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Hi
Taking the plunge and visiting Xtasia tonight. Up to now I have only been to Chams. I realise they are very different clubs and thought I would go and have a nosey.
I will be visiting with a bi male friend so not nervous and know we will have a good time together.... just curious if anyone has been recently and can offer any advice or give me an idea of numbers etc
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi
Taking the plunge and visiting Xtasia tonight. Up to now I have only been to Chams. I realise they are very different clubs and thought I would go and have a nosey.
I will be visiting with a bi male friend so not nervous and know we will have a good time together.... just curious if anyone has been recently and can offer any advice or give me an idea of numbers etc
thanks x "
Xtasia have posted a few times lately about thier Bi night, saying it's still a fairly new nigh for them, so the numbers are still growing. The more people that go to check it out of course, the higher the number of people will be
I hear it's snowing down in that neck of the woods at the moment, so that could also effect numbers of course. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We're coming on Thursday 20th as want to see Xtasia on a quieter night for a first club visit in a lot of years.
V.V. Nervous.
Anyone else going come and say hello to us.
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over a year ago
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Hi all I know its quite far away but we are after a few people to meet us for j's 21st b'day at _tasia in June bi people are of course what we are after  |
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over a year ago
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Lol...it's a strong consideration...
If i do develop sufficient courage to get my ass down there, im hopeful that there will be a nook or cranny where I can subtly hide with my paralytic fear...
Glad I'm not the only one that suffers from acute gastrobutterflyitus |
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"Lol...it's a strong consideration...
If i do develop sufficient courage to get my ass down there, im hopeful that there will be a nook or cranny where I can subtly hide with my paralytic fear...
Glad I'm not the only one that suffers from acute gastrobutterflyitus "
I drive my husband nuts, always enjoy myself in the endend but the fear of going in places and meeting people has nearly stopped me many times.
If you go save a corner for me please......
I might just wear a large hessian sack with eyeholes cut out, haha.
Im seeing Spongebob Squarepants for some reason. |
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"Lol...it's a strong consideration...
If i do develop sufficient courage to get my ass down there, im hopeful that there will be a nook or cranny where I can subtly hide with my paralytic fear...
Glad I'm not the only one that suffers from acute gastrobutterflyitus
I drive my husband nuts, always enjoy myself in the endend but the fear of going in places and meeting people has nearly stopped me many times.
If you go save a corner for me please......
I might just wear a large hessian sack with eyeholes cut out, haha.
Im seeing Spongebob Squarepants for some reason."
I've talked myself out of such visits a number of times... Conversely, I've defeated the nerves somewhat, at times, and talked myself into going to clubs too.
I do often find a comfy corner for myself and absorb the naughtiness from a safe distance!
I'll seek out a roomy corner to share if you save some space in your sack and cut out an extra pair of holes |
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"We could all hide in the jacuzzi while shaking with fear
True...the bubbles may calm the butterflies and also hide my modesty too "
Well we're not even going to play, just to check it out so I probably won't tear your clothes off, hahahaha. Those are famous last words of course......
If you do turn up come say hello and we'll treat you to a port and lemon to calm you down. There will be 4 of us looking sheepish and the 2 females have never met each other either! |
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"We could all hide in the jacuzzi while shaking with fear
True...the bubbles may calm the butterflies and also hide my modesty too
Well we're not even going to play, just to check it out so I probably won't tear your clothes off, hahahaha. Those are famous last words of course......
If you do turn up come say hello and we'll treat you to a port and lemon to calm you down. There will be 4 of us looking sheepish and the 2 females have never met each other either!"
Well I promise I am 'normal' and take my meds regular ... I hardly ever bite anymore lol x |
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"We could all hide in the jacuzzi while shaking with fear
True...the bubbles may calm the butterflies and also hide my modesty too
Well we're not even going to play, just to check it out so I probably won't tear your clothes off, hahahaha. Those are famous last words of course......
If you do turn up come say hello and we'll treat you to a port and lemon to calm you down. There will be 4 of us looking sheepish and the 2 females have never met each other either!
Well I promise I am 'normal' and take my meds regular ... I hardly ever bite anymore lol x"
*wonders if Dave would agree*
Lmao
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Well we're not even going to play, just to check it out so I probably won't tear your clothes off, hahahaha. Those are famous last words of course......
If you do turn up come say hello and we'll treat you to a port and lemon to calm you down. There will be 4 of us looking sheepish and the 2 females have never met each other either!"
I don't drink so it'll have to be a diet or mineral water
I do hope the music isn't too loud, I hate shouting down people's ears...or not bring able to hear what's been shouted down mine and out of respect, pretending I have, smiling, nodding and then feeling the birth of additional butterflies in my tummy who join the existing colony... 
If you won't mind an additional suitably sheepish looking guy, I'd love to join you all in your nerve-stricken paralysis |
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"We could all hide in the jacuzzi while shaking with fear
True...the bubbles may calm the butterflies and also hide my modesty too
Well we're not even going to play, just to check it out so I probably won't tear your clothes off, hahahaha. Those are famous last words of course......
If you do turn up come say hello and we'll treat you to a port and lemon to calm you down. There will be 4 of us looking sheepish and the 2 females have never met each other either!
Well I promise I am 'normal' and take my meds regular ... I hardly ever bite anymore lol x"
That's good to hear, I prefer being nibbled on |
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"We could all hide in the jacuzzi while shaking with fear
True...the bubbles may calm the butterflies and also hide my modesty too
Well we're not even going to play, just to check it out so I probably won't tear your clothes off, hahahaha. Those are famous last words of course......
If you do turn up come say hello and we'll treat you to a port and lemon to calm you down. There will be 4 of us looking sheepish and the 2 females have never met each other either!
Well I promise I am 'normal' and take my meds regular ... I hardly ever bite anymore lol x
That's good to hear, I prefer being nibbled on "
Nibble away like you're a Cadburys creme egg lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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That's good to hear, I prefer being nibbled on
Nibble away like you're a Cadburys creme egg lol."
Indeed, in fact, when I do, on the rare occasion, manage to my calm my nerves, I could be described as chocolatey and hard on the outside and rather creamy on the inside...perfect for nibbling  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Feel much braver now...thanks to some sensitive and understanding posters..
Gonna spend the next day or so combatting the butterfly infestation...and hopefully, this time on Thursday I'll be making myself clean, smooth and fresh...as well as analysing the clubs plans in order to locate suitable crannies to hide in! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Feel much braver now...thanks to some sensitive and understanding posters..
Gonna spend the next day or so combatting the butterfly infestation...and hopefully, this time on Thursday I'll be making myself clean, smooth and fresh...as well as analysing the clubs plans in order to locate suitable crannies to hide in! "
Well if gibbering wreck here can manage it bet you can! And apparently it'll be a chilled fairly quiet night as it's a new one for the clubclub. Not saying I won't down a large gin before entering mind you!
Can always give the hosts Paul and flirtflirt a heads up that you're a quieter lone male and ask them to show you round, you could find the best hidey-hole (not a euphemism) as you go.
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Well we're not even going to play, just to check it out so I probably won't tear your clothes off, hahahaha. Those are famous last words of course......
If you do turn up come say hello and we'll treat you to a port and lemon to calm you down. There will be 4 of us looking sheepish and the 2 females have never met each other either!
I don't drink so it'll have to be a diet or mineral water
I do hope the music isn't too loud, I hate shouting down people's ears...or not bring able to hear what's been shouted down mine and out of respect, pretending I have, smiling, nodding and then feeling the birth of additional butterflies in my tummy who join the existing colony...
If you won't mind an additional suitably sheepish looking guy, I'd love to join you all in your nerve-stricken paralysis "
Oh there will be 2 lovely but totally nonchalant men who won't be remotely phased........confident b***ards. Haha.
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"Feel much braver now...thanks to some sensitive and understanding posters..
Gonna spend the next day or so combatting the butterfly infestation...and hopefully, this time on Thursday I'll be making myself clean, smooth and fresh...as well as analysing the clubs plans in order to locate suitable crannies to hide in! "
Let the butterflies fly away - once inside you'll be fine. I'll be nervous but I usually blag it and pretend I am not |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Feel much braver now...thanks to some sensitive and understanding posters..
Gonna spend the next day or so combatting the butterfly infestation...and hopefully, this time on Thursday I'll be making myself clean, smooth and fresh...as well as analysing the clubs plans in order to locate suitable crannies to hide in!
Well if gibbering wreck here can manage it bet you can! And apparently it'll be a chilled fairly quiet night as it's a new one for the clubclub. Not saying I won't down a large gin before entering mind you!
Can always give the hosts Paul and flirtflirt a heads up that you're a quieter lone male and ask them to show you round, you could find the best hidey-hole (not a euphemism) as you go.
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I've been once before..at a fab do sometime ago. However, this is a different type of night. I'm hopeful they'll be a nice balance of guys and girls and the hidey-holes I'm familiar with are still there!
Though I don't recall any discreet places in the jacuzzi.. 
However, as you say...if you're going to be brave...I'll pretend to be too! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Feel much braver now...thanks to some sensitive and understanding posters..
Gonna spend the next day or so combatting the butterfly infestation...and hopefully, this time on Thursday I'll be making myself clean, smooth and fresh...as well as analysing the clubs plans in order to locate suitable crannies to hide in!
Let the butterflies fly away - once inside you'll be fine. I'll be nervous but I usually blag it and pretend I am not "
You're right...deep breath...relax...find something to drink....a place to sit and enjoy the ambience. Will wonder around every once in a while just to keep things interesting.
That's the plan, though subject to change I'm sure x |
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By *tasiaCouple
over a year ago
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Just a heads up on these nights for you all. Yes they are still quiet, and when the place is as big as Xtasia is, it can feel very empty if you just wander around. The best bet by far is to get involved with the chat at the bar to start with, both staff and regulars are often there nattering, and welcome in those who make the effort to chat. If you just walk past looking lost, its difficult to engage with you, so do try. We often get up to mischief there, or team up for other fun elsewhere, such as in the Jacuzzi, but it nearly always starts with someone making the effort at the bar! |
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"Just a heads up on these nights for you all. Yes they are still quiet, and when the place is as big as Xtasia is, it can feel very empty if you just wander around. The best bet by far is to get involved with the chat at the bar to start with, both staff and regulars are often there nattering, and welcome in those who make the effort to chat. If you just walk past looking lost, its difficult to engage with you, so do try. We often get up to mischief there, or team up for other fun elsewhere, such as in the Jacuzzi, but it nearly always starts with someone making the effort at the bar!"
Bless you Paul/Flirt xxx
Al and John
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By *arlNLisaCouple
over a year ago
Bulwell, Nottingham |
we will be attending on Thursday too, our first proper bi club night, we have been to _tasia before for the phukt events, love the club and the staff are always great too, if you see us come and say hi
Carl & Lisa |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Late to this chat but I'll be there too (accompanying some of the lovely people mentioned above).
Should be fun.
What you doing up, get to bed hahaha."
I was thinking about you obviously... Yes, off to bed now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Unable to get the before 11...annoyingly...so will have to reschedule the scaredyness for another date...perhaps at Chams
Enjoy your night to all who are attending! |
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By *tasiaCouple
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"Just a heads up on these nights for you all. Yes they are still quiet, and when the place is as big as Xtasia is, it can feel very empty if you just wander around. The best bet by far is to get involved with the chat at the bar to start with, both staff and regulars are often there nattering, and welcome in those who make the effort to chat. If you just walk past looking lost, its difficult to engage with you, so do try. We often get up to mischief there, or team up for other fun elsewhere, such as in the Jacuzzi, but it nearly always starts with someone making the effort at the bar!
Bless you Paul/Flirt xxx
Al and John
(formally Allikins69)"
Blast from the past....got you now, lol. Be great to see you both again.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just to say that last night was great. Great club, sexy people.
Aye was sexy because we were there!
Lol, only kidding.
xxx"
It's probably kinda true though |
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"Just to say that last night was great. Great club, sexy people.
Aye was sexy because we were there!
Lol, only kidding.
xxx"
Yeah sure, you guys are sexy but how do we track down the profiles of those other sexy people there? You know the ones I mean! |
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"Just to say that last night was great. Great club, sexy people.
Aye was sexy because we were there!
Lol, only kidding.
xxx
Yeah sure, you guys are sexy but how do we track down the profiles of those other sexy people there? You know the ones I mean!"
What the 2 supersexy femmes and their very cute boyfriends?
No idea who you mean no lol. |
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"Just to say that last night was great. Great club, sexy people.
Aye was sexy because we were there!
Lol, only kidding.
xxx
Yeah sure, you guys are sexy but how do we track down the profiles of those other sexy people there? You know the ones I mean!
What the 2 supersexy femmes and their very cute boyfriends?
No idea who you mean no lol."
lol, |
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