FabSwingers.com > Forums > Swinging Club Discussion > Swingers clubs

Swingers clubs

By *cottyyM OP Man over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Hey I don't usually post on forums but I'm kind of intrigued about swingers clubs.

I have a high sex drive and always had the interest of going to a swingers club as I'm only 19, would people talk to me. I don't want to go alone on first time of course.

One concern is what happens if I see someone there I recognise wouldn't that be awkward and again I'm not too young am I?

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why be worried if you see someone you no in a club... They doing the same as you lol Age is just a number (19 may be young for some but not others) Have a look in the club section and see what they have to offer as a lot of clubs you need to be a member and it can be pricey.And 1 word of warning even if you have a sex drive never ever presume you are going to have sex in a club but good luck

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *cottyyM OP Man over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"Why be worried if you see someone you no in a club... They doing the same as you lol Age is just a number (19 may be young for some but not others) Have a look in the club section and see what they have to offer as a lot of clubs you need to be a member and it can be pricey.And 1 word of warning even if you have a sex drive never ever presume you are going to have sex in a club but good luck "

I understand I just don't want to go on my own

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *emmefataleWoman over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

I understand I just don't want to go on my own "
Lots of people don't want to go to a club on their own, do you know many people that frequent clubs, maybe you could tag along with them?

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *cottyyM OP Man over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I understand I just don't want to go on my own Lots of people don't want to go to a club on their own, do you know many people that frequent clubs, maybe you could tag along with them?"

I've asked 2 people hoping to hear from them in the morning just would love to get to meet others and see what it's all about

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *emmefataleWoman over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

I understand I just don't want to go on my own Lots of people don't want to go to a club on their own, do you know many people that frequent clubs, maybe you could tag along with them?

I've asked 2 people hoping to hear from them in the morning just would love to get to meet others and see what it's all about "
I hope you get a result. xx

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

stop worrying and go for it

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

id take you with me and look after u

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool

Hey!

Your worries are absolutely normal! Single guys have the same concerns as everybody and in some ways, I think guys can be even more nervous!

I would give the club of choice a little ring (after christmas) and have a chat. Some clubs have social nights for new members or intro nights.

Your age is not an issue. I know some 40 year olds that act 18 and visa versa. The swinging scene attracts people of all ages and attraction is often not linked to age.

I would read up on your club of choice, read the forums and get familiar with how it all works. You don't want to go in blind. Remember that we have all started somewhere and we have all been the nervous newbie, so we are sympathetic. Also, talk! When you get the courage to actually go to a club, make conversation and be approachable. The biggest turn off from a female point of view is a guy who stands at the bar and sips his drink and expects a shag with zero effort! You get back what you put in on the swinging scene and this is very important in clubs.

Good luck!!

xxx

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *cottyyM OP Man over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Thanks for the help guys hopefully going to get something arranged in the new year x

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hey I don't usually post on forums but I'm kind of intrigued about swingers clubs.

I have a high sex drive and always had the interest of going to a swingers club as I'm only 19, would people talk to me. I don't want to go alone on first time of course.

One concern is what happens if I see someone there I recognise wouldn't that be awkward and again I'm not too young am I?"

Make sure you contact the club first. Alot have age restrictions.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *cottyyM OP Man over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"Hey I don't usually post on forums but I'm kind of intrigued about swingers clubs.

I have a high sex drive and always had the interest of going to a swingers club as I'm only 19, would people talk to me. I don't want to go alone on first time of course.

One concern is what happens if I see someone there I recognise wouldn't that be awkward and again I'm not too young am I?

Make sure you contact the club first. Alot have age restrictions."

Yeah I just noticed the other day

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *atEvolutionCouple over a year ago

'Merry Christmas'

No. You are not too young at all. Minimum age at our club is 18.

And we have many members between 18 and late 50's

Cat X

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I remember the first time I stepped foot inside a club

Was Townhouse on the Wirral and they were amazing, made sure I had a tour and was introduced to a few people.

The staff were all so friendly that my nerves soon faded. It's more like home from home now

Good luck with your first club visit and just remember to be friendly and go with no expectations and I'm sure you'll be fine xxx

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've only been to one club and that was as a couple. Had a great time. I am going to go to Isis in Leeds on Wednesday for the first time as a single guy and I'm a little nervous. Have posted in the forum and chatted to a few people about it which as helped. I'm not expecting to play. Just have a drink and a chat with people and to see what its like. If I do end up playing its a bonus. Just try and relax and be yourself. Chat and have a laugh with people as if you were just in your local pub. Be polite and friendly and what will be will be. Good luck.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

» Add a new message to this topic