heya
we are new to swinging and we have never been to a swinging club before .
we are going on the 28th and are pretty excited but also so very nervous ?
what do people wear , i know what it says on the site but still a bit shy i dont want to be the only one turning up in a sexy costume or something also alcohol , what are we allowed
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You'll have a great time, it is super friendly there.
Anything even slightly sexy will fit right in for your lady half, we've seen everything on people there. Clothes tend to come off as the night moves on, with a fair few only in lingerie by 11.30 or so. Cocktail dresses and lingerie are probably the most common combination, but so long as you feel sexy and are not wearing clothes from the gym, you'll fit right in. Your male half should go as smart as he can, it is hard for a guy to overdress, the only real consideration being how easy it is to get clothes off and on again! |
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Oh and for the alcohol, anything is good to bring, but you need to pay for water and soft drink mixers at the bar. Go easy on the booze though, a common first time mistake at clubs is having one person go too heavy on the Dutch courage as that takes away the possibility for informed consent when you are flirting with respectable people. |
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