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I do attend swinging clubs regularly and recently talking to few guys on these clubs noticed the disproportional number of married and attached guys labeling themselves as single visiting these venues without the consent of wives, partners or girlfriends.
I never cheated on anyone and embraced the hedonistic single lifestyle to make friends and have fun.
Is it normal to be a cheater those days or am I being a moron?  |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"I do attend swinging clubs regularly and recently talking to few guys on these clubs noticed the disproportional number of married and attached guys labeling themselves as single visiting these venues without the consent of wives, partners or girlfriends.
I never cheated on anyone and embraced the hedonistic single lifestyle to make friends and have fun.
Is it normal to be a cheater those days or am I being a moron? "
my advice is:
you do your thing and let them do theirs... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wow op your a model male.
Every woman on here will totally respect you and want you, now that they know how 110% honest and free from closet dwelling skeletons.
How do you do it.
£50 says op is married and wife is unaware. |
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"OP would you turn down a woman at a party if she told you she was married and didnt have husbands consent? "
Yes I have done in the past if the information is disclosed before any consenting play. Don't want to have a husband knocking on my door if he finds out  |
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"Wow op your a model male.
Every woman on here will totally respect you and want you, now that they know how 110% honest and free from closet dwelling skeletons.
How do you do it.
£50 says op is married and wife is unaware. "
I am not saying I am a model male just noticed that sometimes the number of real single guys on clubs is inferior to the married and attached pretending to be single. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OP would you turn down a woman at a party if she told you she was married and didnt have husbands consent?
Yes I have done in the past if the information is disclosed before any consenting play. Don't want to have a husband knocking on my door if he finds out "
so I'm just wondering why it's ok that way round? |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"I do attend swinging clubs regularly and recently talking to few guys on these clubs noticed the disproportional number of married and attached guys labeling themselves as single visiting these venues without the consent of wives, partners or girlfriends.
I never cheated on anyone and embraced the hedonistic single lifestyle to make friends and have fun.
Is it normal to be a cheater those days or am I being a moron? "
it is interesting in club situations because I have heard the following phrase being used:
"oh god I would never bring my wife to a club list this!!!!"
in a way.. destain for the partner and destain for the people they think do this as couples
in a club situation some people just dont care who they play with, and others just dont care to ask those question!...
its a hard fact of life.....
plausable denyability, clear consciences ect ect...
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"OP would you turn down a woman at a party if she told you she was married and didnt have husbands consent?
Yes I have done in the past if the information is disclosed before any consenting play. Don't want to have a husband knocking on my door if he finds out
so I'm just wondering why it's ok that way round? "
To me it is not OK. That's the reason I put the post for discussion. Anyway as someone already said I should mind my own business!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wow op your a model male.
Every woman on here will totally respect you and want you, now that they know how 110% honest and free from closet dwelling skeletons.
How do you do it.
£50 says op is married and wife is unaware.
I am not saying I am a model male just noticed that sometimes the number of real single guys on clubs is inferior to the married and attached pretending to be single."
How do you notice? Do they all stand around saying what their other halves are up to? |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"OP would you turn down a woman at a party if she told you she was married and didnt have husbands consent? "
Speaking for myself... have done so in the past, will do so in the future....
did i in the past... hold my hand up and said yes....
would i do so now? nope!
older, wiser, and seen the consecquences to know that no one is bulletproof... and maybe, to be honest, people need to see that before they change their outlooks |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I do attend swinging clubs regularly and recently talking to few guys on these clubs noticed the disproportional number of married and attached guys labeling themselves as single visiting these venues without the consent of wives, partners or girlfriends.
I never cheated on anyone and embraced the hedonistic single lifestyle to make friends and have fun.
Is it normal to be a cheater those days or am I being a moron? "
I say each to their own. I do not need to justify my choices to anyone in life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Doing things behind your partners back weakens and destroys a relationship. Being honest and talking about your fantasies to your partner can be very rewarding to a good future. If your fantasies don't appeal to each other, then are you right for each other?  |
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"Wow op your a model male.
Every woman on here will totally respect you and want you, now that they know how 110% honest and free from closet dwelling skeletons.
How do you do it.
£50 says op is married and wife is unaware.
I am not saying I am a model male just noticed that sometimes the number of real single guys on clubs is inferior to the married and attached pretending to be single.
How do you notice? Do they all stand around saying what their other halves are up to?"
Interestingly on the social areas when talking to each other quite a few mention they are not single and the wife, partner etc. does not know they are in there. Again don't get me wrong is just me if people are happy to do so then who am I to condemn. Might be the years spent at Catholic school...lol  |
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"Sounds like the rant of a bitter person not getting his (perceived) fair share of women at a club"
Nothing to do with perceived/fair share of women mate. Just make me feel uncomfortable when by chance you know the other half of the couple and she does not have clue of what his man is up to. Again not to be repetitive just a topic for discussion and as I said perhaps I am being a moron. |
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"Sounds like the rant of a bitter person not getting his (perceived) fair share of women at a club
Nothing to do with perceived/fair share of women mate. Just make me feel uncomfortable when by chance you know the other half of the couple and she does not have clue of what his man is up to. Again not to be repetitive just a topic for discussion and as I said perhaps I am being a moron."
You're not being a moron it's valid opinion and something you've observed. It's a very emotive subject however and polarises opinion quite dramatically on here however I don't see how a discussion has any value if it descends into insult. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The flip side of the coin is, we were in chams a few weeks ago and met a single fem who went on to boast her boyfriend had no idea where she was and went on to tell us what a sap he was and then went on to grab my cock, I've got to say it put us off all together she looked nice but then her personality came out so it's not just single men |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sounds like the rant of a bitter person not getting his (perceived) fair share of women at a club
That is an unfair comment."
Yes it is an unfair comment, why the vitriol ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Go to a club in valentines night or nye then you can see who is really single
Why?
Single is not synonymous with alone. "
Because Valentine's you struggle to get.single guys for the clubs xx |
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"Go to a club in valentines night or nye then you can see who is really single
Why?
Single is not synonymous with alone. "
Go to a swinging club on either of these nights and from our experience you will see the amount of single males to be there significantly less than a normal night |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was in a club for the valentines do this year lol, there was a fair amount of guy there to be fair!"
We went to chams on valentines night and Steve the manager said there was about 50% of the normal amount of males |
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"Go to a club in valentines night or nye then you can see who is really single
Why?
Single is not synonymous with alone.
Go to a swinging club on either of these nights and from our experience you will see the amount of single males to be there significantly less than a normal night "
difficult to get away on a "lads" night out on those occasions  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Go to a club in valentines night or nye then you can see who is really single
Why?
Single is not synonymous with alone.
Go to a swinging club on either of these nights and from our experience you will see the amount of single males to be there significantly less than a normal night
difficult to get away on a "lads" night out on those occasions "
Exactly |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I do attend swinging clubs regularly and recently talking to few guys on these clubs noticed the disproportional number of married and attached guys labeling themselves as single visiting these venues without the consent of wives, partners or girlfriends.
I never cheated on anyone and embraced the hedonistic single lifestyle to make friends and have fun.
Is it normal to be a cheater those days or am I being a moron? "
about 50% of the single guys ive met on fab spill the beans that they have a wife... Its pretty common it would seem |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Call me naive, but in the club scene, does anyone go around asking if members are unattached? If you do how many respond with the truth?"
I always ask the guys I meet in clubs if they are...9 times out of 10 theyre usually so stunned by being asked thay they fess up without thinking that they ain't getting a thing from that point on...the few that lie get caught out eventually |
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