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What attracts you to a club
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all,
I'm looking for feedback on what attracts you all to clubs? Is it certain events like bi nights/couples only nights? Or do people look for something else?
For ourselves we prefer mixed nights and themed parties 
Sinds xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally for me... I like to see if the club has a good Number of single women attending. I'm a single guy and only really interested in one on one play...
So that's what I look for!  x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Personally for me... I like to see if the club has a good Number of single women attending. I'm a single guy and only really interested in one on one play...
So that's what I look for! x"
So for you a singles only night would maybe work better |
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Safety and security
diversity and the unknown
facilities (sauna etc) private play rooms
social aspect of meeting/chatting with like minded people
A toastie (at chams) for when I've worked up an appetite
The ability to shower and get changed back into jeans so the kids & sitter have no idea what I wore/didn't wear whilst out |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Different people and not the same old faces ... a good mix of single guys and girls plus couples ... a nice atmosphere and clean play areas .
Our favourites are the lodge in Gloucester and Chams in Darlaston |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's got to be the atmosphere, the right mix of couples and singles, the facilities and above all else the cleanliness, if you can get a mix of these and staff that make the effort to look after you whether it be your first visit or 20th visit then you can't go far wrong. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I like a club that has a party atmosphere and DJ x not really into the spa type clubs - I also never go when single males cant go - as I am straight and like lots of singles guys - dont do couples xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Safety and security
diversity and the unknown
facilities (sauna etc) private play rooms
social aspect of meeting/chatting with like minded people
A toastie (at chams) for when I've worked up an appetite
The ability to shower and get changed back into jeans so the kids & sitter have no idea what I wore/didn't wear whilst out "
This!! After this weekend goung alone without my man in tow, I won't go again on a couples night as I just missed him too much!
I like the single men too when I'm there alone!    |
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"If its couples only, I don't go.
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When we first started going to clubs together we preferred couples only nights, but now Mrs likes a bit (lot) of single guy action so we now avoid couples only.
As to what we look for in a club. The most important thing is the people, a decent mix of couples and singles and a good age mix. There are some clubs and/or nights that are just way too young for us. |
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Distance is obviously a factor.
But a good friendly atmosphere, with no pressure for a newbie like me really helps!
This is what I found on my first ever club night when I went to Angels. Was so nervous, but felt comfortable and had a great night
Looking forward to my 2nd visit this Saturday |
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Down to earth people
Music so I can have a dance
Respectful single men
A bar (lol!)
Quietish play areas where you can play without loud people having a conversation about what they had for tea!
Good washing facilities
Dungeon
Pool
Sauna
Yes...we're talking La chambre! |
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