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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm curious to find out why not many single women don't attend clubs. Or if they do, which clubs they do attend and why?
I'm not seeking single women. I love attending my local club and made lots of friends there so I can have a nice social night. But it would be nice to see some new single women attending now and again.
So what would a single woman like to see in a club? What prevents you from going? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i used to frequent clubs as a single fem..never had any problems.
ive always been very vocal if someone oversteps the mark.
as a couple we come across alot of single fems in Isis at the moment, in fact...not enough quality single men if i'm honest.
think it helps if the female feels comfortable in the club environment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only go to clubs alone now, great fun and always find someone to chat too.
That said I do think it's just a girl thing, how many single girls do you see in pubs or vanilla clubs? Women are social creatures and we tend to socialise with our friends.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok, what is it that made you ladies first decide to go to clubs alone? My local doesn't seem to have many at all. And it's something I know the owners would like to improve on. How do your clubs entice new women in?
As for women following couples around rubbing they're pussies... Haha! There is no playing with yourself allowed while watching others so I've never seen this from men or women.
If only our club had that problem! Every woman would probably be played with anyway! |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
I visit clubs as much as I can, but not having a car makes it difficult as they are all in different cities. Also there has to be a decent amount of single guys there, else I'm sat at the bar like Betty No Mates.
But I've done Isis, Tease 2, and Cupids this year, and will be doing Cupids again and Xtasia next year. Always a fun night out. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It seems to be a vicious circle. The single ladies don't come as the single men don't come. The single men don't come as the single ladies don't come.
At the end of the day, I always have a good social night at the club. I can chat to the regular couples I know, the bar staff, and willing to chat to new couples too. Although I'm not interested really in getting into a 3some or gang bang, I like one on one play with another woman. Still there's no harm in being sociable with anyone...but it would be nice to have more opportunity to play |
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we think another thing that happens is that when a single girl has gone to a club a few time and hooked up with a guy (or two) they can tend to frequent the clubs as a FB couple, hence the 'single girl' statistic goes down. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I go to eureka and organised partys alone,or with club buddy female,Its safe enviroment to arrange meets and meet New people,
i dont go with men because they hold me back simply as that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I go as a single girl never as a couple - I like to do exactly what I want with whom I want ! X ive also met some good girly friends - like this lovely lady directly above me !! Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would like to go to a club but would be too scared! X  "
Honesty nothing to be scared of ! I travel the UK on my own visiting and reviewing clubs xxx they always look after the single fem ! We are like princesses ! Lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I would like to go to a club but would be too scared! X
Honesty nothing to be scared of ! I travel the UK on my own visiting and reviewing clubs xxx they always look after the single fem ! We are like princesses ! Lol"
This is so true. When a single woman does go, the staff keep a close eye on you and make sure you feel safe. The regulars are very good too and I've yet to see any trouble from anyone, single or couples.
DENSOL MILFY, I think your travels have made you quite well known so your reviews are noted. You've not got townhouse on your diary, yet it's the best club in the NW! Would be great to see your review and find out what it's like compared to others, from a woman's point of view. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would like to go to a club but would be too scared! X
Honesty nothing to be scared of ! I travel the UK on my own visiting and reviewing clubs xxx they always look after the single fem ! We are like princesses ! Lol
This is so true. When a single woman does go, the staff keep a close eye on you and make sure you feel safe. The regulars are very good too and I've yet to see any trouble from anyone, single or couples.
DENSOL MILFY, I think your travels have made you quite well known so your reviews are noted. You've not got townhouse on your diary, yet it's the best club in the NW! Would be great to see your review and find out what it's like compared to others, from a woman's point of view."
Thanks for the recommendation sweetie ! I'm gradually going further and further afield xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm too nervous to go on my own plus most are too far and I cannot afford the travel. I would also rather go on a night when there were single guys around which is Friday nights and I always work  |
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"I'm curious to find out why not many single women don't attend clubs. Or if they do, which clubs they do attend and why?
I'm not seeking single women. I love attending my local club and made lots of friends there so I can have a nice social night. But it would be nice to see some new single women attending now and again.
So what would a single woman like to see in a club? What prevents you from going?"
I attend Cupid's every Friday afternoon by myself,and will be attending the afternoon Christmas Party this Friday.
What I like about the place is the staff look after you, make sure you don't get pestered and there are lot's of private rooms you can lock yourself away to play. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would like to go to a club but would be too scared! X "
Do wot i did originally at my first ever visit to a club,,i didnt know wot to expect,i went with a man first and 2nd time basically checking the place out,then got the courage to go on my own,never looked back since,i expanded and braved it to go to large organisized partys and a few little ones at peoples houses,i dont have nerves walking in anywhere now,ive always been Well looked after and it generally helps i am natually a chatty person in the flesh |
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I go very regularly to clubs by myself and on a rare occasion with a male friend. The problem I have, is that I also am looking mainly for women and the men don't think I should be allowed in clubs if I don't play with men.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I go to clubs with a female f/b, i always encourage her to go off and do her own thing, i would not dream of holding her back, i want her to enjoy herself as much as I do. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm curious to find out why not many single women don't attend clubs. Or if they do, which clubs they do attend and why?
I'm not seeking single women. I love attending my local club and made lots of friends there so I can have a nice social night. But it would be nice to see some new single women attending now and again.
So what would a single woman like to see in a club? What prevents you from going?
I attend Cupid's every Friday afternoon by myself,and will be attending the afternoon Christmas Party this Friday.
What I like about the place is the staff look after you, make sure you don't get pestered and there are lot's of private rooms you can lock yourself away to play. "
To all the women who haven't got the courage, don't be scared! As was quoted above, you will be looked after and that goes for anyone, male, female, couple, tv/ts.
Clubs are a great and safe environment, a lot safer than meeting a stranger at a hotel or a house. A lot safer than a party where there are no rules. These are established places, set up for fun. Plus you get different rooms to play in, equipment you can use, and talk to people, learn new things and create new fantasies!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I go very regularly to clubs by myself and on a rare occasion with a male friend. The problem I have, is that I also am looking mainly for women and the men don't think I should be allowed in clubs if I don't play with men. "
 bloody cheeky buggers, you pay your money, you do what you want  |
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
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I attend clubs and parties alone mostly and have for years. It is also great to go as a couple for a change. I have taken other single fems too.
I just love clubs to have a good balance of singles and couples and a great atmosphere.
Although now is the time of year I tend to go into hiding. The road conditions worsen and my insecurities come out so convince myself to not attend. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I go very regularly to clubs by myself and on a rare occasion with a male friend. The problem I have, is that I also am looking mainly for women and the men don't think I should be allowed in clubs if I don't play with men.
bloody cheeky buggers, you pay your money, you do what you want "
To right, ANYONE can go to a club and play with who they like and quite rightly have the right to say no to anyone. 90% of my club visits! even as a couple, we're purely social visits and never played with anyone else. At the end of the day it's not somewhere you go just for sex, the social side is a huge part too |
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"I go very regularly to clubs by myself and on a rare occasion with a male friend. The problem I have, is that I also am looking mainly for women and the men don't think I should be allowed in clubs if I don't play with men.
bloody cheeky buggers, you pay your money, you do what you want
To right, ANYONE can go to a club and play with who they like and quite rightly have the right to say no to anyone. 90% of my club visits! even as a couple, we're purely social visits and never played with anyone else. At the end of the day it's not somewhere you go just for sex, the social side is a huge part too"
I love the social side and getting to know someone for a bit before opening my legs. Have met some lovely gents that I've played with, but primarily look for ladies and sometimes couples. Just at the mo if I turn a guy down, they get the hump and say I shouldn't be allowed in, its cock teasing. When I get turned down, I just leave it at that, but still smile and be polite. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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To the ladies who are too scared to go alone - give it a go. If you don't like it you can always leave. I went to Cupids tday -first time as a lone female. What fun!! Will certainty be doing that again!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I go very regularly to clubs by myself and on a rare occasion with a male friend. The problem I have, is that I also am looking mainly for women and the men don't think I should be allowed in clubs if I don't play with men.
bloody cheeky buggers, you pay your money, you do what you want
To right, ANYONE can go to a club and play with who they like and quite rightly have the right to say no to anyone. 90% of my club visits! even as a couple, we're purely social visits and never played with anyone else. At the end of the day it's not somewhere you go just for sex, the social side is a huge part too
I love the social side and getting to know someone for a bit before opening my legs. Have met some lovely gents that I've played with, but primarily look for ladies and sometimes couples. Just at the mo if I turn a guy down, they get the hump and say I shouldn't be allowed in, its cock teasing. When I get turned down, I just leave it at that, but still smile and be polite."
Do they actually say that to you? That you're cock teasing? They should be chucked out for that, it's bloody rude!! |
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Making the first step of going on your own is a big one, esp as a single person male or female, but that for me is part of the buzz also.
All of the modern clubs are so well run and friendly that you will settle in quickly and comfortably, once you are there go at your own pace, no pressure.
You will return ! I promise...  |
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"I'm too scared to go alone!
Me too!!
Me three !"
Me four...
I braved two separate clubs but with a single female friend about 14 months who. Not sure I'd be brave enough now though. Maybe with another lady as a companion though ... |
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