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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Look in the clubs section on here, you have a local one in glos called the lodge. Just be mindful that single guys may have to join a waiting list for some clubs or have to go on a social evening first.  |
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By *teed99Man
over a year ago
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Going to a club on a night when they let in single guys means that any couples (or single ladies)will be expecting to see single guys there and often be there for that very reason. Having said that, just because a single guy has paid to get in, it doesn't mean any contact with couples or single ladies is guaranteed. It's always best to talk in the social area first. You may then be invited to join in. At other times, just look for the signs like couples playing openly. Always ask if it's OK to touch or join in and don't be offended if the answer is no. Don't be a nuisance if a couple wants to be left alone. Often they don't mind you just watching but it's always best to just say "Is it OK to watch?" Visiting clubs as a single guy will always be a bit hit and miss but if you go to the same place on a regular basis, you will gradually build up a friendship with other regulars. Hope this helps. |
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Yes that helps a lot really just needed to understand mostly. I would like to also know if anyone can help me. I feel like I want to go see what it's like but don't want to go on my own or does it sound silly to say that?? |
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"Going to a club on a night when they let in single guys means that any couples (or single ladies)will be expecting to see single guys there and often be there for that very reason. Having said that, just because a single guy has paid to get in, it doesn't mean any contact with couples or single ladies is guaranteed. It's always best to talk in the social area first. You may then be invited to join in. At other times, just look for the signs like couples playing openly. Always ask if it's OK to touch or join in and don't be offended if the answer is no. Don't be a nuisance if a couple wants to be left alone. Often they don't mind you just watching but it's always best to just say "Is it OK to watch?" Visiting clubs as a single guy will always be a bit hit and miss but if you go to the same place on a regular basis, you will gradually build up a friendship with other regulars. Hope this helps."
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"Yes that helps a lot really just needed to understand mostly. I would like to also know if anyone can help me. I feel like I want to go see what it's like but don't want to go on my own or does it sound silly to say that?? "
The Lodge do a social night every Weds so you can go along, have a drink and meet other people in the lifestyle. Also have a look around the club so you know what to expect. Just turn up, no membership required either x
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"Going to a club on a night when they let in single guys means that any couples (or single ladies)will be expecting to see single guys there and often be there for that very reason. Having said that, just because a single guy has paid to get in, it doesn't mean any contact with couples or single ladies is guaranteed. It's always best to talk in the social area first. You may then be invited to join in. At other times, just look for the signs like couples playing openly. Always ask if it's OK to touch or join in and don't be offended if the answer is no. Don't be a nuisance if a couple wants to be left alone. Often they don't mind you just watching but it's always best to just say "Is it OK to watch?" Visiting clubs as a single guy will always be a bit hit and miss but if you go to the same place on a regular basis, you will gradually build up a friendship with other regulars. Hope this helps.
Great advice!!"
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