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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have never been to club but am very interested and turned on by thought of it just need someone to show me the ways luv to hear from anyone that is interested or just some advice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most clubs would have a chat to you as a noob and show you around too so you could as any questions then. It can be hard tied to someone for a night so it might be hard to find someone to take you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most clubs encourage single men because they get a larger entrance fee out if you, simple as that, your asking for trouble posting a wanted on here, cuz some wannabes and club hanger ons will try to entice you to the club on your own with lines like come along I will look after you, which means once you are there chances are they will say hello and that's it
Stick to you guns and ask around, perhaps a lady you've seen before will go with you |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"Most clubs encourage single men because they get a larger entrance fee out if you, simple as that, your asking for trouble posting a wanted on here, cuz some wannabes and club hanger ons will try to entice you to the club on your own with lines like come along I will look after you, which means once you are there chances are they will say hello and that's it
Stick to you guns and ask around, perhaps a lady you've seen before will go with you"
A pretty cynical view!
If people (singles and couples) are 'adult' enough to join a swingers site then surely they should be adult enough to walk through a door unaccompanied?
Single guys can enjoy clubs as much as couples - assuming they have no expectations and don't assume that anything is guaranteed.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hardest thing will be walking through the door. The rest is easy if your a decent guy. Ask for a tour and chat in the social areas sit back and observe. |
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By *not69Man
over a year ago
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"Hardest thing will be walking through the door. The rest is easy if your a decent guy. Ask for a tour and chat in the social areas sit back and observe. "
I've been quite a few times and I still get nervous going in. Relax and enjoy. Don't be pushy and don't have any expectations that your going to play. Don't be disappointed if you don't play, there are no guarantees. Just be yourself and you'll have a good time |
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