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So far have have tried two clubs, one in Blackpool which we weren't so keen on and Vanilla Alternative which we loved! The only problem is that we live too far away from VA.
Having looked at a few clubs closer to home, we quite like the look of Partners. We love having a play in a hot tub to get into the mood.
Has anyone else been?
What are the play areas like?
Also, what is the policy on alcohol? Is there a bar? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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love partners - only been the once but the wet areas are brill - jacuzzi is huge and easily fits a dozen in - came out wrinkly spent so long in there -  Sx |
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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago
Cheshire |
Been to Partners loads.
Take your own booze.
The wet area is huge, jacuzzi and pool, and there are a variety of play rooms, public and private. Clean club, nice staff.
Definitely recommend it. |
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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago
Nr Manchester |
Agree with the above
Thursday night and Sunday night are couples nights which I find particularly relaxing but of course there are single men available on other nights lol.
Don't be put off by the less than state of the art lockers - while you are getting changed open the door and have a look into the wet area - you will say Wow as we did.
Him |
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I agree with everything said before. I remember sitting in the Jacuzzi on my first visit and thinking that I'd never, ever felt so free. All that wonderful naked flesh round me - even though I wasn't 100% happy with the stuff floating on top of the water! Sometimes they put too much chlorine in and it's a bit pungent, but otherwise it's wonderful. |
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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago
Nr Manchester |
"Newbie alert! Never been to a club so.... In the wet areas do people strip off? X"
A lady once wore a teashirt in the jacuzzi when she first joined us, but took it off when she was ready.
Shy people hide themselves with a towel or get someone else to before the point of getting in.
It isn't like being nude in a club. It is very freeing and relaxing. Both the jacuzzi and pool have always been clean every time we have been. You can play in there and people do (we certainly do but usually just with each other if we haven't gone with a group of people ).
Him |
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"Newbie alert! Never been to a club so.... In the wet areas do people strip off? X
Errrrr..... Yes!!!!
Errr....Just a question - like.I said Never been before!!"
OK Understand, sorry!! Go I am sure you will enjoy !! |
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By *iwife81Couple
over a year ago
Bolton |
"Newbie alert! Never been to a club so.... In the wet areas do people strip off? X
A lady once wore a teashirt in the jacuzzi when she first joined us, but took it off when she was ready.
Shy people hide themselves with a towel or get someone else to before the point of getting in.
It isn't like being nude in a club. It is very freeing and relaxing. Both the jacuzzi and pool have always been clean every time we have been. You can play in there and people do (we certainly do but usually just with each other if we haven't gone with a group of people ).
Him"
Thanks for your response, it helps to know more. Unlike the previous poster, who in fact is the reason why it is so daunting to try a club through fear of being embarrassed or feeling out of place.
Thanks  |
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"Newbie alert! Never been to a club so.... In the wet areas do people strip off? X
Errrrr..... Yes!!!!
Errr....Just a question - like.I said Never been before!!
OK Understand, sorry!! Go I am sure you will enjoy !!"
I'm the same..total club virgin..would love to go..just haven't got the guts  |
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"Newbie alert! Never been to a club so.... In the wet areas do people strip off? X
A lady once wore a teashirt in the jacuzzi when she first joined us, but took it off when she was ready.
Shy people hide themselves with a towel or get someone else to before the point of getting in.
It isn't like being nude in a club. It is very freeing and relaxing. Both the jacuzzi and pool have always been clean every time we have been. You can play in there and people do (we certainly do but usually just with each other if we haven't gone with a group of people ).
Him
Thanks for your response, it helps to know more. Unlike the previous poster, who in fact is the reason why it is so daunting to try a club through fear of being embarrassed or feeling out of place.
Thanks "
You will have your guy there to give you support... |
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"Newbie alert! Never been to a club so.... In the wet areas do people strip off? X
Errrrr..... Yes!!!!
Errr....Just a question - like.I said Never been before!!
OK Understand, sorry!! Go I am sure you will enjoy !!I'm the same..total club virgin..would love to go..just haven't got the guts "
Find a friend to go with....moral support!! |
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I have been to partners a few times, both to parties and with a lady friend on couples nights.
Loved it every time i have been.
Its all been said above, the wet area is great, the dungeon fun (if a little chilly) and the glass floored area over the dungeon is an interesting idea.
Any sexy ladies fancy a trip, message me see what we can arrange. (yeh i know i am an optomist).
Its worth a trip and the staff are friendly too !!! |
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"Newbie alert! Never been to a club so.... In the wet areas do people strip off? X
A lady once wore a teashirt in the jacuzzi when she first joined us, but took it off when she was ready.
Shy people hide themselves with a towel or get someone else to before the point of getting in.
It isn't like being nude in a club. It is very freeing and relaxing. Both the jacuzzi and pool have always been clean every time we have been. You can play in there and people do (we certainly do but usually just with each other if we haven't gone with a group of people ).
Him
Thanks for your response, it helps to know more. Unlike the previous poster, who in fact is the reason why it is so daunting to try a club through fear of being embarrassed or feeling out of place.
Thanks "
I have been to Partners with a male friend but only once, really enjoyed it, am sure you will love it and everyone was very friendly and welcoming (and not in the naughty sense!) Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Newbie alert! Never been to a club so.... In the wet areas do people strip off? X
Errrrr..... Yes!!!!
Errr....Just a question - like.I said Never been before!!
OK Understand, sorry!! Go I am sure you will enjoy !!I'm the same..total club virgin..would love to go..just haven't got the guts "
Read my previous post hun, do it, you will enjoy the experience. I can empathise with how you feel as I felt the same way. xx |
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By *haunMan
over a year ago
Halton |
"I'm the same..total club virgin..would love to go..just haven't got the guts "
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Consider looking for a social event / evening or maybe a couples / single women night.
Social events are a great way to check out a club in a social only atmosphere.
And couples / single ladies events will allow you to explore at your own pace without having single men around.
All clubs will look after you if you let them know you are new / nervous.
And you do see a lot of reviews / clubs where many single ladies enjoy and feel comfortable going.
But I fully appreciate your 'concerns'
Not just to this post but also others in the thread.
Just because you are in a swingers club and will (depending upon the event)
Have people around you naked / dressed down or off in rooms playing.
Does not mean you have to do this. (Unless it is a dress down club, so just wear some nice sexy underwear)
Take what-ever time you need to just enjoy and explore the club.
If that is just sitting at a bar chatting for a couple of weeks or maybe trying out a jacuzzi (several clubs have a no play policy in a jacuzzi)
So you can sit and socialise but just happen to be naked. (Not sexual, just much more natural)
It may involve watching other couples, and enjoying the experience of seeing someone else have sex in an open area.
Or it couple be that you just go and play on your own in a locked room for the first couple of times. Moving your experiences outside of your bedroom / home.
You are in full control of what you do and want to do.
If you end up going back to the club after several visits you many then 'do more'.
Or.. I have seen some that just turn up and get involved straight from day one.
Clubs are lovely places to go.
Friendly, safe and less intimidating (once you get over the initial fear of stepping through the door) than going out round a city centre on a Friday or Saturday for example.
They are just great places to explore, relax and enjoy yourselves in a nice atmosphere with like minded thinking adults.
Or more specifically back to the post from totty1.
Consider looking for one or two regular single ladies that already go to the club.
In my past experiences with friends at clubs, more often or not, they would normally look to meeting up to provide moral support for you.
Hope you and _iwife81 manage to make it along to a club sometime.
I am sure you will enjoy yourselves.
Enjoy and have fun.
xxx
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, will have partner there, but he has never been either. It's so whole new concept for both of us. One day we will go for it....!"
Took Me years to decide to go to a club. I decided bugger it and went to one for a social night. Loved it and been to a few since x |
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By *iwife81Couple
over a year ago
Bolton |
"Yes, will have partner there, but he has never been either. It's so whole new concept for both of us. One day we will go for it....!
Took Me years to decide to go to a club. I decided bugger it and went to one for a social night. Loved it and been to a few since x "
Thanks, think we will be braving it one day soon! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm the same..total club virgin..would love to go..just haven't got the guts
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Consider looking for a social event / evening or maybe a couples / single women night.
Social events are a great way to check out a club in a social only atmosphere.
And couples / single ladies events will allow you to explore at your own pace without having single men around.
All clubs will look after you if you let them know you are new / nervous.
And you do see a lot of reviews / clubs where many single ladies enjoy and feel comfortable going.
But I fully appreciate your 'concerns'
Not just to this post but also others in the thread.
Just because you are in a swingers club and will (depending upon the event)
Have people around you naked / dressed down or off in rooms playing.
Does not mean you have to do this. (Unless it is a dress down club, so just wear some nice sexy underwear)
Take what-ever time you need to just enjoy and explore the club.
If that is just sitting at a bar chatting for a couple of weeks or maybe trying out a jacuzzi (several clubs have a no play policy in a jacuzzi)
So you can sit and socialise but just happen to be naked. (Not sexual, just much more natural)
It may involve watching other couples, and enjoying the experience of seeing someone else have sex in an open area.
Or it couple be that you just go and play on your own in a locked room for the first couple of times. Moving your experiences outside of your bedroom / home.
You are in full control of what you do and want to do.
If you end up going back to the club after several visits you many then 'do more'.
Or.. I have seen some that just turn up and get involved straight from day one.
Clubs are lovely places to go.
Friendly, safe and less intimidating (once you get over the initial fear of stepping through the door) than going out round a city centre on a Friday or Saturday for example.
They are just great places to explore, relax and enjoy yourselves in a nice atmosphere with like minded thinking adults.
Or more specifically back to the post from totty1.
Consider looking for one or two regular single ladies that already go to the club.
In my past experiences with friends at clubs, more often or not, they would normally look to meeting up to provide moral support for you.
Hope you and _iwife81 manage to make it along to a club sometime.
I am sure you will enjoy yourselves.
Enjoy and have fun.
xxx
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Thank you x |
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Partners is a great all rond club.The wet area is always clean and well maintained.There is a couples only room ...do remember it was a little warm! There is a bar/lounge area where there is no play but where you can sit and chat.
Think most newbies to clubs think that they have to play with others....you don't have to.....also think that if they are playing together then others are at liberty to join in.....they are not unless invited and if someone tries then you merely remove their hand and say no thank you ...they will not or should not think any differently about you.
The golden rule in all clubs is No means No so don't feel obligated or pressurised to play if you don't want to.
We were shit scared when we went to our first club but ended up having a memorable time for all the right reasons  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Newbie alert! Never been to a club so.... In the wet areas do people strip off? X
Errrrr..... Yes!!!!
Errr....Just a question - like.I said Never been before!!"
Some do, I tend to wear bra and nix. Or just nix You don't have to strip off! Wear whatever you are comfortable in! It's nice to chill in there and have a drink. Go enjoy yourself... Good luck x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Newbie alert! Never been to a club so.... In the wet areas do people strip off? X
Errrrr..... Yes!!!!
Errr....Just a question - like.I said Never been before!!
Some do, I tend to wear bra and nix. Or just nix You don't have to strip off! Wear whatever you are comfortable in! It's nice to chill in there and have a drink. Go enjoy yourself... Good luck x"
i think some clubs may have a nude/swimwear only rule - for hygiene reasons - not 100% sure on this though |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes, will have partner there, but he has never been either. It's so whole new concept for both of us. One day we will go for it....!"
No one bites in a club at Partners club rules is a "no" is a "no" or get marched to door by Clive (owner). Clubs, the better ones, all have the same rules and if you have never been just watch chat with people and make your own comfort zone... Many just go to a club to watch others having sex or to chat ... |
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"Yes, will have partner there, but he has never been either. It's so whole new concept for both of us. One day we will go for it....!
No one bites in a club at Partners club rules is a "no" is a "no" or get marched to door by Clive (owner). Clubs, the better ones, all have the same rules and if you have never been just watch chat with people and make your own comfort zone... Many just go to a club to watch others having sex or to chat ... "
ALways stick to your limits, you are there for fun and without you there is no business, so relax and enjoy |
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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago
Germany / Manchester |
We visited Partners for the first time a short while ago and had a really good night. We were made to feel very welcome, the layout was very interesting and the wet are is huge, we'll be going again for sure. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We love it there it's our favourite club, there never any pressure to play and has a very friendly atmosphere we find the jacuzzi is the best social area in the club and that's where u will find us if we're in, u don't have to go in naked I've seen people in bathing suits/shorts while I've been there just do watever u feel comfortable with but it's deffo a good choice for ur first club visit |
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Wow, done great comments for Partners... Thanks guys...
I work the Thursday couples night and Saturday mixed nights.... Anytime you want a meet and greet to calm the nerves please just message me on here.... Or ring Clive direct at the club!
This month has 3 events that will be awesome for newbies looking for a busy social night .. 6 the greedy girls - 7th 50 shades of red and 21st Casino night (with real roulette and blackjack)
Lots up and coming too!!! To keep up with the ace reviews xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We have been to partners a few times on a variety of nights. We love the wet area and have always found it a good mix of people.
Only bit we found a bit odd was the suspension bed. Got a bit motion sick on it lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mmm time to try this club me thinks.....  "
From the comments above it seems like a great friendly place to get the club going ball rolling.
Hopefully we can make it to the 50 Shades of Red night on Saturday.
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"Yes, will have partner there, but he has never been either. It's so whole new concept for both of us. One day we will go for it....!"
Just remember three things love.
1) No-one has the right to touch you in any way unless you want them to!
2) You don't HAVE to go naked anywhere - even in the wet area. If you feel better - take a bikini to wear then remove it if/when you're happy to do so!
3)Just relax, enjoy yourselves and enjoy the social atmosphere! If you want to play - play. If you don't - don't! And lastly - Clive the owner is lovely! If you tell him it's your first time he'll make sure you're ok! Take any boose you'd like to drink as it's a BYO!
Enjoy guys! Xx |
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"We are expecting to be there for the first time in a couple of years on Sat night.......x"
It's a great night for a first... There's a real nice crowd going, plus sobe regulars that I know well... Along will quite a few brand new couples I've chatted to this week... So there'll be a few 'newbies'
Xxx |
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