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Going to a club whilst Pregnant
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi, we know some people are going to jump on this and have a go about swinging whilst pregnant etc. Please read fully first...
L is 5 months pregnant and we are looking to attend La chambre one Sat night. We like to play, watch and be watched, but whilst pregnant not have other guys actually penetrate.
Would the club be ok for this and how would others see it are our main questions/concerns?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I haven't been to that particular club but I attended several whilst pregnant to play with my partner and to watch and never had a problem with anyone being funny about it. |
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By *andS33Couple
over a year ago
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We go to la chambre every weekend, would assume most would be friendly and welcoming however there will always be some that dont agree with swinging whilst pregnant. We have seen pregnant ladies there before so dont think the club has an issue with it  |
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"Don't see a problem if you just wanted to suck cock???"
You can still catch STI from oral even with a condom!
OP I'm sure no one would mind you going along when you were pg, I think your being sensible just playing with each other during your pregnancy too! Hope it's all going well x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you all for your advice. Makes a change having proper comments from people. It does make a difference.
May see some of you there. You wont be able to miss us  |
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"Its more if the club would frown on it or if we were made to feel unwelcome. The latter would just spoil the club idea. "
I did, but then I only played with the babies dad, Barry, Marie and Craig were fine, shocked at how I was all up front (from behind you couldn't tell I was pregnant) but I never had any negativity from anyone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wow n great news for you both.
Clubs can be very clicky regardless of a bump. I'm sure you will anyway but just make sure unwanted genitals get told a firm no.
If interested in chatting further feel free to come say hi.
It's great to see the haters n judgementalist a are off work lol.
Have fun xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Please excuse the frankness of this post but surely a brief email to or a phone conversation with the club staff prior to attending is the best way to get the answer to your question  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thank you all for your advice. Makes a change having proper comments from people. It does make a difference.
May see some of you there. You wont be able to miss us "
As I said In private.. we will try and pop along to say hi. X |
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Whilst Rachel has been pregnant, we have attended Eurekas on a couple of occasions on a Saturday without a problem. Truth is we have sat chatted and people watched not played but the staff and partygoers have been brilliant xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I went to LC's while pregnant but only played with my partner we do as we always have done go for the social aspect more than to play everybody was very understanding and welcoming |
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By *itSamCouple
over a year ago
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9 months without a club. I would cry. You go to your club, who cares what people think. They don't like then they do not look. I go to a buffet and do not go eating the food I do not want. Being pregnant does give you an advantage. Gets rid of the narrow minded people. You will get the down to earth people speak to you.
As for clubs. The most I would expect a club to say is safety things like do not use a jacuzzi when pregnant (do not know why but I see signs) and they may go as far as a disclaimer in case you lost balance on stairs or something like that. I would be disgusted if a club judged you for being pregnant.
You should only be judge if d*unk, abusive, excessively loud, not understanding the word no, ya know all the usual stuff. Being pregnant is not a reason to be judged. Take advantage of no need for baby sitters and have fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Indeed. Pregnant people are people too!
I'd be exited to see them, but that's because I'm into it. And people don't exactly shout to the high heavens on here that they are pregnant, so it becomes super rare. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why ? just why? because its what they want to do, same as u being a man and dressing up as a 'woman' its personal preferance "
I am not hurting or putting anyone at risk, that is the difference. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im sorry I must be one of those judgemental people then.... I dont feel a swingers club is right for pregnant people unless they only want to be watched and watch others. To actually "play" with others while pregnant is irrisponsible and an unneeded risk, its 9 months out of your life where what you do with your body can affect another life. |
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The answer was in the thread, she wanted to play with her own partner, the babies dad and only her partner.
Having sex when pregnant with your partner is fine. Pregnancy isn't something to be ashamed of, and if someone, who happens to be pregnant wants to go out, socialise and possibly use the facilities of a club, they've paid to get in, then let them.
I went whilst pregnant, with the unborn childs father. We had sex, (as we often did, although normally at home or his place) we used the facilities and made noise  I had 2 other children at home so it was what we wanted at that time.
No one gave me funny looks, said anything nor judged me.
Had I been drinking, out in the smoking area or behaving irresponsibly, then maybe I'd expect to be judged. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Shes a judgmental old strumpet when a women is pregnant sex does no harm to a baby while my babys mum was up the duff we fucked like rabbits used to love it during and after pregnancy especially as she used to squirt me with breast milk yum yum no harm done |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im sorry I must be one of those judgemental people then.... I dont feel a swingers club is right for pregnant people unless they only want to be watched and watch others. To actually "play" with others while pregnant is irrisponsible and an unneeded risk, its 9 months out of your life where what you do with your body can affect another life. "
How is it a 'risk' ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im sorry I must be one of those judgemental people then.... I dont feel a swingers club is right for pregnant people unless they only want to be watched and watch others. To actually "play" with others while pregnant is irrisponsible and an unneeded risk, its 9 months out of your life where what you do with your body can affect another life.
The fact is it isnt a risk alcohol cocaine smoking is more a risk to the babys health than sex
How is it a 'risk' ?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Poor baby not even born yet and already been fooked over
Double tut tut "
Omg... If your pregnant don't leave your little bubble as your to precious.. get real.
Sex with each other is harmless. Going to a club harmless....
Anyone would think these poor women had leprosy. |
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"Poor baby not even born yet and already been fooked over
Double tut tut
Omg... If your pregnant don't leave your little bubble as your to precious.. get real.
Sex with each other is harmless. Going to a club harmless....
Anyone would think these poor women had leprosy."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never had sex while pregnant (twice), or been to a club, if they want to go to a club as a obviously caring couple towards their baby then why not? The lady isn't going to have sex with others. If sh e was, I wouldn't post my reply as I don't agree with that. I've seen women and young girls heavily pregnant in night clubs, smoking and drinking heavily. Far worse than her having some innocent fun. I hope you enjoyed yourselves and good luck with your baby. Sorry for my ranty bit |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im sorry I must be one of those judgemental people then.... I dont feel a swingers club is right for pregnant people unless they only want to be watched and watch others. To actually "play" with others while pregnant is irrisponsible and an unneeded risk, its 9 months out of your life where what you do with your body can affect another life.
How is it a 'risk' ?"
Is there no risk when "playing" with people at a club? If they just play with each other then there is no risk.
Oh im talking about STI |
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We went to LaChambre whilst pregnant. Mostly fine. The occasionally shocked woman.
But hey people always talk about risk, yet have no idea about risk.
Is it more risky to go to a swingers club whilst pregnant or cross the road whilst pregnant?????
It's true you get additional risk, but additional risk is not the same as being riskier than something else.
Anyway before I get distracted by the pretend risk experts.
Go have fun do your thing and be as sexual as you wish to be.
If I was there I would be happy to watch and play with a pregnant woman. My wife would too. But sadly we are busy at the moment. But hoping to get back to La Chambre soon.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im sorry I must be one of those judgemental people then.... I dont feel a swingers club is right for pregnant people unless they only want to be watched and watch others. To actually "play" with others while pregnant is irrisponsible and an unneeded risk, its 9 months out of your life where what you do with your body can affect another life.
How is it a 'risk' ?
Is there no risk when "playing" with people at a club? If they just play with each other then there is no risk.
Oh im talking about STI"
People in clubs from our experience are always safe. Probably far more than the man in the street.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am not sure wether the people talking about how they don't agree with it have read the OP fully? The couple are having a baby and having sex between themselves and not anyone else "
Yes I understood the original post and did agree that if it was just play between the couple then I dont see anything wrong with it, its when there are other people involved that I dont think its right. As other threads have mentioned the only safe sex( or play) is to not play.
And for people to relate that risk with an everyday risk such as crossing the road.... I dont think you can compare! |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"I am not sure wether the people talking about how they don't agree with it have read the OP fully? The couple are having a baby and having sex between themselves and not anyone else
Yes I understood the original post and did agree that if it was just play between the couple then I dont see anything wrong with it, its when there are other people involved that I dont think its right. As other threads have mentioned the only safe sex( or play) is to not play.
And for people to relate that risk with an everyday risk such as crossing the road.... I dont think you can compare!"
I don't think people really do know what potential risks there are if playing with others or they wouldn't be doing it ( or you would hope they wouldn't be doing it ) |
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