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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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hey guys basically thinking of giving the town house over in Birkenhead a try soon, never been to a swinging club before can anyone give me some details like what its like and what to expect.
Don't really want to be going to a club if its just pure lads trying to get there nuts, and surely there's a chance you go and just don't have any fun at all to even if you wanted to? Help! |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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Go. With no expectations.
Treat it as a chance to socialise with other locals with the potential for fun.
At worst - you'll enjoy a chat and a laugh. At best? Some fun.
It's a great way to network and if people think you're not expecting anything you'll go down (pun possibly intended) far better than if you lurk, follow or get too full on and pushy.
You'll never know if you like clubs til you try!
Good luck! 
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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theres no way I'd ever be pushy or lurk or follow anyone I'd be to shy for all that ha just have a chat with a few people I'm more of a gentlemen type its the quiet ones you got to watch out for though! |
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What people said above - Townhouse is excellent but they have some rules about single guys going on a social night first.
(Better IMO than an over-inflated membership fee which guys pay anyway and you end up with loads in and they don't really understand how to behave). All on their website. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"theres no way I'd ever be pushy or lurk or follow anyone I'd be to shy for all that ha just have a chat with a few people I'm more of a gentlemen type its the quiet ones you got to watch out for though!"
Quiet? Liverpudlian? OK...  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"theres no way I'd ever be pushy or lurk or follow anyone I'd be to shy for all that ha just have a chat with a few people I'm more of a gentlemen type its the quiet ones you got to watch out for though!
Quiet? Liverpudlian? OK... "
hey dont be so stereo typical :P im a good boy apart from in the bed room still respect peoples boundaries though and would never put anyone in a situation to make them feel uncomfortable |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"theres no way I'd ever be pushy or lurk or follow anyone I'd be to shy for all that ha just have a chat with a few people I'm more of a gentlemen type its the quiet ones you got to watch out for though!
Quiet? Liverpudlian? OK...
hey dont be so stereo typical :P im a good boy apart from in the bed room still respect peoples boundaries though and would never put anyone in a situation to make them feel uncomfortable "
I had a brief fling with a guy in Birkenhead so I know how delightful you Merseysiders are 
I'd love to go to the Townhouse one day. Hope you have fun.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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yeah i will do im going on the 9th of september so still awhile away some people who are already going have said they want to have some fun with me to so should be an ok night |
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I love Townhouse and go regularly. I love the greedy girls evenings and afternoon particularly and try to go to every Radical Desires night too. A lovely clean, well laid out club with great staff and owners. I always feel safe there and have not had a bad night yet - even if there is no one I fancy playing with (which is rare, even though I am picky, as there is usually a good mix there) I still have a great time socialising. Plenty of playrooms and a great well equipped dungeon, along with a jacuzzi and sauna, make it everything I could possibly ask for |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My advice would be to put up a meet to say you're going or on the chat rooms try and find a few others that go. Explain you're new and offer to join them for a drink to help you settle your nerves . Most will usually agree. We all remember how nervous a first time can be . Then if you're really an 11 inch wonder I'd just drop my pants haha  |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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Don't really want to be going to a club if its just pure lads trying to get there nuts, and surely there's a chance you go and just don't have any fun at all to even if you wanted to? Help!"
I'm going to really blunt...
if that is your preconception and the attitude you are taking in.... I wouldn't go because clubs are not likely to be for you....... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't really want to be going to a club if its just pure lads trying to get there nuts, and surely there's a chance you go and just don't have any fun at all to even if you wanted to? Help!
I'm going to really blunt...
if that is your preconception and the attitude you are taking in.... I wouldn't go because clubs are not likely to be for you......."
A chance of no fun at all.... 'even if you wanted to' .........  |
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