Chams is a lovely place to go as a 1st time. Staff are lovely and helpful and will show you around. Just let them know its your 1st visit. On our 1st visit....which wasnt that long ago....we met some really fun, nice ppl who will all say hello. Try the jacuzzi....always breaks the ice lol.Take things at your own pace. We still go with that attitude and it works for us well. Sundays are a good day to go. Nice friendly crowd. Good luck and enjoy xxx  |
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Chams is great, it's the only place (swinging or real world) that's I'm comfortable to go to alone. Staff are great and the people in there I've always found really friendly & relaxed. I tend to stick to less busy times like Sunday afternoons. |
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Thanks for the advise really appreciate it. Might try a Sunday on your recommendation. S is very shy and is not sure about it but said she will go and have a look. I on the other hand am rearing to go |
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"Thanks for the advise really appreciate it. Might try a Sunday on your recommendation. S is very shy and is not sure about it but said she will go and have a look. I on the other hand am rearing to go "
Then my advice would be to let her lead the way at exploring etc. Go at her pace and make sure she's ok. You might be tempted to leap in but if she's a bit nervous that will just make it worse and she might never want to go again. Or she may love it.....!
Have fun. x |
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Totally agree it doesn't matter about me just want her to be comfortable and relaxed. She has self esteem issues and would like her to release that she is a very attractive and sext woman who i love very much x |
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All clubs we have been to look "dodgy" from the outside.... No windows etc
Don't let that put you off
You will probably be very nervous walking up to the club... Don't worry... They are fine inside and all the people are there for the same reason
We popped our cherry at Chams.... Thought everyone would be super model types.... Erm lol
Have fun and good luck |
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We popped our cherry in chams too. It's a great place. I'd concentrate in getting chatting to people rather than trying to work out who to make your first swap.
Go with the intention of just meeting people and seeing what happens there. If anything develops then it's a bonus.
You can always enjoy each other in a more public environment and that's a pretty fun feeling too |
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My first club was chams too
I recently took a complete swinging virgin, on a very quiet Thursday afternoon. He treated it like a bit of a spa afternoon.
sitting at the bar is a good place to strike up convos |
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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago
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Great place to visit. No doubt you`ll feel a bit strange having to get dressed in just a towel. If that seems to be a bit daunting, try shorts, with or without a top of some sort. A sexy little dress or underwear type for the ladies will do as well. You`ll get lost over the three floors at some time - all part of the fun! Keep an eye out for the sun deck, couples room, cinema, steam room, jaccuzzi and dungeon.Don`t forget to try the food if you`re hungry and bring your own alkyhole! Hand the drink over and quote your locker number to get some served! Any left over will be returned as you leave but don`t forget to ask for it!
Finally, have a brilliant, sexy time, even if it is only with yourselves!  |
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17th is a Saturday and probably a good first night to dip yer toes...couples only... You should enjoy
Depends what you want of course...
We have only once been on a non-Saturday and, tbh, wouldn't do it again |
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