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Can males go alone to a swingers club or is it couples only want try my local swingers clubs think it's after 8 it's called but not sure on what the low down is  |
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"Can males go alone to a swingers club or is it couples only want try my local swingers clubs think it's after 8 it's called but not sure on what the low down is "
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Most clubs have at least one mixed night where all are welcome. Some clubs have waiting lists though for single male membership.
My local club has mixed nights on Friday and Sunday and couples and single fems on Saturday.
Use the Swingers Clubs button on the home page, look for your local club and there will be a link to their website. All the info should be there.
Btw don't forget photo id. |
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"Can males go alone to a swingers club or is it couples only want try my local swingers clubs think it's after 8 it's called but not sure on what the low down is "
Different clubs have different rules, some are no singer guys, some you have to pre book and some are unlimited. Best to check the website or ring x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I really want to go to a club single or couple but I'm so nervous it's unbelievable need to go with some one who is confident not saying I ent cause I am but fear the unknown. If any one would like to hold my hand and kick me in there then I'm really want to get to know my swinging side. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I really want to go to a club single or couple but I'm so nervous it's unbelievable need to go with some one who is confident not saying I ent cause I am but fear the unknown. If any one would like to hold my hand and kick me in there then I'm really want to get to know my swinging side. "
if you were confident then you'd be able to walk in on your own. So you're not as confident as you say you are by the sounds of it. In all honesty, single women don't get much out of an evening by "coupling" up with a single bloke. If you can walk into a pub on you're own then you can walk into a swingers club on you're own. The only differences is that you have to pay entrance and people get naked |
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"I really want to go to a club single or couple but I'm so nervous it's unbelievable need to go with some one who is confident not saying I ent cause I am but fear the unknown. If any one would like to hold my hand and kick me in there then I'm really want to get to know my swinging side. "
Most people are nervous the first time, don't worry. Go to a social- you can have a look round the club and chat to some people with no pressure.
Look this one up-
http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/events/268079 |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Clubs are really not that frightening a place, just do a bit of research online find a club that suits you, contact them and go, we've always found them very friendly, but just remember you are not guaranteed any action |
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"I really want to go to a club single or couple but I'm so nervous it's unbelievable need to go with some one who is confident not saying I ent cause I am but fear the unknown. If any one would like to hold my hand and kick me in there then I'm really want to get to know my swinging side.
if you were confident then you'd be able to walk in on your own. So you're not as confident as you say you are by the sounds of it. In all honesty, single women don't get much out of an evening by "coupling" up with a single bloke. If you can walk into a pub on you're own then you can walk into a swingers club on you're own. The only differences is that you have to pay entrance and people get naked"
Bit harsh but fair point I am confident it's just the fear and not knowing any one. Yes I know we all have to start some where will do it that's a promise let the good times roll. And yes I know I'm not guaranteed action it's just the thrill of the chase |
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"I really want to go to a club single or couple but I'm so nervous it's unbelievable need to go with some one who is confident not saying I ent cause I am but fear the unknown. If any one would like to hold my hand and kick me in there then I'm really want to get to know my swinging side.
if you were confident then you'd be able to walk in on your own. So you're not as confident as you say you are by the sounds of it. In all honesty, single women don't get much out of an evening by "coupling" up with a single bloke. If you can walk into a pub on you're own then you can walk into a swingers club on you're own. The only differences is that you have to pay entrance and people get naked
Bit harsh but fair point I am confident it's just the fear and not knowing any one. Yes I know we all have to start some where will do it that's a promise let the good times roll. And yes I know I'm not guaranteed action it's just the thrill of the chase "
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There is a big social event in June in Bedford if you can make it there, it's my joint birthday party, there is even a pre social event in the daytime so you'd get to meet a fair few people with their clothes on first, pm me if you want the details xx |
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By *heRainManMan
over a year ago
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"Can males go alone to a swingers club or is it couples only want try my local swingers clubs think it's after 8 it's called but not sure on what the low down is
ring them up and ask"
Or message their profile on here! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Most clubs have at least one mixed night where all are welcome. Some clubs have waiting lists though for single male membership.
My local club has mixed nights on Friday and Sunday and couples and single fems on Saturday.
Use the Swingers Clubs button on the home page, look for your local club and there will be a link to their website. All the info should be there.
Btw don't forget photo id."
 thanks I'll look on line might go this weekend |
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I went to Angela on my own (Beth wasn't around), so I treated it like a social - first time I'd gone on my own and also first time to the club. It was very different to going with a partner! I found everyone really friendly, single girls, guys and couples. I guess my assumption was no action, so I didn't come over to needy and it just made it really easy to talk to people - needless to say we went together the following w/e and had a great time! My advice is just go, it is much easier than talking to people in a pub! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Can males go alone to a swingers club or is it couples only want try my local swingers clubs think it's after 8 it's called but not sure on what the low down is
ring them up and askOr message their profile on here!"
the clubs have profiles in here did not know that think as |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Well written. I'm sure I'm going to be fine looked in to it going to contact chasm tomoz wish me luck "
Chams is probably one if the hardest clubs to get into as a single male, I think there is a waiting list for membership as a single male, but best to give them a call to make sure |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I really want to go to a club single or couple but I'm so nervous it's unbelievable need to go with some one who is confident not saying I ent cause I am but fear the unknown. If any one would like to hold my hand and kick me in there then I'm really want to get to know my swinging side.
if you were confident then you'd be able to walk in on your own. So you're not as confident as you say you are by the sounds of it. In all honesty, single women don't get much out of an evening by "coupling" up with a single bloke. If you can walk into a pub on you're own then you can walk into a swingers club on you're own. The only differences is that you have to pay entrance and people get naked
Bit harsh but fair point I am confident it's just the fear and not knowing any one. Yes I know we all have to start some where will do it that's a promise let the good times roll. And yes I know I'm not guaranteed action it's just the thrill of the chase "
Sorry, didn't mean for it to come across as harsh  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I really want to go to a club single or couple but I'm so nervous it's unbelievable need to go with some one who is confident not saying I ent cause I am but fear the unknown. If any one would like to hold my hand and kick me in there then I'm really want to get to know my swinging side.
if you were confident then you'd be able to walk in on your own. So you're not as confident as you say you are by the sounds of it. In all honesty, single women don't get much out of an evening by "coupling" up with a single bloke. If you can walk into a pub on you're own then you can walk into a swingers club on you're own. The only differences is that you have to pay entrance and people get naked
Bit harsh but fair point I am confident it's just the fear and not knowing any one. Yes I know we all have to start some where will do it that's a promise let the good times roll. And yes I know I'm not guaranteed action it's just the thrill of the chase
Sorry, didn't mean for it to come across as harsh "
It's cool sometimes people need a push and u pushed so thank you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Looks it all has already been said but yes going to a club as a single guy is not a problem. I use clubs for networking and treat them as a social. If anything happens all the better but I never go with any expectations |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Looks it all has already been said but yes going to a club as a single guy is not a problem. I use clubs for networking and treat them as a social. If anything happens all the better but I never go with any expectations"
yep got it now just was not sure so going go try my local club in Edinburgh in the midweek |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Hardest thing is walking through the door the rest comes easy if your a non pushy social guy.
The problem that you will have should you find a girl to go with is that if you don't hit it off you are more or less tied to each other the whole night. As clubs frown on singles going on the prowl if you arrive as a couple. Although the single girl will be fine.
Your best finding a club on a Friday night that allows single men. Ring up before hand and just bite the bullet. Once through the door your no different from anyone else. Be social and don't cling. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hardest thing is walking through the door the rest comes easy if your a non pushy social guy.
The problem that you will have should you find a girl to go with is that if you don't hit it off you are more or less tied to each other the whole night. As clubs frown on singles going on the prowl if you arrive as a couple. Although the single girl will be fine.
Your best finding a club on a Friday night that allows single men. Ring up before hand and just bite the bullet. Once through the door your no different from anyone else. Be social and don't cling. "
aye am thinking if can go with someone who been before will just be easier but like you say means your tied to them for the night the hard part is getting the nerve to walk in on your own but ones in will be like a normally club few drinks will help lol |
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"I really want to go to a club single or couple but I'm so nervous it's unbelievable need to go with some one who is confident not saying I ent cause I am but fear the unknown. If any one would like to hold my hand and kick me in there then I'm really want to get to know my swinging side. "
If I lived closer I would go with you x that all day one in Bedford sounds like a lot of fun x |
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"I really want to go to a club single or couple but I'm so nervous it's unbelievable need to go with some one who is confident not saying I ent cause I am but fear the unknown. If any one would like to hold my hand and kick me in there then I'm really want to get to know my swinging side.
If I lived closer I would go with you x that all day one in Bedford sounds like a lot of fun x "
all day now that sounds my kind a place lol there is one local to me was on the website just need go try it out see if it's what I dream off lol na just think could be a good crack and if I pull even better lol |
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