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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi,
I have enjoyed this lifestyle for around a year now. I have had a great time and met some amazing people. However I'm just concerned that this scene is little known to the younger generation, many of whom may benefit from the experience of meeting nice people and having amazing sex in a safe environment (clubs) with out being blind d*unk.
I see too many gorgeous girls out in regular night clubs who just end up getting wasted and going home with complete arse holes.
Some one shed some light on this, just seems that its a lifestyle that could bring sexual and social maturity to many young, fit, athletic and beautiful people.
John
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We have seen an influx of new members at our club in recent months, all under 30, male/female, singles and couples. There is a new generation joining the lifestyle. I agree with what your saying too, clubs are a safer bet, especially for single girls. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"to many young, fit, athletic and beautiful people.
John
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Is that your measure of desirability? Your assumption that that is what's needed in the lifestyle? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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far from it, I have met beautiful and amazing people from all age ranges, please do not take what I said as that I only find young people beautiful, this couldnt be further from the truth |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"I'm a young member of this site and I get very little attention because of my age!
Same here! "
Lack of attention is rarely solely due to age.
There are usually other factors deterring folk from being interested, and there are many in their early twenties enjoying an active life both on site and in clubs.
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Is it really that needed for the young?
In and out of relationships often, get bored find a new person... Does swinging lose its relevance when you live in the land of "do as you please".
Probs similar for the successful, independent singles (had this convo with some), 2 or 3 boyfriends/girlfriends a year, why would you need anymore?
Yes I know swinging is a different tool, to take care of a different job. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"Is it really that needed for the young?
In and out of relationships often, get bored find a new person... Does swinging lose its relevance when you live in the land of "do as you please".
Probs similar for the successful, independent singles (had this convo with some), 2 or 3 boyfriends/girlfriends a year, why would you need anymore?
Yes I know swinging is a different tool, to take care of a different job."
Age should never be a barrier to swinging.
Attitude should.
Should someone be expected to only engage in 1-2-1 sex due to their youth, or are they not as entitled to enjoy threesomes, moresomes, group fun, clubs, socials, parties etc.? 
As for a 'do as you please' attitude? There's no age limit attached to that. Swinging shouldn't be seen as a need or 'anything more' - just a lifestyle that can be enjoyed by anyone.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it really that needed for the young?
In and out of relationships often, get bored find a new person... Does swinging lose its relevance when you live in the land of "do as you please".
Probs similar for the successful, independent singles (had this convo with some), 2 or 3 boyfriends/girlfriends a year, why would you need anymore?
Yes I know swinging is a different tool, to take care of a different job."
We live in the land of do as we please despite being engaged in a long term relationship and having a mortgage. What does age have to do with anything.
So to answer your question no it's not needed but we certainly enjoy it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well me and my mister are 24 we love it think its great fun iv told sum of my friends and they dont get it but yet wot uv said is right they go out get d*unk qnd have one night stands with twats x |
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We..... And do you think your typical?
I am a product of a do as you please generation... Lucked my way through life, spent nearly all of my early 20s in the Far East and never once even thought of swinging.
Why would I? I lived in a hyper version of most 20 year olds lifestyle.
And I know it's not just the young, it's the modern person, with transient relationships and the ruthlessness to discard people relatively quickly, would it give longevity to modern relationships to swing.
Remember swingers your in a very small percentage of the country. |
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"We..... And do you think your typical?
I am a product of a do as you please generation... Lucked my way through life, spent nearly all of my early 20s in the Far East and never once even thought of swinging.
Why would I? I lived in a hyper version of most 20 year olds lifestyle.
And I know it's not just the young, it's the modern person, with transient relationships and the ruthlessness to discard people relatively quickly, would it give longevity to modern relationships to swing.
Remember swingers your in a very small percentage of the country."
I disagree with your last sentence, I believe the swinging community is growing by the week and certainly not a small percentage. its becoming quite mainstream. |
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