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How do I get onto this scene. Seems like clubs are the way to go but how does a black guy get in? I would like to think race is not my issue but its hard to ignore. I'm an intelligent office manager who plays semi pro sport and yet still can't get into a club. Any ideas or contacts? |
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I really don't know. Ill keep trying. I'm sure its not my colour but I can't think of anything else. Your 200 miles from me I know but I may have to come try your clubs out lol. Maybe I just need someone to vouch for me? |
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By *am123Man
over a year ago
essex chelmsford |
"How do I get onto this scene. Seems like clubs are the way to go but how does a black guy get in? I would like to think race is not my issue but its hard to ignore. I'm an intelligent office manager who plays semi pro sport and yet still can't get into a club. Any ideas or contacts?"
oh please don't play the race card, if its a normal club nite and single guys are on the list you could get in anywhere !!!
whatever color u are.
the clubs i go too are full of black guys, and they are popular with the ladies in there.
A poor look at me thread effort tbh  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How do I get onto this scene. Seems like clubs are the way to go but how does a black guy get in? I would like to think race is not my issue but its hard to ignore. I'm an intelligent office manager who plays semi pro sport and yet still can't get into a club. Any ideas or contacts?"
Dude, no club refuse Blk man in this country. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How do I get onto this scene. Seems like clubs are the way to go but how does a black guy get in? I would like to think race is not my issue but its hard to ignore. I'm an intelligent office manager who plays semi pro sport and yet still can't get into a club. Any ideas or contacts? oh please don't play the race card, if its a normal club nite and single guys are on the list you could get in anywhere !!!
whatever color u are.
the clubs i go too are full of black guys, and they are popular with the ladies in there.
A poor look at me thread effort tbh "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This can't be a serious thread?
Xstasia in West Brom hold BMFC nights and whenever I've been to Chameleons in Darleston there has always been black guys in there, wether normal club night or BBW night. Never been to the private club in bham or club retro in Walsall but have chatted to guys that have & they were black.
Think if you are coming up against entry issues to these places it's because you are a single guy and nothing to do with Race. I know Chams has a waiting list for single guy membership and I think Xtasia may be similar. Private club & Club retro is a sex not swinging club so not sure on there policies but both have websites you can check.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzz such a easy card to use and as a mixed race guy fund it very annoying when it is used at any given opportunity I live about 5 minutes from the o/p and have been to clubs local to us and never had a problem and as previous people have said there's plenty of black men in the clubs  |
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Thank you sexy minx, for an informative reply. Like I said I couldnt think of any other reason. I now know about getting on guest lists and so on so will follow the correct route. By no means should you expect people who are not in this scene to get it straight away. I'm asking the question that's all! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thank you sexy minx, for an informative reply. Like I said I couldnt think of any other reason. I now know about getting on guest lists and so on so will follow the correct route. By no means should you expect people who are not in this scene to get it straight away. I'm asking the question that's all!"
All the clubs I mentioned have websites, perhaps checking them out prior to posting questions next time. There is a very detailed clubs review section on here too, always a good place to start.
I also never mentioned guest lists...but for some of the socials on here men need to be on a guestlist, but that doesn't apply to normal club nights. |
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By *tasiaCouple
over a year ago
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Race is never an issue here, however the wording of applications can make a difference. "Want to shag anything that moves" compared with "Genuine, fun loving guy who likes a natter as much as play" will make a difference if there's a waiting list for the club.
As mentioned, we run BMFC nights once a month, infact next Friday the 13th, so get an application in quickly if you'd care to join us. All of 2 miles from you!!  Info found on our web site. |
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We are always in the Private Club, and colour is no problem. If they refused you for some reason it can only really be to do with your ID or money? Unless you offended them somehow!
Unless yo really do look under 18, then they will probably refuse you entry. |
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By *rMisterMan
over a year ago
Near the Wall |
"How do I get onto this scene. Seems like clubs are the way to go but how does a black guy get in? I would like to think race is not my issue but its hard to ignore. I'm an intelligent office manager who plays semi pro sport and yet still can't get into a club. Any ideas or contacts?"
Dude I understand why you may be hesitant. When I started swinging solo I was apprehensive of that fact too. I did not need. I have never turned away from a club because of my race and I have had few invitations from clubs, house parties because they needed a mix up. the later was a very imaginative host who wanted all races andethnicities at the party. We did struggle to get Chinese guy tho but there was an Asian couple.
Once you are in the club, then there will be couples and single ladies who will be jumping on you and others who will be avoiding you. Just a matter of preference. A friend of mine who is white British has been once turned away at a greater Manchester club because it was black and white party, the only white males allowed where those part of a couple. We filed a complaint because there were two 2 black ladies in there and one was single  this were not having it 
So check the entry requirements of the club's take the entrance fees extra condoms and go. Once there, dont try hard, be respectful don't be pushy, no means no and havefun. I always consider clubs as night clubs chat to other with no ulterior notice and sex always happens |
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