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Eureka first timers help
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You will get shown around if you tell them it's your first time. They will show you the play rooms and the social areas, lockers, showers, jacuzzi etc.
Id recommend booking a table so you've got somewhere to sit.
Then just have a drink and get chatting to people, you can go off and play together in a locked private room or leave the door open in the stable door room or venture into the couples room. It's very laid back and no pressure at all x |
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In addition to Hotties reply. As a non member you can't book a table until 11am Saturday.
Saturdays normally get in the region of 200 people. Usually a good mix of males, couples and single ladies.
We try to get down there once a month or so. If the weather is good, try and get there early and spend a few hours by the pool. Very relaxing and a great way to meet new friends.
The staff are very helpful and the people friendly. We have made some good friends there... Enjoy... |
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over a year ago
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"Went last night v strange place full of people eh been going for years def not a place for single guys very Cliky won't be going again"
Interesting...thanks! |
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over a year ago
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"Yes don't waste your time or money staff were friendly but their our much better clubs for single guys
Agree  "
Forget to mention I found some staff unfriendly  |
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When I've been there I've found the single guys I've talked to having a great time.
One guy was waking across the car park on his own terrified and we saw him later chatting and having a great time. |
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over a year ago
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" We're going to Eurekas in a couple of weeks, We'll be in our Motorhome.
Can anyone confirm that the access road is wide enough to get a MH down ?
J & S"
hi guys , we don't have any troubles getting in and our van is 7ft wide 18 ft long also weve seen 24fttwin wheel caravan in the carpark too, so you shouldn't have a problem, hopefully we can meet you there guys |
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over a year ago
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We went to the joint sh and fabs social and it was crazy
Busy lot's f very different people all shapes, sizes, ages,etc.. Something for everyone.
We would like to try and quieter night as it was too crowded in our opinion.
However with warmer weather and lighter evenings am certain it would be less crowded. Great fun though. |
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"Went last night v strange place full of people eh been going for years def not a place for single guys very Cliky won't be going again"
We are surprised you found it like that. We have been going for nearly 2 years and apart from one or two couples found everyone friendly and approachable.
We mainly play with single guys and have found even shy guys have been able to approach us and other couples.
Like any other club, you get out what you put in. We have been to other clubs that only let single guys in on certain nights and charge a hell of a lot more...
We have had only one slightly irritating experience with a member of staff at Eureka and we never saw that member of staff again... In fact we have found the staff to be very friendly and helpful. I would like to finish by saying that we have no connection to the club, other than very satisfied visitors... |
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"Went last night v strange place full of people eh been going for years def not a place for single guys very Cliky won't be going again
We are surprised you found it like that. We have been going for nearly 2 years and apart from one or two couples found everyone friendly and approachable.
We mainly play with single guys and have found even shy guys have been able to approach us and other couples.
Like any other club, you get out what you put in. We have been to other clubs that only let single guys in on certain nights and charge a hell of a lot more...
We have had only one slightly irritating experience with a member of staff at Eureka and we never saw that member of staff again... In fact we have found the staff to be very friendly and helpful. I would like to finish by saying that we have no connection to the club, other than very satisfied visitors..."
 we totally agree with you on that one |
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over a year ago
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Ive visited and reviewed loads of clubs throughout the UK as part of my research and still think Eureka is the best clubs hands down !!! Fantastic place in my view - friendly not cliquy. Ive been to cliquy places ( not nice ) and Eureka isnt one of them x |
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It is a good club for a good time I had a great orgy there, threesome and a fivesome.
But does needs to be kept up to date with maintenance, hot tub jets and etc don't you think. Some of the hosts need to work on their friendliness
They really need more bi and gay nights i mean once a month come on |
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"It is a good club for a good time I had a great orgy there, threesome and a fivesome.
But does needs to be kept up to date with maintenance, hot tub jets and etc don't you think. Some of the hosts need to work on their friendliness
They really need more bi and gay nights i mean once a month come on"
The owners from what we gather have been plowing the takings into updating the place since they took over. We have seen improvements and been told that there is more to come as and when finances allow.
Re the bi/gay nights. It has to be financially worth it to the club to run any party/specialty night. If any club doesn't make a profit, it won't last. If you think there is a demand for more bi/gay nights get friends/Fabsters etc to email the club asking for more nights.
Also remember that the club doesn't discriminate and everyone is welcome all the time. That was one of the founding principles of the club.
For us we have found the staff to be very helpful. They have gone above and beyond a few times for us. As with staff anywhere, they can have off days but like I said we have only had one experience where the male member of staff was a bit off and we haven't seen him since. A smile and a thank you goes a long way. The staff at most clubs work bloody hard in hot, noisy conditions, often for very long hours so that we can have fun... Personally I think it takes a special type of person to work in a swingers club, naturist resort or spa... So I think that a little lea way should be given...
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The bi and gay nights fair point.
Dunno how long its been new owners, fair enough and if they do then thats awsome
And i mention the staff because when i have been there for bi and gay night there is an air or judgemental attitude there not to mention the fact I have over heard the people showing people around and saying quote ' the couples room is open for everyone tonight but on a NORMAL party night it is couples only' to be that is a bit offensive, that along with a few minor things makes me feel its offensive to people. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion of course but be carful what they say is my point.
Yes i understand it takes a certain type of person to work in a swingers club and i respect that and the staff I know and have talked to are great and nice people. and the others are may have off shifts and that fine i have worked in clubs. |
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And i mention the staff because when i have been there for bi and gay night there is an air or judgemental attitude there not to mention the fact I have over heard the people showing people around and saying quote ' the couples room is open for everyone tonight but on a NORMAL party night it is couples only' to be that is a bit offensive
Don't really understand what's offensive by this?? Most clubs have couples only rooms they are just pointing out that on the other nights that it would be used for its original purpose but as it's a special night it's open to anyone |
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Must admit never having been to a bi/gay as it's not our thing. So can't comment on a change of attitude.
I must admit I would probably say on a normal night... Not meaning any offence, sometimes people including myself aren't as careful choosing their words as they should be...
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over a year ago
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"Please can you tell us about Eureka in Kent as we are going Saturday and want to know about what happens on a party night?? We have not been before and don't want to be diserpointed
Thank you"
We only went once, it wasn't for us. We went on a Saturday night it was very busy but much more like a social club than a swingers club and it's the only club I've ever been to where security is needed to keep single guys out of the play areas, but it may well suit you I am not saying it's a bad club just not for us |
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Don't get me wrong it not the fact they have a couples room to start with, it just the degrading/ judgmental tone I have heard them say 'NORMAL' with. If its an accident then ok but if not its wrong.
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"Don't get me wrong it not the fact they have a couples room to start with, it just the degrading/ judgmental tone I have heard them say 'NORMAL' with. If its an accident then ok but if not its wrong.
Everyone has a right to like what they like "
eureaka was originally founded by a bi guy for bi guys and all other groups who were persecuted for being different at other clubs and the club still maintains this view,
don't take this the wrong way but as peeps are in a minority group sometimes they get too defensive when others make a perfectly normal statement and read things into it that just are not there,
we have found the staff quite friendly and work very hard ,
one thing to remember is when we are having fun they are working, a bit like being in a sweet shop and not being aloud to eat the sweets |
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over a year ago
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Really
Most of the people know the club is clicky not all staff but some staff are blatantly rude or boder line I don't want to say the r word
Their is a group of people who don't want any any new person to enter in the circle and I know after this comment a lot couples will defend the club because they are part of the that special circle of people
Tell me of a single male go their they are not allowed to sit any where as all tables are booked and cannot go to any rooms as bouncer is on the door which stops you so why the hell I want to waste 40 pounds of my hard earned money to stand in the corridor for the whole night and being discriminated and yes I did make a complain twice to management but members of staff who are rude still working their that's why I stop going their
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I went for 1 hour last Friday was very disappointed its living in a time Worp I think was line stepping back 30 years such a same as location is great I think needs a complete modernisation.
" it's not a place for single guys"
Felt line a loose goose got to be honest guys
Lots of better swinging clubs around for single guys like VA and Kestrals/Abfabs |
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"Really
Most of the people know the club is clicky not all staff but some staff are blatantly rude or boder line I don't want to say the r word
Their is a group of people who don't want any any new person to enter in the circle and I know after this comment a lot couples will defend the club because they are part of the that special circle of people
Tell me of a single male go their they are not allowed to sit any where as all tables are booked and cannot go to any rooms as bouncer is on the door which stops you so why the hell I want to waste 40 pounds of my hard earned money to stand in the corridor for the whole night and being discriminated and yes I did make a complain twice to management but members of staff who are rude still working their that's why I stop going their
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We will happily defend the club. We are not part of any clique. In fact that was why we stopped going to an other club. We know of one or two couples who get very protective of their table. However from what we have seen most people don't care who sits at their table once it gets to 10pm...
Yes the club does need some updating but as I said earlier, the owners have made some good improvements and other club goers have told us that there are more to come as time and money allow...
As a couple we mainly play with single guys. We have always found the single guys to be enjoying themselves. There is security at the club for which we are greatful. No matter how well run a club is, you always get people who won't follow the rules. We have found that generally the guys that need speaking to regarding their behaviour don't come back again. We think that makes the club more relaxed and safer for single women... |
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It's also our first time this Saturday. Flying over from Jersey for Rod Stewart on Friday in Brighton then heading to Eurekas Saturday afternoon and staying overnight. Heard so much about the club and just hope its half as good as the reviews say.
If you see us wandering around looking lost please come and say hello ! |
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By *MFC PartiesWoman
over a year ago
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"Really
Most of the people know the club is clicky not all staff but some staff are blatantly rude or boder line I don't want to say the r word"
There is NO WAY that the staff or management of EUREKA are racist
As the organiser of the BMFC (BlackMans FanClub) do you honestly think that i would even CONTEMPLATE hosting our parties there if that were the case?
Your allegation is offensive, unsubstantiated and possibly very damaging
Unfortunately there will always be 1 who will pull out the race card, thankfully its NOT a member of the BMFC!!
Our members really enjoy attending BMFC parties there and appreciate all of the hard work that the staff do to allow us to have our fun!! |
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"I went for 1 hour last Friday was very disappointed its living in a time Worp I think was line stepping back 30 years such a same as location is great I think needs a complete modernisation.
" it's not a place for single guys"
Felt line a loose goose got to be honest guys
Lots of better swinging clubs around for single guys like VA and Kestrals/Abfabs"
if you go to a club and only worry about the décor, a seat is a seat a table is a table we don't go there to worry about what it looks like as long as we have fun who cares, and we do have fun, we are not a part of this so called clique group and we don't feel like were not wanted at all, or is this clique group just regulars that go often and have made friends with other visitors ? |
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"It's also our first time this Saturday. Flying over from Jersey for Rod Stewart on Friday in Brighton then heading to Eurekas Saturday afternoon and staying overnight. Heard so much about the club and just hope its half as good as the reviews say.
If you see us wandering around looking lost please come and say hello !"
Don't wast your money mate |
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"Really
Most of the people know the club is clicky not all staff but some staff are blatantly rude or boder line I don't want to say the r word
There is NO WAY that the staff or management of EUREKA are racist
As the organiser of the BMFC (BlackMans FanClub) do you honestly think that i would even CONTEMPLATE hosting our parties there if that were the case?
Your allegation is offensive, unsubstantiated and possibly very damaging
Unfortunately there will always be 1 who will pull out the race card, thankfully its NOT a member of the BMFC!!
Our members really enjoy attending BMFC parties there and appreciate all of the hard work that the staff do to allow us to have our fun!!"
I did not say all I said some and that how I felt I don't have to use race card at all as I don't go their anymore and as a paying customer i do have a right to have my own opinion. |
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"Really
Most of the people know the club is clicky not all staff but some staff are blatantly rude or boder line I don't want to say the r word
There is NO WAY that the staff or management of EUREKA are racist
As the organiser of the BMFC (BlackMans FanClub) do you honestly think that i would even CONTEMPLATE hosting our parties there if that were the case?
Your allegation is offensive, unsubstantiated and possibly very damaging
Unfortunately there will always be 1 who will pull out the race card, thankfully its NOT a member of the BMFC!!
Our members really enjoy attending BMFC parties there and appreciate all of the hard work that the staff do to allow us to have our fun!!"
And just to add its business for you in any case so you will defend it |
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By *MFC PartiesWoman
over a year ago
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"Really
Most of the people know the club is clicky not all staff but some staff are blatantly rude or boder line I don't want to say the r word
There is NO WAY that the staff or management of EUREKA are racist
As the organiser of the BMFC (BlackMans FanClub) do you honestly think that i would even CONTEMPLATE hosting our parties there if that were the case?
Your allegation is offensive, unsubstantiated and possibly very damaging
Unfortunately there will always be 1 who will pull out the race card, thankfully its NOT a member of the BMFC!!
Our members really enjoy attending BMFC parties there and appreciate all of the hard work that the staff do to allow us to have our fun!!
And just to add its business for you in any case so you will defend it "
Its 'business' correct, but the business wouldn't be successful in a venue that employed racist staff!
But I do agree that as a customer, you have a right to have your opinion ..
Any issues are always easier to deal with if we / staff / management / owners are made aware immediately (as opposed to after the horse has bolted) |
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"Really
Most of the people know the club is clicky not all staff but some staff are blatantly rude or boder line I don't want to say the r word
There is NO WAY that the staff or management of EUREKA are racist
As the organiser of the BMFC (BlackMans FanClub) do you honestly think that i would even CONTEMPLATE hosting our parties there if that were the case?
Your allegation is offensive, unsubstantiated and possibly very damaging
Unfortunately there will always be 1 who will pull out the race card, thankfully its NOT a member of the BMFC!!
Our members really enjoy attending BMFC parties there and appreciate all of the hard work that the staff do to allow us to have our fun!!
And just to add its business for you in any case so you will defend it
Its 'business' correct, but the business wouldn't be successful in a venue that employed racist staff!
But I do agree that as a customer, you have a right to have your opinion ..
Any issues are always easier to deal with if we / staff / management / owners are made aware immediately (as opposed to after the horse has bolted) "
I did sent a very long complain after first time Kiran responded very politely but when I went second time same member of staff behaved in a same manner
How a club can have all rooms as couples only even the video room when they are earning money for single guys and it a decent thing to put a notice on the entrance that its couple only area when I am going to video room a member of staff shouted at me saying where are you going and are you a couple Which I said no and he said out of this area I said you should have a put notice saying couple only area I am feeling embarrassed walking out of the area he said cheerio in such a bad way that I thought what a shame in a swinging place which suppose to be liberated I am treated so badly
I am sure if any one treated in bad way like that they will feel the same
Just a club near by called silver Leigh they treat you like a guest and always have a relaxed feeling their and I have not seen any other clubs need bouncers because we are adults don't like to be treated like children
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over a year ago
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Been to Eureka as a single guy and a couple and always had a bloody brilliant time...people have always seemed friendly...how anyone can come away disappointed is astonishing  |
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As I have said... Security can only be a good thing. On another thread a while back a couple told of a time at a club where three guys jumped them. Two guys attacked the husband and the other guy tried to rape the woman. This apparently happened in a room with other people in, none of whom made any attempt to help the couple. I know that this is a rare occurrence but you do get guys who won't take no for an answer.
You should have been told the rules when you were shown round. Maybe signs would be a good idea as well.
There is one couples only room. There is a VIP which is for couples and invited males, usually no restrictions on single guys going in on there own until it gets busy...
The other rooms are for anyone to use, however they do stop single guys hanging about outside the doors. It's quite off putting when you are playing and the door is constantly rattled and you are shouted at to let guys in to watch or join in.
It would be nice if security weren't required but as I've said a few guys can spoil it for everyone including single guys...
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Just to clarify the couples only room is and has always been signposted. If a single guy tries to enter it is explained to them once, but if they are repeat 'offenders' then they are asked to leave! All other rooms permit single guys with one room being an open door policy. The only time single guys are moved on from this area is if they are being a nuisance or disrespectful. Yes we do have one security guard for our customers peace of mind. Remember we have on average of 200 plus people on a Saturday, and many single guys return. So we must be doing something right. Remember if you stand there and make no effort to mingle and talk to others you more than likely won't have fun. Stand by the rooms and expect it you definitely won't! So a word of advice single guys put yourselves out there, you might just get lucky! |
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over a year ago
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Just to clarify I was never shown around when I came first even I asked
I know their is couple only room which is sign spotted but I am talking about the rooms next to Jacuzzi
And I just went in the area was not bothering any one or doing any thing
I did mention the behaviour of person in my complain when it made it
Tell me re rules and I follow them exactly I am the person who does not drive on 31 in 30 zone
But on the other hand i do have entitlement of respect as I respect other a lot
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The are a set of "rules" written in the area you stated you were standing for all to read. I do not want to get into a ping pong back and forth with you. In future if you have a problem email the club email address in the club section here and not to Kieran as he just runs our naturist website.
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"Thank you Frisky and Risky "
That's ok. We have found a group of like minded people and made some good friends, since finding Eureka's. We have been well looked after by the staff, whom often go the extra mile to help out. We intend to visit the club for many years to come and only want to see it go from strength to strength. It's not a lot but we feel it's only right to put a bit back in to the place that has given us so much pleasure...
Sorry if that sounds a bit OTT to some people but it's the way we feel and why we defend the club so stronly. We realise that the club may not be for everyone and that's fine... |
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"Thank you Frisky and Risky
That's ok. We have found a group of like minded people and made some good friends, since finding Eureka's. We have been well looked after by the staff, whom often go the extra mile to help out. We intend to visit the club for many years to come and only want to see it go from strength to strength. It's not a lot but we feel it's only right to put a bit back in to the place that has given us so much pleasure...
Sorry if that sounds a bit OTT to some people but it's the way we feel and why we defend the club so stronly. We realise that the club may not be for everyone and that's fine..."
Very much our thoughts too  |
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over a year ago
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Well I'm going as a single guy (by the way I'm 59 - almost!!) this coming Wednesday 18th.
I shall be sociable and can't see any reason why it won't be a good evening (there's a naked party then although not sure it's a big one). Have a chat with anyone there and feel pretty sure good will come of it. Everyone agree?
In fact if there's anyone going on Wednesday I'd be really pleased to be shown round a bit?
Booked a chalet as I'm travelling on the next morning..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I made it to Eureka for my 1st time on Wednesday and it was fine. Very quiet (football reasons, no doubt) but the place is my cup of tea and I shall be back.
Isn't it great to take everything off and be at one with nature. |
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over a year ago
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Eurekas is a good club, we've been a couple of times and found the staff and the people that regularly attend friendly and helpful 
We had a good time on both occasions |
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By *arehamMan
over a year ago
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I love going to this place,nothing better than walking naked through the woods,and coming across someone shagging ,then sat on the decking having a cup of tea and a butty watching all the nice people passing buy it's so relaxing sat outside naked on the decking,trouble for me I am in Cheshire but if I was closer I would be there every sunny week end.  |
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loved the club a few yrs ago when more of a swinging club now a meeting/social club for lots of people doing well to try and bring it into the 21st century some people say a bit clicky well they absolutly right clicky and takes time to b welcomed into the group even as a cple we go elsewhere nowdays but best of luck to the new owners and turn it back to a swingers club so people know where they are more rooms needed for fun etc |
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"Really
Most of the people know the club is clicky not all staff but some staff are blatantly rude or boder line I don't want to say the r word
There is NO WAY that the staff or management of EUREKA are racist
As the organiser of the BMFC (BlackMans FanClub) do you honestly think that i would even CONTEMPLATE hosting our parties there if that were the case?
Your allegation is offensive, unsubstantiated and possibly very damaging
Unfortunately there will always be 1 who will pull out the race card, thankfully its NOT a member of the BMFC!!
Our members really enjoy attending BMFC parties there and appreciate all of the hard work that the staff do to allow us to have our fun!!"
I would like to add to this too as I have been going to this club since march last year and a regular at bmfc held there since November.
I like my blackmen and have arranged many meets in the daytime and evening partys there.also have met manyblackmen that also use this club on other times of day/evening that dont know me before seeing me there.
eureka's welcomes anyone thats what makes it unique and a club I always recommend highly |
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"Really
Most of the people know the club is clicky not all staff but some staff are blatantly rude or boder line I don't want to say the r word
There is NO WAY that the staff or management of EUREKA are racist
As the organiser of the BMFC (BlackMans FanClub) do you honestly think that i would even CONTEMPLATE hosting our parties there if that were the case?
Your allegation is offensive, unsubstantiated and possibly very damaging
Unfortunately there will always be 1 who will pull out the race card, thankfully its NOT a member of the BMFC!!
Our members really enjoy attending BMFC parties there and appreciate all of the hard work that the staff do to allow us to have our fun!!"
I would like to add to this too as I have been going to this club since march last year and a regular at bmfc held there since November.
I like my blackmen and have arranged many meets in the daytime and evening partys there.also have met manyblackmen that also use this club on other times of day/evening that dont know me before seeing me there.
eureka's welcomes anyone thats what makes it unique and a club I always recommend highly |
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By *MFC PartiesWoman
over a year ago
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"some people say a bit clicky well they absolutly right clicky and takes time to b welcomed into the group even as a cple"
I always find that conversation is a two way street to be honest
Cliques in my opinion is a much over-used word on these forums
Cliques create an impression of gangs of children in the playground forbidding others to join in their game of rounders
Adult clubs are NOT like that at all
'Cliques' are what i would class as groups of people who have taken time out to have conversations with eachother, and in effect DURING those conversations they have found common ground
Obviously, if they see eachother more than once, they WILL gravitate towards eachother
I have NEVER yet seen ANY adults (in ANY of the venues that i use) have a 'DO NOT APPROACH US AS WE DO NOT WANT TO SPEAK TO STRANGERS' sign in front of them
I find it bizarre to think that people assume its a 'regulars' role to make the effort to talk with other guests
Surely they are there to have fun in whatever way they want to - if that means being a social butterfly and pouncing on the 'new meat' then that's great ... if not, then i feel that they are entitled to stick amongst people who make an equal effort in talking to THEM!!
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We are going there tonight, love the place. Only problem is we don't get there enough, we will be changing that!!!
As with anywhere, go with an openmind and make sure it is your own mind!!!
Have a great time, might see you there later!!
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"some people say a bit clicky well they absolutly right clicky and takes time to b welcomed into the group even as a cple
I always find that conversation is a two way street to be honest
Cliques in my opinion is a much over-used word on these forums
Cliques create an impression of gangs of children in the playground forbidding others to join in their game of rounders
Adult clubs are NOT like that at all
'Cliques' are what i would class as groups of people who have taken time out to have conversations with eachother, and in effect DURING those conversations they have found common ground
Obviously, if they see eachother more than once, they WILL gravitate towards eachother
I have NEVER yet seen ANY adults (in ANY of the venues that i use) have a 'DO NOT APPROACH US AS WE DO NOT WANT TO SPEAK TO STRANGERS' sign in front of them
I find it bizarre to think that people assume its a 'regulars' role to make the effort to talk with other guests
Surely they are there to have fun in whatever way they want to - if that means being a social butterfly and pouncing on the 'new meat' then that's great ... if not, then i feel that they are entitled to stick amongst people who make an equal effort in talking to THEM!!
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Well said...
We found dancing a good way to break the ice. The other great thing about Eureka's is the grounds and pool. Spending a hot Saturday wandering the grounds and relaxing in and around the pool is a great way to meet people. Of course in the evening the hot tub is a little social event of its own...
We spend time with friends that we have made there when we go but I doubt we have ever gone and not met new people...
Trust us, make a little effort and you will make friends there too... |
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I have always had a great time at this club,was there last night,stayed in the lodge,drank,danced,chatted to loads of lovely people,shared champagne with strangers,had awesome sexy fun,I would like to stay for a whole weekend to take advantage of all the facilities but havn't had the chance yet |
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"some people say a bit clicky well they absolutly right clicky and takes time to b welcomed into the group even as a cple
I always find that conversation is a two way street to be honest
Cliques in my opinion is a much over-used word on these forums
Cliques create an impression of gangs of children in the playground forbidding others to join in their game of rounders
Adult clubs are NOT like that at all
'Cliques' are what i would class as groups of people who have taken time out to have conversations with eachother, and in effect DURING those conversations they have found common ground
Obviously, if they see eachother more than once, they WILL gravitate towards eachother
I have NEVER yet seen ANY adults (in ANY of the venues that i use) have a 'DO NOT APPROACH US AS WE DO NOT WANT TO SPEAK TO STRANGERS' sign in front of them
I find it bizarre to think that people assume its a 'regulars' role to make the effort to talk with other guests
Surely they are there to have fun in whatever way they want to - if that means being a social butterfly and pouncing on the 'new meat' then that's great ... if not, then i feel that they are entitled to stick amongst people who make an equal effort in talking to THEM!!
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"I have always had a great time at this club,was there last night,stayed in the lodge,drank,danced,chatted to loads of lovely people,shared champagne with strangers,had awesome sexy fun,I would like to stay for a whole weekend to take advantage of all the facilities but havn't had the chance yet "
Where was my champagne I was there too Friday. Im very strange I saw you both at end of party didnt realise it were you  |
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