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New swinging couple looking to try a club together for first time!.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all.me and partner are looking to try a club for the first time together in the not so distant future.we have ruled out chams/xtasia even though it's prob the best two clubs in the uk by the reviews. as it's to close to home for us two. Was thinking either chams in Newport cuspids or partners?. Ideally looking for couple only nights but can only really go on a Saturday night.sorry to babble on hope someone can help.thanks |
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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago
near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack! |
You say Chams and Xtasia are too close to home. I take it you are worried about being seen by someone you know and this is entirely understandable. I`m a good 100+ miles away from Chams and I`ve seen a buisnessman based about 20 miles away from me there. My very good friend came face to face with a work mate of hers there and neither live anywhere near Chams.
I know it`s easy for me to say but if you see someone you know there, remember they are there for exactly the same thing, they will probably be as embarrassed as you at being "caught" and will no doubt be more than happy for you to pass them with a mere nod of the head in acknowledgement! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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See i dont Think the its too close rule works ...last Year i travelled an hour and half to Chams and sat in the hit tub with two couplesfrom the SSame city as me ....when i asked Why they didnt go to le chambre in sheffield they said it was too close yet here We were 5 people from sheffield sat in the Same jaccuzzi  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for feedback. It's my partner in crime rule about the distance. First of all she ruled out a club completely but know she has warmth to the idea just not chams or xtasia. She has a very important job where she must act professional in and out of work. So she worried of getting caught.chams would be my first choice but ultimately it's the ladies decision . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The 2 guys I chatted to yesterday in Chams were from Bristol and Bath!!"
yeah I fully understand people come from all over to go chams I really do but it's hard to tell someone that when they think there right lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeh partners was a possibility prob swaying towards that one only downfall pref no single guys on are first experience together "
The only till you'll get that is a couples only night and they are usually midweek. Clubs have couple only rooms too if you want privacy |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Not a clue where st.neots is lol.yeah it's true about the couples only rooms but still gonna get single guys keep coming up to you and perving just something don't really want but only night can play is a Saturday so it's a tricky one x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not a clue where st.neots is lol.yeah it's true about the couples only rooms but still gonna get single guys keep coming up to you and perving just something don't really want but only night can play is a Saturday so it's a tricky one x"
Most single guys have been very respectful In my experience. Clubs have strict rules so if you get pestered it would be dealt with and the guys are aware of this..
Whatever you decide good luck  |
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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago
Up North |
I always enjoyed cupids. Especially on a party night.
It depends what you want from a club. Would you like it busy? Are you just interested in looking around and not playing? Work out what you want then look what's on. I have a few clubs I could choose from in manchester. All I visited more than once and had very different nights each time.
I wouldn't be too worried about couples only nights as well. Single men don't follow you around pestering you for sex. I found that on couples nights people were not as friendly. But that is only my opinion.
Perhaps attend a social at a club first? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Chams Newport will be out too as its now only open on a Friday night and that's a mixed night.
Firstly i think you should decide what kind.of club you want to visit.
A wet style or.nightstyle club then decide from reviews and feedback on which one you like the found of x have fun x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeh partners was a possibility prob swaying towards that one only downfall pref no single guys on are first experience together
The only till you'll get that is a couples only night and they are usually midweek. Clubs have couple only rooms too if you want privacy "
A lot of clubs are couples only Saturday night |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tease, VA and Jaydees are all an easy drive from the midlands.
We used to have a similar concern about being spotted but you can't over think it. A couple we once met a Tease had driven 2 1/2 hours to get there and bumped in to an old school friend there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not a clue where st.neots is lol.yeah it's true about the couples only rooms but still gonna get single guys keep coming up to you and perving just something don't really want but only night can play is a Saturday so it's a tricky one x"
Not far from Bedford if that's any help. x  |
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youve all missed one of the best .infusions blackpool ,,head up there and make a weekend of it cples and single girls only on saturday nights and a big pool to chill in and cool down after play ... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi thanks all we both don't mind walking round in towels and under wear we had a browse of xtasia before it opened at 8 pm one night we liked the lay out of that just to close to my partners house. |
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We would recommend the vanilla alternative.
Saturday's are couples and single ladies only.
you will get a tour from one of the lovely hostesses and made to feel comfortable and at ease.
Give the place a google. ..... and if you do go say hi x x |
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