Hey guys  we have met a few people off here and want to go to Xtasia, have been once but was between Xmas and new year so was extremely quiet.
As a general consensus, if you saw us in a swingers club such as Xtasia or Chams (ones near us), would you consider us too young? Are either of these clubs more or less accommodating to younger people than the others?
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No you are not too young. As Xtasia is more of a dance orientated club then I would suggest it is the most suitable..... Hope it helps and that you don't mind advice from a single guy...xx |
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"No you are not too young. As Xtasia is more of a dance orientated club then I would suggest it is the most suitable..... Hope it helps and that you don't mind advice from a single guy...xx"
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"No you are not too young. As Xtasia is more of a dance orientated club then I would suggest it is the most suitable..... Hope it helps and that you don't mind advice from a single guy...xx
Thanks very much, appreciated x"
No worries....maybe see you at the FFA foam party end of Jan? |
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Not a case of you being too young as I'm sure your a very attractive couple who would appeal to a wide age range....finding others who are respectful to your wishes and make you feel at ease and vice versa is more appealing than knowing someone's actual age. |
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"Hey guys we have met a few people off here and want to go to Xtasia, have been once but was between Xmas and new year so was extremely quiet.
As a general consensus, if you saw us in a swingers club such as Xtasia or Chams (ones near us), would you consider us too young? Are either of these clubs more or less accommodating to younger people than the others?
Thanks xx"
Your not too young, just too young for us as my daughter is only a little younger! Enjoy, you look great & have a good time  |
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Too young? No.
As for which club is more suited to the 'younger crowd' ?
Chams fans will say Chams - Xtasia fans will say Xtasia.
That said - there are more nights themed towards the younger crowd (IMHO) at Xtasia. The foam parties, the Phukt nights and the fact it has the dancefloor.
Don't let a quiet night put you off. Get down for a busy evening and I'm sure you'll find plenty of people who you'll enjoy meeting.
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Too yong, no, I've seen plenty of people your age range in Xtasia.
As for busier nights, check out Xtasia's website for events, or the Swinging club/event ads section in the forums here.
Halloween will be busy and probably Sat 1st Nov for the foam party. New Years Eve will be very busy there as will the FFF event on Fri 30th Jan I'd of thought. |
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"Hey guys we have met a few people off here and want to go to Xtasia, have been once but was between Xmas and new year so was extremely quiet.
As a general consensus, if you saw us in a swingers club such as Xtasia or Chams (ones near us), would you consider us too young? Are either of these clubs more or less accommodating to younger people than the others?
Thanks xx"
We'd def say hi to you, if we saw you in a club. |
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Absolutely not! As long as you're sociable and enjoy chatting I think you'll go down a storm. Of course, some people have their individual preferences, but 'horses for courses'. I think the only people who would say you are too young are those that believe that when you're younger you should hit the town, and that when you're older you're suddenly eligible to swing. My view is that you can do both irrespective of age - so make the most of things and enjoy life all round. Just keep a happy balance between mind blowing club nights and fun 'real life' stuff too. By the way, for some reason unknown to man (lol) clubs on the Continent seem to have a much higher proportion of younger people in them than in the UK .... So make sure you check them out if you're ever in France, Germany, Holland or Belgium. Take care and good luck!! |
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We have been going to Xtasia for a year and a half and Mo who is now 22 loves it, your most definitely not too young and they have some great events coming up.  |
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"fishing for compliments!
sorry, been on here too long and seen thousands of look at me posts "
Not fishing for compliments, asking for advice as to wether to attend a club at this age or not. Not once did we ask about our physical appearance or wether anyone would want to play with us but rather would we fit in. We are confident enough without having to post in the forum for compliments. Apologies if you thought we were spamming the thread with come-ones for people to tell us they find us attractive. |
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Think we were 20 when we went to our first club so nah you'll be fine 