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Appropriate or not??
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Just thought we would ask opinions on this. We went to a swinging club at the weekend, great club and we always have a fantastic time so please don't think we're giving the club a bad review, but in the couples room the bed (which would normally accommodate 6 couples comfortably) was completely taken up with 2 couples. One couple were asleep and the other having a chat about cancer, of all things! Anyone else think this is inappropriate, especially when the other couples in the room were trying to have some sexy fun squashed up on the chairs around the couples bed? It was a tad off putting to say the least! |
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So not just us then!! We did consider telling the staff but they were so busy and I'm not too sure how they would have gone about tackling it! In hindsight we should have maybe said something but, again, how do you go about doing that?!! Tricky!! |
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Yes it was inappropriate... and selfish. We've come across similar before ourselves. A while back, Z and I were trying to have some sexy playtime in a room when two other couples who'd finished playing, started talking loudly and laughing about 'which way round to put contact lenses' and what they were having for Sunday lunch the next day. Most off-putting! I do wish people would take their post-coital conversations to a socialising area and have some consideration for those still playing. |
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By *atchMan
over a year ago
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"So not just us then!! We did consider telling the staff but they were so busy and I'm not too sure how they would have gone about tackling it! In hindsight we should have maybe said something but, again, how do you go about doing that?!! Tricky!! "
Is inappropriate think you should have told the staff who could have acted rather than say something which could have resulted in confrontation. |
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Definitely, post coital conversation is good but there's a time and a place and usually the clubs have a social area which is an appropriate place!
I'm so pleased that the responses so far have agreed with us, maybe if it were to happen again, we would have the courage to challenge them! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We had the same thing in Xtasia. A group of people were chatting and laughing really loudly whilst we were trying to play. In another club we had two women spectators discussing working together really loudly and laughing. In my opinion if you aren't playing them either keep quiet or move somewhere else where you can chat. |
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That happened to me at Club Lick, it's closed now, me and a friend trying to get it on, in pretty much the only play area, 1 couple talking about the price of eggs and the other whether they should put their kid in a private school or not. Didn't really bother me until I started cumming (quite loudly) and they tutted at me!! |
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"We had the same thing in Xtasia. A group of people were chatting and laughing really loudly whilst we were trying to play. In another club we had two women spectators discussing working together really loudly and laughing. In my opinion if you aren't playing them either keep quiet or move somewhere else where you can chat."
Definitely!! There are appropriate areas for chatting and socialising! |
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"Could you not have just asked them politely to move, or found somewhere else to play?"
After getting some feedback from others to see whether other people think it's inappropriate, I think we definitely will challenge this type of behaviour in future! |
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"That happened to me at Club Lick, it's closed now, me and a friend trying to get it on, in pretty much the only play area, 1 couple talking about the price of eggs and the other whether they should put their kid in a private school or not. Didn't really bother me until I started cumming (quite loudly) and they tutted at me!!"
Really??!!! Unbelievable!! |
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"I think "excuse me would you mind taking your conversation to a more appropriate area please we are trying to have some sexy fun here, thank you" would have easily slipped from my lips!"
We will definitely give that a try if it happens again!! |
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"That happened to me at Club Lick, it's closed now, me and a friend trying to get it on, in pretty much the only play area, 1 couple talking about the price of eggs and the other whether they should put their kid in a private school or not. Didn't really bother me until I started cumming (quite loudly) and they tutted at me!!
Really??!!! Unbelievable!! "
Agreed. Bizarre how they start tutting. They are in a sex club and people are having sex. Discuss price of eggs elsewhere. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe childish but ........moved chairs , tables , whatever the furniture you were playing on right next to the people talking . Then go for it . Vocals on super high , moans turned up 100 notches .
They soon would bugger off .
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That happened to me at Club Lick, it's closed now, me and a friend trying to get it on, in pretty much the only play area, 1 couple talking about the price of eggs and the other whether they should put their kid in a private school or not. Didn't really bother me until I started cumming (quite loudly) and they tutted at me!!
Really??!!! Unbelievable!!
Agreed. Bizarre how they start tutting. They are in a sex club and people are having sex. Discuss price of eggs elsewhere."
Walked up ...... Gave them the extra 20 p for the eggs  |
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Playing at Xtasia last year in the silhouette room when two couples piled into the camera room next door (complete with drinks) and started having a nice long social chit-chat.
Very off putting as we could hear every word and annoying too for couples wishing to play as it was a very busy night and space was at a bit tight. |
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Happens at a lot of clubs, people chatting and laughing in the play areas but the one that gets our goat is a guy just sat on a bed in a playroom watching the TV and pulling his pud, happened a couple of times at a certain club, waste of a play room |
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"Yes it was inappropriate but i would have just reported it to the staff. More likely to have got a positive outcome than posting on here."
I think the OP was asking opinions on whether they would be overreacting by talking to staff or mentioning to the chatters how inconsiderate and inappropriate their behaviour was being... so I think they have, in fact, had a very positive outcome by posting in here. |
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