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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

We are wanting to go to xotix on Saturday but just want to ask a few things if anyone can help.

Love the pirates and wenches theme but we gotta hurry round and get costumes so does everyone dress up?

We really want to get there and not be the new kids in the corner. We are really easy to get on with but would like to chat to others who are going so we can say hey its you when we get there. So who else is going ??? Say hi

Our idea of the night is like clubbing with a load of like minded people who want to make friends and, if the mood takes, a little play too. Are we right??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

sounds about right

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hello

Firstly it's looking to be a great night, I'll be there a long with a few other club regulars to meet and greet so don't worry..

Not everyone will dress up but it's good fun when people do... It is a good night though, with a good mix of socialising and play as the evening progresses..

If your not already members then you can get on the guestlist easy enough... Ask me.

Lots of old faces and plenty of new ones too..

Any other questions.. feel free to message me.

Cali

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's a friendly club , you certainly won't be left in a corner by yourself ! It's my favourite local club

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's a friendly club , you certainly won't be left in a corner by yourself ! It's my favourite local club "

Who hasn't seen your sexy arse in it for a while... When you popping in lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Thanks Cali

Good welcoming response.

People who talk like you help to put us at ease.

We would love to be on the guest list.

We are looking forward to a fun filled night

R & J

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thanks Cali

Good welcoming response.

People who talk like you help to put us at ease.

We would love to be on the guest list.

We are looking forward to a fun filled night

R & J"

Your welcome, to be fair the good thing about the smaller clubs is the fact it can be a bit more house party friendly but with the advantage of a club environment.

The regulars like to meet new people and I'll be doing show arounds and introducing people to each other.

I'll add names to the guestlist... And look forward to meeting new people there. My partner in perversion should be there too.. and he is great at getting the conversation flowing, amongst other things lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Haha I like it

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By *eeajCouple over a year ago

derby

hey guys, we are planning(considering) going to xotix on Saturday, just have a couple of questions:

We are a couple new to the club scene, as a couple I am worried about having loads of guys trying it on with my GF-is this likely to be the case on Saturday? what is the ratio between m/f on a night like sat?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

To be honest a social the balance is about one allowed in to every couple.. however to be honest of lately there have not been that many in...

So I would say one single guy to every 3 couples...

The regular single guys are all well behaved and the new ones are given very good instructions on behaviour. To be honest I have never known it to be a problem there.. and the regular girls and couples would be quick to pull any guy up trying.

It's a very laid back club and there are plenty of private rooms as well as public rooms. A popular room is the lockable viewing room.. kinda half way between playing public and private.

I will be loitering around upstairs helping to keep an eye on things... And as as rule single guys don't argue with myself or Lee.

You will enjoy it.. and even if you just decide to sit and watch and chat it will be a good night.

Cali

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By *lubPartyPeepsCouple over a year ago

London

We hear good things about the place.

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By *rsIdiotWoman over a year ago

Bedworth

Xotix is a lovely club. It's the first that I visited and I went alone. I felt very welcomed, extremely safe, not at all pressured and I had a great time. The socials are lots of fun, I'm disappointed that I have to work this weekend so cant go