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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Really keen on giving a club a go but very nervous being a single male. Any advice or recommendations.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have a look at when there is a fab social at one, then you won't be the only single male and made to feel welcome

going to clubs go with no expectations to play. Chat to people dont be shy in a corner hottubs always good place to meet people, dont grope or jump in uninvited if see playing. If like a woman in a couple chat to the bloke too most important

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I was in that position and got pissed first. So my advice is take a deep breath go along and stay sober

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Really keen on giving a club a go but very nervous being a single male. Any advice or recommendations. "

best advice... 4 words..

dont be an arse!!!!

if you are socialable... you'll do fine at a club...

if you are not... then nobody is going to be able to help you....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have thought about trying a club but it honestly scares the shit out of me

sorry not trying to steal your thread just putting my opinion across

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

All very good advice.. Thanks

It's not in my nature to be an arse I tend to use humour when nervous best remember my good one liners.

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By *izzyandLonglegsCouple over a year ago

Whyteleafe

"Really keen on giving a club a go but very nervous being a single male. Any advice or recommendations. "

Come to Eurekas Friday, we are 2f and 1 m going x

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By *elaxedsexyfunMan over a year ago

Northants

Stop whining on here and just go!

Whats up with you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Not a "whine" anywhere that I posted? Was seeking advice in the swingers club section. Pleased you could give you wise words of advice! Tool!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Go with no expectations,be sociable and chatty,don't be scared,clubs are full of ordinary people that live ordinary lives

Try not to let nerves get the better of you,I was shaking the first time we went to a club,once I was in there for 10 minutes my nerves went and I realised that all my preconceived ideas about them were wrong and I had a great time

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Living in Banbury I would be uncertain where the best club for single males would be now Libs has closed the door to singles.

Chams has a waiting list so perhaps have a look round and see what the midlands has to offer I think you may have to travel a bit.

Be yourself and enter into the social side before ripping your clothes off and diving in!

Don't follow anyone around and always speak to both parties when interacting with couples. Avoid the booby stare conversation.

And have fun hardest part is walking through the door. Love clubs.

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