If you think someone looks good tell them. Not in a letchy "you look sexy wanna fuck" way but in a genuine compliment way.
If you're nervous then say so - we were all newbies once and nerves are normal.
Above be friendly and sociable. If someone makes eye contact go and chat to them. Don't crowd people though, give them a little space and you never know what invites you'll get. |
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"First time at a club tonight, any advice (Xtasia)"
As with any club just enjoy, don't be pushed into anything have fun and look at it as an opportunity to make friends.  |
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Eye contact, smiles, maybe say hello and take it from there.
Keep it simples and don't stalk the women or couples around. You'll figure out the signals quickly enough.
Oh and no means no, not maybe or I'll try and persuade you etc.0 |
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"Thank you! And is it advisable for a single male to go up to a lady first or wait until they feel comfortable and approach you?"
It is perfectly acceptable. As was said above, just remember that no really measures no. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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If you go upstairs to the dogging area - don't forget to duck!
Don't hang around the corridors downstairs - the common error of many single guys.
Don't crowd couples relaxing or playing upstairs in the chill out area.
Tbh - the best place to strike up a conversation is either the bar or the smoking area (even if you don't smoke).
Enjoy. We love the place! 
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"Thank you! And is it advisable for a single male to go up to a lady first or wait until they feel comfortable and approach you?
It is perfectly acceptable. As was said above, just remember that no really measures no. "
But also bear in mind that a polite no thanks to playing is not them saying "now fuck off and never speak to me again"! People are very sociable and no to play is just that. And a "not right now thanks" is not a polite fuck off, it's a "I'm enjoying chilling right now and I'm not ready to play so perhaps later" - people do tend to say what they mean. |
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