the first instance, you need to go to fetish events and munches to mingle with people in the lifestyle to build on your knowledge base and establish your own boundaries etc... You can meet people to play with at events after a bit of effort on your part to socialise and make friends. You don't have to pay! I would recommend you did this first as paying for a Mistress is in a completely different league to finding your feet. You may just find yourself in very deep water without a paddle! |
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"This may cause a lot of controversy but like everything in life, you get what you pay for. A good professional Mistress, with many years experience, who can practice safely and responsibly, can respond to minute body responses, who will practice with a safe word, who runs professional chambers....will charge much more than £50!!!!! I think you need to go on the other well known Fetish website and do your homework. Find out more about Pro Domination and why Mistresses charge and what is involved in a session.
It is VERY important that you understand that sex is NEVER involved in pro sessions and if you ask for sexual services, you will be swiftly ejected from the dungeon.
I would say that you have a lot to learn and in the first instance, you need to go to fetish events and munches to mingle with people in the lifestyle to build on your knowledge base and establish your own boundaries etc... You can meet people to play with at events after a bit of effort on your part to socialise and make friends. You don't have to pay! I would recommend you did this first as paying for a Mistress is in a completely different league to finding your feet. You may just find yourself in very deep water without a paddle! "
I think you are right, i have lot to learn. May be i am not ready for it yet..may be i am not a sub in a true sense as i think sex should be a part of this kink! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are if you look hard enough.
Met few mistresses here but they ask for money.. Crap
Because in the pro domme world, you need to prove your worth to them, they're not just gonna say yes I'll meet you. If they said they will shag you, its prostitution, if they aren't shagging you, its not
Well said... Even to prove worth they ask for pricey gifts lol
Exactly, because the more expensive they are, the more you prove your worth to them, if you buy her something of £20, she isn't gonna meet you, if you buy her something of £50, then maybe you might
is that not prostitution of different kind?
No because there are no sex acts being performed
Well hope to find a discreet mistress....pound 50 is resonable lol"
Pro dommes charge a lot more than £50, buying her a gift of £50 isn't paying for the session, its showing your worth, of you're lucky to meet her, you will have to pay an extra however much she charges on top of the gift |
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Try updating your profile for starters .. its easso to do... says your a newbie .. After more than year on site etc etc etc . My fem is my domme ... We involve other from that lifestyle but only when they express an interest .. We dont inflict anything from our bdsm style on to others .. .. as many have said before .. If your looking for a mistress then saying your a switch curtails many avenues for contact .. get on a more fet ... life styled site .. .. .. |
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