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Hi all,
This may seem like a question that has been asked 1000 times, but I will ask again lol (sorry).
Do any single guys go to any swingers clubs (say Chams).
If so, do you feel a bit weird with loads of couples there and do any of them talk to you or just give you no eye contact?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Single men with membership do go to chams.
Of those members some are invited to play with couples, some join in gg sessions, some play with the female half of the couple, some play with a combination of single women/men fb couples / other labels in one to one or group fun. Some even get asked to play by 2 single women.
Some just watch & wank, some just chill and chat.
Some use the steam room to shave, some nap in private rooms & some even drive over just expecting to get membership at the door
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi all,
This may seem like a question that has been asked 1000 times, but I will ask again lol (sorry).
Do any single guys go to any swingers clubs (say Chams).
If so, do you feel a bit weird with loads of couples there and do any of them talk to you or just give you no eye contact?
Ta"
Yes! And no I don't feel weird as most in clubs are welcoming if you have a smile and the right attitude. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Single men with membership do go to chams.
Of those members some are invited to play with couples, some join in gg sessions, some play with the female half of the couple, some play with a combination of single women/men fb couples / other labels in one to one or group fun. Some even get asked to play by 2 single women.
Some just watch & wank, some just chill and chat.
Some use the steam room to shave, some nap in private rooms & some even drive over just expecting to get membership at the door
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 ....  ...correct answer |
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By *teed99Man
over a year ago
Kettering |
I go to at least one of my local swinger clubs every weekend. Single guys are very welcome but you need to be sensible. Just because you have paid to get in is no guarantee for anything. Conversation is the key to everyone feeling easy. Be respectful. Wait to be asked to join in or ask the question yourself. Can I watch? Can I touch? Can I join in? If the answer is NO, don't be disappointed, just back off and try again elsewhere. Don't stalk the couples or single ladies. If they have gone on a night when single guys are there, they know what to expect but let them do the choosing. If you go to the same club on a regular basis you will build up a friendship with other regulars. Hope this helps. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's been reported that Liberty Elite is stopping single male membership and will be a couple's only club. A sad day when the new era kicks in...  "
its true but its not only couples...single fems are still allowed just not single guys |
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By *stwo80Couple
over a year ago
yorkshire |
"Single men with membership do go to chams.
Of those members some are invited to play with couples, some join in gg sessions, some play with the female half of the couple, some play with a combination of single women/men fb couples / other labels in one to one or group fun. Some even get asked to play by 2 single women.
Some just watch & wank, some just chill and chat.
Some use the steam room to shave, some nap in private rooms & some even drive over just expecting to get membership at the door
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So funny ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I go to at least one of my local swinger clubs every weekend. Single guys are very welcome but you need to be sensible. Just because you have paid to get in is no guarantee for anything. Conversation is the key to everyone feeling easy. Be respectful. Wait to be asked to join in or ask the question yourself. Can I watch? Can I touch? Can I join in? If the answer is NO, don't be disappointed, just back off and try again elsewhere. Don't stalk the couples or single ladies. If they have gone on a night when single guys are there, they know what to expect but let them do the choosing. If you go to the same club on a regular basis you will build up a friendship with other regulars. Hope this helps."
Best post on the thread. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"single males lol
most have wifes and girlfrends at home wouldnt class that as singl and visa versa for the singl fem also lol"
does that include you since you are very keen the run over the single guys in the big bus of yours?........... 
what advice to i give to people... go, open mind no expectation, and don't be an arse!!!
chat... be socialable... chat a bit more, get to know people, don't be an arse!!!
don't be like a lost mute lamb... or a silent ninja patrolling all the play area's waiting to pounce on people... don't be an arse!!!
generally act as if you would on any social friday/saturday night out... you wouldn't feel someone up on a normal night because you'd get your lights knocked out... so don't do it in a club....
don't be an arse!!! notice the common theme!  |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"single males lol
most have wifes and girlfrends at home wouldnt class that as singl and visa versa for the singl fem also lol"
So you have a wife or girlfriend at home? That's good to know, although you should be more honest on your profile. |
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We have been to clubs when single men are allowed in! We don't have a problem with this and have played with a select single male but in a private room. What we find a bit too much is when you feel like you are being stalked by a pack of single men! And if you do fancy a play it can very quickly become claustrophobic! I guess it depends on ratios of couples/fems to single males! Chat and good manners goes a long way! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would love to go but haven't got the courage to go on my own atm.i have one within walking distance of my house but too nervous to go lol"
just get yourself off there if its not that far from you you never know you mite enjoy it |
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"I would love to go but haven't got the courage to go on my own atm.i have one within walking distance of my house but too nervous to go lol
just get yourself off there if its not that far from you you never know you mite enjoy it"
yeah I will pluck up enough courage soon lol |
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Hi All, I'm single and go to AbFabs/Kestrels regularly, have played with single ladies, single guys and couples. Probably slightly different there as it's open all day, naturist during day and swingers in the evenings.
But have played during the day and night |
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