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A MUST visit!!!!!!!
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 being outside is amazing too!
There's no single guys though | |||
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"Couldn't agree more. It was our first swing club 4 years ago! We dived in head first & have never looked back. Been about 20 times since. Nothing to compare to it in the UK. If you get a sunny Sunday being outside is amazing too!
There's no single guys though "Well we be going back in the summer to try it  | |||
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"And no single men allowed" Def not on the 'must' list then lol | |||
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"And no single men allowed" No point in me going then.  | |||
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"And no single men allowed Def not on the 'must' list then lol "Fair enough | |||
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"And no single men allowed No point in me going then. "Nor us  | |||
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"Anyone want to hook up with me as a couple "Lol problem solved | |||
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"Anyone want to hook up with me as a couple "You paying?  | |||
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"Anyone want to hook up with me as a couple
Lol problem solved "Worth a try | |||
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"Anyone want to hook up with me as a couple
You paying? "Sure - it's only money ): Diary dates ? | |||
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"And no single men allowed No point in me going then.
Nor us "Or us! | |||
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"Anyone want to hook up with me as a couple
You paying?
Sure - it's only money ):
Diary dates ?
"Just remembered, I only play with single men, so I'd only be wasting your money. | |||
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"Anyone want to hook up with me as a couple
You paying?
Sure - it's only money ):
Diary dates ?
Just remembered, I only play with single men, so I'd only be wasting your money. " | |||
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"And no single men allowed No point in me going then.
Nor us
Or us!"Or me. | |||
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, im not sure the thread needs 100 replies from people who only play with single men telling everyone they aren't going we get it
Anyway club looks awesome, I wish we had known about it on our last Amsterdam trip!
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"Op made a critical mistake in thinking this was a swinging site , im not sure the thread needs 100 replies from people who only play with single men telling everyone they aren't going we get it
Anyway club looks awesome, I wish we had known about it on our last Amsterdam trip!
"The OP was recommending it as a club for single females, not all single fems play with couples. I wanted clarity before I added it to my bucket list. I used to play with couples but some bad experiences broke me of that habit.  | |||
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"Op made a critical mistake in thinking this was a swinging site , im not sure the thread needs 100 replies from people who only play with single men telling everyone they aren't going we get it
Anyway club looks awesome, I wish we had known about it on our last Amsterdam trip!
"Lol well if you want to meet 'swingers' you should defo give it a go | |||
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" Lol well if you want to meet 'swingers' you should defo give it a go "Those swingers are a dying breed, next time we get to Amsterdam will defiantly look at it. | |||
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"Am I wrong in thinking single women that only meet single men or vice versa are not swingers? (my opinion) and not a dig at anyone " According to the couples on this site, any single person is not a swinger, regardless of who they meet. Meeting couples does not magically make them a swinger, it just makes them someone who meets couples. | |||
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"Am I wrong in thinking single women that only meet single men or vice versa are not swingers? (my opinion) and not a dig at anyone According to the couples on this site, any single person is not a swinger, regardless of who they meet. Meeting couples does not magically make them a swinger, it just makes them someone who meets couples." Yes I guess that makes sense | |||
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"Op made a critical mistake in thinking this was a swinging site , im not sure the thread needs 100 replies from people who only play with single men telling everyone they aren't going we get it
Anyway club looks awesome, I wish we had known about it on our last Amsterdam trip!
"This is a swinging site. And there are plenty of swinging couples who only meet singles - or who meet both couples AND singles. As according to your profile do you ! Couples don't own swinging. And the common sense of superiority some couples choose to display over others is why there is division between couples and singles rather than the respect each deserve!  | |||
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"Op made a critical mistake in thinking this was a swinging site , im not sure the thread needs 100 replies from people who only play with single men telling everyone they aren't going we get it
Anyway club looks awesome, I wish we had known about it on our last Amsterdam trip!
This is a swinging site.
And there are plenty of swinging couples who only meet singles - or who meet both couples AND singles.
As according to your profile do you !
Couples don't own swinging. And the common sense of superiority some couples choose to display over others is why there is division between couples and singles rather than the respect each deserve! "Don't think I disrespected anyone just clearly stated the fact that 2 single people meeting and having sex does not make them a swinger! Pretty simple really | |||
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"Am I wrong in thinking single women that only meet single men or vice versa are not swingers? (my opinion) and not a dig at anyone " I would suggest not getting into this on here, there is a hardcore of obsessive posters that just love to tell you what swinging is and isnt and it always bends to their own situation of course. Generally swinging is defined by partner swapping, but apparently this definition shifts all the time, well according to these forums anyway. Its probably best to live by whatever definition fits best with yourself and not canvass the opinions of people who only have self interest at heart in these matters
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"Am I wrong in thinking single women that only meet single men or vice versa are not swingers? (my opinion) and not a dig at anyone I would suggest not getting into this on here, there is a hardcore of obsessive posters that just love to tell you what swinging is and isnt and it always bends to their own situation of course. Generally swinging is defined by partner swapping, but apparently this definition shifts all the time, well according to these forums anyway. Its probably best to live by whatever definition fits best with yourself and not canvass the opinions of people who only have self interest at heart in these matters
"I'm half of a couple!
*who play and meet with both couples and singles. And don't view either as more 'swingers' than the other! | |||
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" Don't think I disrespected anyone just clearly stated the fact that 2 single people meeting and having sex does not make them a swinger! Pretty simple really" You just cant do this on these forums im afraid, there are too many singles that at the mere mention of what is or isnt swinging will turn it into strawman ad hominem attack. But remember, these forums represent a very small percentage of the swinging community if you went to a club and said exactly what you are saying now you would probably get total agreement the opinions here are just that opinions and you know what they say much like arseholes everyone has one
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" I'm half of a couple!
*who play and meet with both couples and singles. And don't view either as more 'swingers' than the other! "Thats great for you
I Don't see the need to debate the definition of a well defined term "swinging" because it just that well defined, things that fit outside of this scope are not swinging until they become officially included. Who does the official inclusion ? now thats the question isnt it.
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"Am I wrong in thinking single women that only meet single men or vice versa are not swingers? (my opinion) and not a dig at anyone I would suggest not getting into this on here, there is a hardcore of obsessive posters that just love to tell you what swinging is and isnt and it always bends to their own situation of course. Generally swinging is defined by partner swapping, but apparently this definition shifts all the time, well according to these forums anyway. Its probably best to live by whatever definition fits best with yourself and not canvass the opinions of people who only have self interest at heart in these matters
I'm half of a couple!
*who play and meet with both couples and singles. And don't view either as more 'swingers' than the other! "No but the fact is the word 'swinger' originated from couple swapping, no? If a man went to a nightclub and pulled a woman that's not swinging thats a one night stand lol if that's swinging u can say pof is a swingers site | |||
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"Am I wrong in thinking single women that only meet single men or vice versa are not swingers? (my opinion) and not a dig at anyone I would suggest not getting into this on here, there is a hardcore of obsessive posters that just love to tell you what swinging is and isnt and it always bends to their own situation of course. Generally swinging is defined by partner swapping, but apparently this definition shifts all the time, well according to these forums anyway. Its probably best to live by whatever definition fits best with yourself and not canvass the opinions of people who only have self interest at heart in these matters
I'm half of a couple!
*who play and meet with both couples and singles. And don't view either as more 'swingers' than the other!
No but the fact is the word 'swinger' originated from couple swapping, no? If a man went to a nightclub and pulled a woman that's not swinging thats a one night stand lol if that's swinging u can say pof is a swingers site "What about singles that meet couples? And I'm pretty sure that plenty of 'swingers' refer to couples simply swapping with other couples as 'wife swapping' - rather than the more diverse and inclusive term of swinging. But - I'm out. Threads gone off tangent. Enjoy the club - and there's another more local in the UK that's banned single guys now - and didn't get a great response from much of the 'swinging community'. | |||
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" Am I sensing some history here lol " None at all, but being an observant sort I have seen these threads go down in exactly this way before and as the same people involved on those threads are still around posting in exactly the same way
Its pretty funny though how many get up in arms over the ownership of a term, personally I dont care if you call yourself a flying unicorn we meet who we want to meet and do what we want to do, however none of this changes the DEFINITION OF THE TERM SWINGER.
I really enjoy swimming in the sea, I am a mammal however no matter the numbers of characteristics I share with a dolphin I am not one no matter how much I stamp my feet about it, doesn't stop me swimming in the same water as them and enjoying it much the same as they do but equally doesn't make me one
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" Am I sensing some history here lol None at all, but being an observant sort I have seen these threads go down in exactly this way before and as the same people involved on those threads are still around posting in exactly the same way
Its pretty funny though how many get up in arms over the ownership of a term, personally I dont care if you call yourself a flying unicorn we meet who we want to meet and do what we want to do, however none of this changes the DEFINITION OF THE TERM SWINGER.
I really enjoy swimming in the sea, I am a mammal however no matter the numbers of characteristics I share with a dolphin I am not one no matter how much I stamp my feet about it, doesn't stop me swimming in the same water as them and enjoying it much the same as they do but equally doesn't make me one
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" Pat yourself on the back for that one! Lol "Its a shame that the one life truism of internet forums is no one ever wins in argument on the internet. | |||
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" Pat yourself on the back for that one! Lol
Its a shame that the one life truism of internet forums is no one ever wins in argument on the internet.
"I have noticed it does turn abit silly and personal sometimes and ppl just seem to be on a wind up a lot of the time | |||
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"I am not and never want to be categorised as a swinger " Well just don't get a bf and have sex with other couples and you won't be | |||
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"Another Dutch club that doesn't allow unaccompanied males is Fun4two - possibly an even better experience than Fata. For the sake of equal opportunity, the Showboat and Paradise both allow single guys, but best to check with the club before travelling as numbers might be limited. " I have heard fun4two is also amazing | |||
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"I really don't care what I'm termed or called - as long as I'm having fun I really couldn't care about a label " | |||
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