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Vanilla alternative? And newbie advice please :-)
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi
As swing "virgins" would you say this club is a good way to ease into the scene?? I (sexybum) can't get this club out my mind since coming across the website! I love fantasising with g about threesomes (mmf and ffm) and couples but I'm quite shy at first meeting people (wine helps!) and not much body confidence. I think a club may be less pressure and as we love to cam maybe it would allow me to watch and touch or b touched if I want?! How do you know wether to take the next step or not?! Thanks for reading!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely attend a club, maybe on a social night where there is no pressure but even so me and a F went to xtasia (west Bromwich) Saturday night where I've been a member for over year and it was her first time and we got offers from several people. .and we just said thanks but no thanks..it's no way as intimidating as you think hun..just see for yourself, it may be for and it may not be  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Clubs are great. If there is an attraction, you feel so much more at ease. You know you/they like what they see and if the conversation is good too, you're there!
Good luck  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Clubs are great. If there is an attraction, you feel so much more at ease. You know you/they like what they see and if the conversation is good too, you're there!
Good luck "
 thankyou x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thankyou. I think a club may be better then a meet, As I'm so soft I'd feel guilty if I couldn't go through with it! X"
You're welcome but never feel guilty for not doing something you're not sure of |
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By *teed99Man
over a year ago
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Lots of people use Vanilla Alternative for their first club experience. It's a nice laid back place where you can take things at your own pace. The staff team are wonderful and visitors all very friendly. You won't get pressurised into doing anything you don't want to. There are on-site hotel rooms too.
Check the What's On page of their website to see when it's open. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Lots of people use Vanilla Alternative for their first club experience. It's a nice laid back place where you can take things at your own pace. The staff team are wonderful and visitors all very friendly. You won't get pressurised into doing anything you don't want to. There are on-site hotel rooms too.
Check the What's On page of their website to see when it's open."
Thankyou, I've heard such good things about it x |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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"It was my first club and I never have looked back. I'm still a member and go regularly.
Hope to see you there when we take the plunge! X "
Thank you. I may be there on the 25th, not 100% sure but it's likely x |
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