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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hello,
First time posting in the forums but have been lurking for a while, you all give such good advice so here goes.
I am debating going to a club tonight, alone. My first ever time. I have played away before, but tonight would be my first 'club' experience.
Cupids is my closest, but can travel if I know It will be a relaxed, safe, no pressure evening. I am super nervous and not 100% sure if I should just go with flow?!
What do you think for a first time? Go and relax and see what happens? Or wait for an 'event' night? What was your first club experience like?
Please tell me I wont be sat alone in a corner....  |
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"Hello,
First time posting in the forums but have been lurking for a while, you all give such good advice so here goes.
I am debating going to a club tonight, alone. My first ever time. I have played away before, but tonight would be my first 'club' experience.
Cupids is my closest, but can travel if I know It will be a relaxed, safe, no pressure evening. I am super nervous and not 100% sure if I should just go with flow?!
What do you think for a first time? Go and relax and see what happens? Or wait for an 'event' night? What was your first club experience like?
Please tell me I wont be sat alone in a corner.... "
Somehow I don't think you will be alone in a corner |
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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago
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I have been to clubs alone. Just sit by the bar and be friendly with everyone. The cupids staff will go out of their way to make you feel comfortable and safe. If you like someone go and say hi. Don't expect people to come to you just because you are a single lady.
I personally prefer going to cupids by myself. Quite a few single ladies go x
Whatever you decide I hope you have fun x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I attended my first club alone last week I was nervous but it was so friendly from the word go that the nerves soon vanished. There is no pressure to do anything so go with the flow and have a good time x |
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go gal once you have done so it will be ok
i go to clubs on my own , not as far as your way but LC in sheffeild and ISIS in leeds you will be ok , just relax dont worry it doesnt have to be a play night thats why i like going alone as i can please myself what i do |
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"Hello,
First time posting in the forums but have been lurking for a while, you all give such good advice so here goes.
I am debating going to a club tonight, alone. My first ever time. I have played away before, but tonight would be my first 'club' experience.
Cupids is my closest, but can travel if I know It will be a relaxed, safe, no pressure evening. I am super nervous and not 100% sure if I should just go with flow?!
What do you think for a first time? Go and relax and see what happens? Or wait for an 'event' night? What was your first club experience like?
Please tell me I wont be sat alone in a corner.... "
I go to Cupids regularly by myself and have never had a problem, the staff are fantastic and will look after you  |
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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago
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"As a single lady you have nothing to worry about, people will love to chat to you. It's the single blokes who are the pariahs! "
That's not true. Singles of every sex are very welcome. Both have to make the effort though. I find if you treat everyone as you would normally you will get on fine x |
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