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over a year ago
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As a single lady i generally only meet single guys inside a club. Am I being picky or am i right in saying the guys are out of order for not respecting this? |
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Its your choice & only you can decide what you're comfortable with & feel safe doing.
I can however, also see it from a guys point of view.
He's on here to meet with people without having to pay club entry, membership & what not.
And many have been burnt by so called 'promoters' promising to be in a club; but when they've paid entry they find no promised meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As a single lady i generally only meet single guys inside a club. Am I being picky or am i right in saying the guys are out of order for not respecting this?"
You do what you are happy with.. if a guy won't meet you then it's his problem. Its s safe place to meet. So your well within your rights x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have asked single guys to meet me at my local club social. It is free entry and just like meeting at a pub, only with like minded people in it!
I feel more comfortable meeting here but most single guys run a mile. The benefits for the guy are there too. If we don't click, there are others that may take their fancy  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have asked single guys to meet me at my local club social. It is free entry and just like meeting at a pub, only with like minded people in it!
I feel more comfortable meeting here but most single guys run a mile. The benefits for the guy are there too. If we don't click, there are others that may take their fancy "
this is the same, even at a free social, they seem to need someone to hold their hand... |
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"As a single lady i generally only meet single guys inside a club. Am I being picky or am i right in saying the guys are out of order for not respecting this?"
I think it is perfectly reasonable to meet in clubs. If men don't respect this then they can always move onto the next profile. I would make it pretty clear though that there is no guarantee of play. Attraction has to be there.
So many men try the 'lets go as a couple' rubbish. We all know why! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its your choice & only you can decide what you're comfortable with & feel safe doing.
I can however, also see it from a guys point of view.
He's on here to meet with people without having to pay club entry, membership & what not.
And many have been burnt by so called 'promoters' promising to be in a club; but when they've paid entry they find no promised meet. "
If guys get pissy about paying club fees then they aren't worth my time as that is only place I'll meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As a single lady i generally only meet single guys inside a club. Am I being picky or am i right in saying the guys are out of order for not respecting this?"
I've never gone to a club before.  |
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"As a single lady i generally only meet single guys inside a club. Am I being picky or am i right in saying the guys are out of order for not respecting this?
I've never gone to a club before. "
you'd be eaten alive... |
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"As a single lady i generally only meet single guys inside a club. Am I being picky or am i right in saying the guys are out of order for not respecting this?
I've never gone to a club before.
you'd be eaten alive..."
I'm going soon in London! You be there  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its your choice & only you can decide what you're comfortable with & feel safe doing.
I can however, also see it from a guys point of view.
He's on here to meet with people without having to pay club entry, membership & what not.
And many have been burnt by so called 'promoters' promising to be in a club; but when they've paid entry they find no promised meet. "
Promotors? Does that even happen?? |
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