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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Realy want to go to a club, just to see what it's like....I'm not shy and quite confident when chatting ect...however quite self contious when it comes to my body lol. Also I'm worried il feel like everyone thinks I'm a pervert being on my own an all....would like different perspectives on this...single men who've been to clubs, what's the atmosphere like as a single male? Couples....how do you view single males at clubs? |
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"Realy want to go to a club, just to see what it's like....I'm not shy and quite confident when chatting ect...however quite self contious when it comes to my body lol. Also I'm worried il feel like everyone thinks I'm a pervert being on my own an all....would like different perspectives on this...single men who've been to clubs, what's the atmosphere like as a single male? Couples....how do you view single males at clubs?"
We could go together |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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Last club I went to I was completely ignored. It would have been lovely if just one bloke had smiled at me and said hello. You might find it easier to be nice to the single females, then the couples you are after might come to you. Maybe. |
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"Last club I went to I was completely ignored. It would have been lovely if just one bloke had smiled at me and said hello. You might find it easier to be nice to the single females, then the couples you are after might come to you. Maybe."
I would have said hello and smile lady...I have been clubs with a female friend but know what the op means,I want to go again but on my own I would feel like a billy no mates  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Your first time you join have to take two items of Id driving licence and a household bill with name and address. They do show you round the club on your first visit and tell you the rules then it's upto to you. I went with a couple from fab who had been cos it was my first time so after that it's fine now I'm a regular no problems loads of men and women go in on their own it's just the first time it's scarey  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Your first time you join have to take two items of Id driving licence and a household bill with name and address. They do show you round the club on your first visit and tell you the rules then it's upto to you. I went with a couple from fab who had been cos it was my first time so after that it's fine now I'm a regular no problems loads of men and women go in on their own it's just the first time it's scarey "
Not for all clubs you do not need to take thibgns like that... Each club is different.
We have been to many clubs where no Id or membership is required... I'm saying this as it may put people off x
As to single guys... Why would people judge as a pervert.. as long as your respectful and talk to people then you will do fine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Pervert? You say that likes it's a bad thing!!
The majority of people are there for one thing and if it's a club night that allows single guys in then your not going to stand out in a bad way!
Go and get involved you will wonder what you were afraid of!!! |
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"Keep an eye for socials at clubs in your area. Not so scary to turn up to one of those alone. Lots of people in the same boat x"
Sorry hit post too soon, what I meant to add was that at socials there's less pressure and It's easier to get chatting to people without wandering round along and people thinking you are a pervert lol x |
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