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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi,
I'm looking for single guys, that want to try clubs, but don't want to go alone their first time.
It's preferred they match what I'm looking for on my profile, though, will not be guaranteeing any play so those not matching profile more than welcome to message me too.
Genuine offer, no hidden agendas |
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I (mr) ould be happy to accompany you as a companion without any strings or agenda. It's funny you posted this because I have been thinking about putting up an identical post, but for women, only I realise how corny it looks!
I'm in Buckinghamshire much of the time and would sort a hotel for myself if you wanted to follow this through and maybe meet in town for a meal or something first.
Let me know and we can look at which clubs are best suited to us both. Steve. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I (mr) ould be happy to accompany you as a companion without any strings or agenda. It's funny you posted this because I have been thinking about putting up an identical post, but for women, only I realise how corny it looks!
I'm in Buckinghamshire much of the time and would sort a hotel for myself if you wanted to follow this through and maybe meet in town for a meal or something first.
Let me know and we can look at which clubs are best suited to us both. Steve."
And where's mrs? Message me |
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"I (mr) ould be happy to accompany you as a companion without any strings or agenda. It's funny you posted this because I have been thinking about putting up an identical post, but for women, only I realise how corny it looks!
I'm in Buckinghamshire much of the time and would sort a hotel for myself if you wanted to follow this through and maybe meet in town for a meal or something first.
Let me know and we can look at which clubs are best suited to us both. Steve.
And where's mrs? Message me"
Have done. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Lots of men would take you up on your offer however the majority dont live local if you were north east id have asked you straight away "
Always hotel option, make a weekend of it lol  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Happy to escort you (socially only of course) to any club if you need a friendly hand to hold. Tease 2 I know well.
Who me jay?
Yes you  "
But i don't need my hand holding lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I responded to a thread earlier from a male looking for a female to take him to chams, and I asked there but I'd like to ask here also.
Certain clubs give out couples membership to couples only, that membership is then only to be used by that couple and doesn't allow entry to the guy as a single.
Are some clubs more relaxed about their membership then? Or is it a guest option you are using?
What would you do if the single guy became a pest and wondered off annoying the other couples that were in??
Not looking to burst any bubbles, just curious |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi
I would only be taking them socially from my point of view, they would get there own membership. I would explains club rules, and tell them they will be ejected from club if break them, but been taking newbies to clubs every weekend for months with no issues up to now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thanks for the response.
See I mostly go to chams so I would never offer to take a male in. For one it's couples only Saturday nights and for another if they want chams membership they can apply for it on their own.
I guess the clubs you are using have different formats & it's good to know clubs are allowing single men in on Saturday, as I used to go all the way up to partners on a Saturday for single men  Guess I'd do some research on the new clubs round here |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"i want to try a club but not had any offers from guys and not sure could do it alone"
Shame you aren't a bit nearer, would taken you to one so you can see that they are great places |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i want to try a club but not had any offers from guys and not sure could do it alone
Shame you aren't a bit nearer, would taken you to one so you can see that they are great places"
thank u. and yeah it is a trek all clubs are at least hour and a half away. considering jaydees i think. |
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"Happy to escort you (socially only of course) to any club if you need a friendly hand to hold. Tease 2 I know well.
Who me jay?
Yes you
But i don't need my hand holding lol "
lol
Ok... promise not to buy you a drink either 
I'm trying out Jaydee's on the 21st... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Happy to escort you (socially only of course) to any club if you need a friendly hand to hold. Tease 2 I know well.
Who me jay?
Yes you
But i don't need my hand holding lol
lol
Ok... promise not to buy you a drink either
I'm trying out Jaydee's on the 21st..."
Never been there, nor heard any view points from peeps I know to decide whether to give it a try or not |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"u will have to let me no there usernames and have a chat with them. thanks
Cant inbox you, you've blocked women contacting you
have pm'd u"
Also might be worth trying devious liaisons, they hold parties in Boston, can't find any clubs your way. May be worth you contacting club goers that live on route to chosen club, travel to them, then meet and travel with them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi,
I'm looking for single guys, that want to try clubs, but don't want to go alone their first time.
It's preferred they match what I'm looking for on my profile, though, will not be guaranteeing any play so those not matching profile more than welcome to message me too.
Genuine offer, no hidden agendas"
iv met Sarah both socially and at a club she is a lovely lady and a blast to be with (but don't tell her ) and very sexy so come on guys she won't let you down and if you get on who knows xx lee |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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now i know i am going to sound like a party pooper... but i think someone has to say this
as much as your offer is genuine, I think you are giving a lot of guys a bit of false hope...
i would say the same to any single bloke... just go to a club.. no expectations, open mind!
why people need hand holders is beyond me... if someone is brave enough and adult enough to be on a site like this, then i am not sure why people are not brave enough and adult enough to walk through the doors of a club...
it isn't any "golden ticket" to get to couples.... it isn't a free pass...
we talk about in lots of threads lately encouraging single women to go to clubs, and a lot have in the last few months... same encourage should go to men... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Can I ask how I am giving them false hope, all I am offering in a friend to go with, as often see posts from people (not just guys, if you read one of my posts this offer is open to anyone that doesn't want to go alone), explain the club rules, introduce them to other regular club guests and getting them one step through the door, they are under no obligation to remain with me for the whole evening, and will be taking out their own membership, not couples membership, and will be entering and paying as a single guy, I am just offering the comfort some people need due to nerves, as clubs can be very daunting to some people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can I ask how I am giving them false hope, all I am offering in a friend to go with, as often see posts from people (not just guys, if you read one of my posts this offer is open to anyone that doesn't want to go alone), explain the club rules, introduce them to other regular club guests and getting them one step through the door, they are under no obligation to remain with me for the whole evening, and will be taking out their own membership, not couples membership, and will be entering and paying as a single guy, I am just offering the comfort some people need due to nerves, as clubs can be very daunting to some people."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Can I ask how I am giving them false hope, all I am offering in a friend to go with, as often see posts from people (not just guys, if you read one of my posts this offer is open to anyone that doesn't want to go alone), explain the club rules, introduce them to other regular club guests and getting them one step through the door, they are under no obligation to remain with me for the whole evening, and will be taking out their own membership, not couples membership, and will be entering and paying as a single guy, I am just offering the comfort some people need due to nerves, as clubs can be very daunting to some people."
I always prefer to meet someone there or take someone with me and I go to clubs often. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Can I ask how I am giving them false hope, all I am offering in a friend to go with, as often see posts from people (not just guys, if you read one of my posts this offer is open to anyone that doesn't want to go alone), explain the club rules, introduce them to other regular club guests and getting them one step through the door, they are under no obligation to remain with me for the whole evening, and will be taking out their own membership, not couples membership, and will be entering and paying as a single guy, I am just offering the comfort some people need due to nerves, as clubs can be very daunting to some people."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive been going to clubs for 2 years now and still I always go with someone, one, because I dont drive and two, because I am too shy to go on my own. Does that mean I shouldnt go to clubs? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive been going to clubs for 2 years now and still I always go with someone, one, because I dont drive and two, because I am too shy to go on my own. Does that mean I shouldnt go to clubs? "
Hey, two years on you must be having lots of fun, we are all different and what works for some doesn't work for others, keep doing what feel is right for you and keep having lots of fun Jox |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Ive been going to clubs for 2 years now and still I always go with someone, one, because I dont drive and two, because I am too shy to go on my own. Does that mean I shouldnt go to clubs? "
No keep doing what feels best for you, not everyone is a confident as Fabio, and if, by me offering to accompany someone, helps with their confidence, then can't see how it's a bad thing at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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See now there are a number of threads running with this similar theme. So I hope the op doesn't mind me throwing another pennies worth in.
I whole heartedly agree with _abio, and have stated on another thread the same.
There is however, a difference.
If it is a case of a single man looking for a female to gain access to a club when it is;
couples only night,
or to dodge a waiting list,
other restriction,
or just to save cash,
then I think that is wrong. I say single man because I am simply not aware of any waiting lists for single women, nor expensive membership fee's, and single women already have unlimited access to couples only nights.
Not as a sexist remark/observation/bias.
As the op is not doing any of the above, then I think it is a good idea.
The single men get to do their own membership, do not get access to couples only nights and are not avoiding membership waiting lists/other restrictions.
I personally think if you are old enough to be looking to meet others for nsa, then you should be mature enough to walk into a club on your own.
I do accept that some people have restrictions on getting to a club or other financial restrictions. But car sharing shouldn't allow anyone to get round the rules enforced to others.
Sorry op, It's more than a pennies worth but open forum and all that  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I don't mind your comments at all, or _abio's, but as I have stated I'm not doing it to bend rules, or get guys in on couples only nights, just offering a wing to take them, or females, or couples under for those that aren't as confident as some of us |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I decided to pluck up the courage and go along to cupids last Friday for the first time and put some names to faces.
Apart from being terrified at first I met some great people and had a good night overall. I will be going back again soon.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think this forum needs a lot more people like you DirtyEyes, it's a shame you're not local!
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could always make a weekend of it and grab a hotel lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hello op how are you please contact me xxxx "
You've been to clubs before, this post is aimed at guys, girls, couples that have never been and fancy a friendly face to go with |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is it a coincidence that you are DirtyInParadise... are you the same person?! "
Yes same person but paradise had nothing to do with it as I go to lots clubs in the midlands, can list all clubs I am a member of with pleasure |
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