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By *teed99Man
over a year ago
Kettering |
It's one of the best clubs in the UK. Nice decor and family run with a very helpful staff team. The massive hot tub is one of it's best features and makes for easy socialising with the open play areas nearby. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've been 5 times this year and squeezing in a 6th visit before 2015!
We went to V.A for our swinging experience and loved it!
Its very classy and you could easily stay in the social areas if you wanted to not play. Hot tub is huge and we love it in there, there aren't any lockable rooms though and the toilets are unisex but all in all definitely our favourite club xx |
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We were there for the 5th time this Friday just gone. We love it! The clientele are much more our sort compared to other clubs (age-wise and physical appearance-wise), the hot tub is HUGE and allows play, and Saturdays are couples and ladies only which suits us perfectly.
It's seriously worth checking out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We went last month. It was our first visit to a club and we were happy to watch and be watched. The staff were friendly and helpful and the place was clean with professional clientele. I loved taking the opportunity to show off my pole dancing skills in the dance floor area 
The one thing we didn't enjoy was me being touched by two different guys that night without giving either the green light. We thought that there was an etiquette at places such as this whereby people would not touch you without your go ahead.
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"We went last month. It was our first visit to a club and we were happy to watch and be watched. The staff were friendly and helpful and the place was clean with professional clientele. I loved taking the opportunity to show off my pole dancing skills in the dance floor area
The one thing we didn't enjoy was me being touched by two different guys that night without giving either the green light. We thought that there was an etiquette at places such as this whereby people would not touch you without your go ahead.
Ms Naughty x "
There is. Did you report them to the staff? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No, we didnt . To be honest we are both new to this and I kind of freaked out a little. When it happened the second time I wanted to just leave that play area which we did. I'd say it kinda spoilt my visit to the club up until that point I was enjoying it . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No, we didnt . To be honest we are both new to this and I kind of freaked out a little. When it happened the second time I wanted to just leave that play area which we did. I'd say it kinda spoilt my visit to the club up until that point I was enjoying it . "
This does happen in clubs from time to time, you can back unwanted advances with a polite but clear rebuff. If that does not work report it to the management a good club will take it seriously which I know va is |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh yeah, I have no doubt the va management would have acted accordingly if we had spoken to them. It was just really unexpected as I'd read up about club etiquette etc before arranging our visit. It hasn't put us off visiting again though  |
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By *teed99Man
over a year ago
Kettering |
As someone who visits Vanilla Alternative most Friday nights, it's unusual to find single guys behaving as mentioned previously. There is only ever a maximum of 10 booked in and often not all of them turn up. From those that do, the regulars are very respectful and know a lot of the couples anyway. Most new single guys follow the example of us regulars but every now and again there is the exception. The only way is to make it very clear they are not welcome and if they carry on, inform one of the staff who will be only too pleased to intervene. |
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"We went last month. It was our first visit to a club and we were happy to watch and be watched. The staff were friendly and helpful and the place was clean with professional clientele. I loved taking the opportunity to show off my pole dancing skills in the dance floor area
The one thing we didn't enjoy was me being touched by two different guys that night without giving either the green light. We thought that there was an etiquette at places such as this whereby people would not touch you without your go ahead.
Ms Naughty x
There is. Did you report them to the staff?"
This is exactly what puts N off going to these places. Blokes who just cop a feel uninvited thinking it may initiate something when she clearly doesn't want it. Sigh... Some Just ruin it for others
We have put a maybe on this, quite steep for the entry, but I suppose it brings in a more sophisticated crowd? |
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