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over a year ago
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I have had a number of invitations to meet at or go to Ab Fabs (and I do want to go) but I've no idea what would be suitable attire having never been to a club before. I'm a larger, but normally confident, woman who wouldn't want to feel too out of place. Responses of whatever I feel comfortable in from the men aren't helping. Any suggestions, please? |
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"I wore a dress and hold ups last night, but usually wear a mini skirt, top, and hold ups. You want something comfy but easy to remove and get back on."
What she said |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have had a number of invitations to meet at or go to Ab Fabs (and I do want to go) but I've no idea what would be suitable attire having never been to a club before. I'm a larger, but normally confident, woman who wouldn't want to feel too out of place. Responses of whatever I feel comfortable in from the men aren't helping. Any suggestions, please? "
depending on the club, you don't need to dress down at all in the social areas; can remain in what you arrived in... People wear anything from jeans to a little black dress.. You will not feel out of place... If and when you do decide to play, the lighting is often dim in the pay rooms helping with our modesty a little... And there is no rule that you have to get naked.. Us ladies can keep as many clothes on as you wish  |
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The vast majority of clubs are by their nature very open minded and non judgemental but for the first few times that is such a mental leap from the 'social norm' it can be hard to admit to yourself that those glances are of lust and administration not of 'What is she wearing? '
As a bloke in can't give you a girls perspective on what to wear but can assure you that what males like to see is not what you wear but how you wear it...do it with confidence and you will pull off anything x |
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I tend to wear a dress (easier access) that i would wear out anyway but vamp it up a tad with high heels, holds ups & showing a bit more cleavage than usual.
wear what you feel comfortable in & then you'll be able to relax & have fun. |
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I wore a corset once ! Was a great idea at the beginning of the night but 2am and trying to squeeze back into it wasn't so great lol !
I usually go in a little short low cut dress and hold ups x |
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So big smile, killer heels, something comfortable (no corsets) affording easy access with plenty of confidence. Thanks to everyone who responded it is appreciated  |
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Kitty loves to wear her corsets to a club, but does take bras to wear when it's later and the corset has come off, so saves the time consuming putting back on
On the flip side my OCD does kick in when i see an incorrectly laced corset lol, lost count of times i've had to re-lace or tighten properly lol |
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