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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is there any woman that can help me as I would like to try a club in the southwest and I would pick you and take you there and take you back home as I would like to try one so much |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
every time this topic comes up I ask the same question..
why not go on your own.... its what most single guys who go to clubs had to do...
after all, adult enough to be on here, why not adult enough to walk through a club door by yourself? |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"The cost is why i will not go to a club its that simple if this is reason for o p then he has my sympathy."
and most guys have had to do the same thing...
so we do a little thing called "budget"....  you know... save up, not go as often as you may like to... but budget |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there any woman that can help me as I would like to try a club in the southwest and I would pick you and take you there and take you back home as I would like to try one so much "
Perhaps you could try and advertise a meet under events section saying what you have just said here and you never know your luck...it takes a hell of a lot of confidence to do it alone, I know, I did it myself and havnt looked back since...good luck sweet x Missy x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The cost is why i will not go to a club its that simple if this is reason for o p then he has my sympathy.
and most guys have had to do the same thing...
so we do a little thing called "budget".... you know... save up, not go as often as you may like to... but budget"
Fabio - you should apply for Martin Lewis' job when he retires!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have to agree with Fabio.
OP what benefit to the female is there in going with you? And why would a female want to go to a club with a stranger?
What you are looking for isn't quite an impossible ask but you could be in for a very long wait. Why not look for a social night at a club as there are likely to be other first timers there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"every time this topic comes up I ask the same question..
why not go on your own.... its what most single guys who go to clubs had to do...
after all, adult enough to be on here, why not adult enough to walk through a club door by yourself?"
I understand the OP!! it can be quite intimidating for a single guy to go to a club if you have not been before!
There's a huuuuge difference between having a profile on fab and attending a club |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In most clubs there is quite long wait list for single males. You can go "walk on" as a couple, though. "
Not any that I've ever been to!
Some require booking in advance or notifying the owners as some have limits on numbers. But I've yet to be told I have to join a waiting list.
Could be wrong of course and just going to different clubs. But there's plenty out there that accept single males with no 'hoop jumping' required!! |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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I understand the OP!! it can be quite intimidating for a single guy to go to a club if you have not been before!
There's a huuuuge difference between having a profile on fab and attending a club"
it can be intimidating for ANYONE going to a club by themselves for the first time... yet single guys do it...and couples do it... and heaven forbid even single females do it
any yet every week around the country new single guys will go to clubs.. and new couples will go to clubs.. and new single females will go to clubs!!
they suck it up... and go thru those big old doors... and enter the buildings
i know.... big and scary eh....
why is it difference having a profile on here ... obviously the end goal is meeting people right? so what is the end goal when you go to clubs.... isn't it meeting people??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"if you don't ask then you don't get", simple but true. That being said you might have a long old wait. I would agree that the best way is to just go along and see what you think. The best club i know of in the southwest is Decadant Nights in Burnham. Its a great place and Claire and Nigel are top hosts and really know how to run a party. Remember the golden rules though... Be polite, Don't be pushy, No means No and thats final and above all relax and enjoy yourself. Follow those basic rules and you won't go far wrong. I've been going to clubs for the past 13 years, the people who go are normal pretty chilled out, so just follow there lead... Have fun.... Him |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In most clubs there is quite long wait list for single males. You can go "walk on" as a couple, though. "
Is there? I never had to wait for
Chams
Partners
Cupids
Adam and Eve's
That shit place that used to be in Manchester on black friar st
And a few others I waked out of because I thought they were horrible.
Be polite, be well dressed, phone ahead and go on a quiet night!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"every time this topic comes up I ask the same question..
why not go on your own.... its what most single guys who go to clubs had to do...
after all, adult enough to be on here, why not adult enough to walk through a club door by yourself?"
It took me a long while to pluck up the courage, but I joined a club on my own and I now wish I had done it years ago!
I head off down there most weekends on my own and have made endless new friend so am never short of company once inside.
Before joining I had been asked a number of times by male Fab friends if I would like to accompany them to a club but always felt that it was for their entertainment rather than a joint pleasure experience!
In my opinion you see the club lifestyle very differently as a single and you get to choose which parts are for you rather than being guided and or influenced by the partner of the day... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree with lacey jo, you do see the club world differently as a single and with that in mind i would suggest to go alone and see what you think first and then look for someone to go with.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I agree with lacey jo, you do see the club world differently as a single and with that in mind i would suggest to go alone and see what you think first and then look for someone to go with.... "
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