I know im not a lady but go have a look, you don't have to play, tell them at the door that this is your first time, im sure they will show you around and you can take it from there. Dont do anything you aren't comfortable doing |
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you should be fine , tell the staff its your first visit and alone , they will look after you and maybe introduce you to some of the regulars,
you will be safer in a club than if you went out on the town,
remember you don't have to play with anyone, just go and have fun |
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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago
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"any advice ladies?! Debating going alone tonight to one in ashby but would be my first time!"
If it's the club I think it is it's not in Ashby, it's in zouch.
It's a lovely little club and the people that have been there when I've been have been very nice. As has been said already, tell the staff it's your first time. They will show you around and as you're a lady on your own they will look out for you to make sure you're ok. If you do have any concerns about anything while you're there, go speak to the staff who will deal with it |
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"I always go alone to a club. Very empowering and liberating xx  "
It is. Just relax and have fun. I always think if I don't like somewhere I can just walk out. Never rely on anyone for transport and you don't need to couple up with a man to have fun. Tell the staff it's your first time and you are nervous. Good clubs look after their single ladies. Good luck  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I always go alone to a club. Very empowering and liberating xx
Good clubs look after their single ladies. Good luck "
Absolutely right. My local club is townhouse and is very very good at looking out for single ladies.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Im more than happy going to clubs alone as I find it means you have to go talk to other people and not be shy...take the plunge hun its more than worth it x |
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Im always going to clubs/party's alone, I love the freedom, always someone to natter to, being confident to chat to people does help, I never go with expectations |
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"Im always going to clubs/party's alone, I love the freedom, always someone to natter to, being confident to chat to people does help, I never go with expectations"
It's not lack of confidence for me it's safety in numbers x |
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