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Kestrels just to sunbathe and use the pool
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I am a single woman and i am thinking of going to Kestrels alone but i want to just swim and sunbathe... My question is can this be done?? Will i feel harassed or intimidated? and is there the space just to be able to do this?? Some may think silly question but i have been to this club before but when i was a couple but never in the daytime and i dont want to play but just to relax....... |
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I went a couple of times last year alone and had a fantastic time. Sat for ages reading my book in the garden and then when I went for a swim got chatting to people. Never felt anything other than totally at ease and am looking to go again next weekend. The staff are great there as well so if you do have ant problems just chat to them. |
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completely agree that it is relaxing - in fact there is a section of the garden which is just for exactly that - no play aloud
it is the stretch of garden that adjoins the next door nursery and I think they prefer it kept that way in case it puts people off the pot plants
Next week I am there on a stop over from heathrow - it'll be great weather and spot on for #chillaxing# |
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"completely agree that it is relaxing - in fact there is a section of the garden which is just for exactly that - no play aloud
it is the stretch of garden that adjoins the next door nursery and I think they prefer it kept that way in case it puts people off the pot plants
Next week I am there on a stop over from heathrow - it'll be great weather and spot on for #chillaxing#"
I dont know when you last went but they certainly DO play in both gardens.. I have seen it ..silly buggers broke the new hammocks which is a shame..  |
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"completely agree that it is relaxing - in fact there is a section of the garden which is just for exactly that - no play aloud
it is the stretch of garden that adjoins the next door nursery and I think they prefer it kept that way in case it puts people off the pot plants
Next week I am there on a stop over from heathrow - it'll be great weather and spot on for #chillaxing#
I dont know when you last went but they certainly DO play in both gardens.. I have seen it ..silly buggers broke the new hammocks which is a shame.. "
Agreed - there is nowhere where playing 'isn't allowed' but to answer the OP ... plenty of people just chill out and sunbathe, read and go for a swim. You'll be absolutely fine  |
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You can, just say no if approached and stay away from the sheds.
I have never gone alone, last time a single male followed us everywhere, stood outside the shed each time begging to come in. In the end I had to threaten to report him to the management and he left. Horrid.
However, the previous 8+ visits were fine. I did get chased by a cute lady another time, but I just let the suggestions go and stayed with the lady I had brought with me.
So I would say just chill and you'll be fine.
Dave
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