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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all,
Thinking of trying Abfabs next Friday (going as a single guy).
Is this a good place to go for first experience of swingers party?
Not sure what to expect as a single guy, but would be happy if I was just made to feel welcome, and not left standing on my jack
Any thoughts, or advice.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Going as single guy that sounds like you are not actually single unless i am missing something."
as opposed to being one half of a couple I imagine he means 
OP I've only been in the past as part of a couple so can't really comment from a single mans point of view ~ however I do remember there being quite a few single men who just seemed to walk around looking a little lost.
Give it a go, you have nothing to lose and everything to gain  |
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"Going as single guy that sounds like you are not actually single unless i am missing something.
as opposed to being one half of a couple I imagine he means
OP I've only been in the past as part of a couple so can't really comment from a single mans point of view ~ however I do remember there being quite a few single men who just seemed to walk around looking a little lost.
Give it a go, you have nothing to lose and everything to gain "
Accept the 40 quid tgey charge you to get in. Its crap. Been only the once but was awful to be honest |
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OP I think classy is right. There are quite a few single guys on a Friday and it can be a little hard to mingle fo single guys.
Also I think it is a very expensive way to try a club. Personally I would recommend a quieter night where you can chill and people watch, get a feel for the place. If you can, go on a Wednesday. If you go during the day you can use all the spa parts and get chatting to some of the people who will be staying on in to the night. |
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"OP I think classy is right. There are quite a few single guys on a Friday and it can be a little hard to mingle fo single guys.
Also I think it is a very expensive way to try a club. Personally I would recommend a quieter night where you can chill and people watch, get a feel for the place. If you can, go on a Wednesday. If you go during the day you can use all the spa parts and get chatting to some of the people who will be staying on in to the night."
That sounds like a good idea, especially in the summer |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks guys, and just to clarify going as a single guy was as opposed to going as a couple!
Think I may leave it a while, and see if I can find someone to go there with as really want to figure it out properly, rather than stand around looking awkard
Cheers again! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thanks guys, and just to clarify going as a single guy was as opposed to going as a couple!
Think I may leave it a while, and see if I can find someone to go there with as really want to figure it out properly, rather than stand around looking awkard
Cheers again!"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I knew what you meant...
Yep! Cheers for the reply, I'll buy u a drink if I see you there
oh btw it's BYO...but thanks anyway!"
lol, ok I'll bring you a Pimms, seeing as you are classy |
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We are going on Friday but it can be a bit hit & miss. We've had some great Fridays there but sometimes it is just overrun with single guys which works for me, I'm terribly greedy  but sometimes it'd be nice for Titus to have more female attention on a Friday.
We find if we arrange to meet people there we have a better night. You're doing the right thing by posting. Fingers crossed we can all drum up some interest in a super Filthy Friday at Abs!
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