"Who else is going to VA on 7th? I’ll be there "
Why are you going for a bi night when you're straight? You even mention on your profile you're only interested in women? Bi events are geared towards bisexual and bi-curious men, and women or couples who attend those events usually do so because they enjoy at least watching male on male action. Would you be ok with potentially coming across men "getting it on" there? And would you be offended if you get propositioned by a man at this event? If the answer to either of the two questions is "yes", please do everyone a favour and choose the other 99% of events. However, if you're happy that you may not be the most desirable man there due to being straight, then do go, have fun. |
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By *igG86Man 9 weeks ago
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Looking at your profile I'm not sure this is the right event for you, there's will be a few women but mostly guys who will be playing together. You may get hit on and flirted with. That is unless your profile is a lie in either case I hope you have a good night and I'll see you there |
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"Who else is going to VA on 7th? I’ll be there
Why are you going for a bi night when you're straight? You even mention on your profile you're only interested in women? Bi events are geared towards bisexual and bi-curious men, and women or couples who attend those events usually do so because they enjoy at least watching male on male action. Would you be ok with potentially coming across men "getting it on" there? And would you be offended if you get propositioned by a man at this event? If the answer to either of the two questions is "yes", please do everyone a favour and choose the other 99% of events. However, if you're happy that you may not be the most desirable man there due to being straight, then do go, have fun. "
In case you missed it on another thread. This was posted by the host of VA Bi Night which is all about an inclusive community. Poor guy getting a roasting when this is how the event is run.
“Bi Nights are a wonderful celebration of our diverse and inclusive community. We do not discriminate—everyone is welcome. I believe this is what sets us apart from other Bi events, which tend to be more male-heavy and often require attendees to identify as bisexual. While those events have their place, that is not the approach we take at VA.
Our event typically attracts around 150 to 250 people, with approximately 75% being couples (both straight and bi)” |
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"Who else is going to VA on 7th? I’ll be there
Why are you going for a bi night when you're straight? You even mention on your profile you're only interested in women? Bi events are geared towards bisexual and bi-curious men, and women or couples who attend those events usually do so because they enjoy at least watching male on male action. Would you be ok with potentially coming across men "getting it on" there? And would you be offended if you get propositioned by a man at this event? If the answer to either of the two questions is "yes", please do everyone a favour and choose the other 99% of events. However, if you're happy that you may not be the most desirable man there due to being straight, then do go, have fun.
In case you missed it on another thread. This was posted by the host of VA Bi Night which is all about an inclusive community. Poor guy getting a roasting when this is how the event is run.
“Bi Nights are a wonderful celebration of our diverse and inclusive community. We do not discriminate—everyone is welcome. I believe this is what sets us apart from other Bi events, which tend to be more male-heavy and often require attendees to identify as bisexual. While those events have their place, that is not the approach we take at VA.
Our event typically attracts around 150 to 250 people, with approximately 75% being couples (both straight and bi)”"
Thank you, Spicy, I have just seen it. I'd still much prefer the bi nights to stay as geared towards bisexual men as there are hardly any events like that any more (with some exceptions). I do understand why a lot of hosts decide to step away from the more "traditional" take on bi nights though. |
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