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Abfabs A Public Thank you...
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Dear Tasha and her amazing Team,
I want to extend my deepest gratitude for the 12 incredible years I’ve spent as part of the AbFabs community. You’ve created so much more than just a venue; you’ve built a sanctuary where people can embrace their authentic selves and celebrate the beauty of sexual freedom without judgment.
Through the years, you’ve faced countless challenges—be it financial struggles, enormous re-location projects, bickering among members, or an often ungrateful community that didn’t always understand the hurdles you worked tirelessly to overcome, myself included.
(Everyone has an opinion about how to run a club right!?)
Yet, through it all, you remained steadfast, ensuring that this space continued to thrive as a beacon of acceptance and exploration.
Personally, and I mean this most sincerely, Abfabs has been a transformative part of our life as a couple, offering us the freedom to connect and grow. You were the first ever club we (very nervously!) went to and you will always be the best and hold a very special place in our hearts.
Indeed we were at the club last night, we looked around us and the penny dropped at just how much work, time, energy and money you must have invested into the club just over the last year alone!
It is always easy for us to just turn up and have a good time, sometimes we need reminding, that we should not take venues like yours for granted.
With heartfelt appreciation - love and 12 more years (at least!) P and K xxx |
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"Blimey.
Well there`s a 360, considering the number of times you have slagged off the club and the way it is run, in numerous previous posts."
If people weren’t slagging off the club, no changes would have been made. It’s called feedback. |
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"Blimey.
Well there`s a 360, considering the number of times you have slagged off the club and the way it is run, in numerous previous posts.
If people weren’t slagging off the club, no changes would have been made. It’s called feedback. "
Lol i don't think they like the FEED BACK |
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If lots of people giving similar feed back then its a feed back and not slagging off .I found very strange that staff constantly become defensive on the forums particularly for this club i have not seen other people doing that .yes if some thing is factually wrong people that should be corrected but free speech allows people to give their opinion. Also one or two people are louder in the forums are not going to pay the bills for the club .adult business or not people should be treated with respect by the staff other wise its bad for business |
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"If lots of people giving similar feed back then its a feed back and not slagging off .I found very strange that staff constantly become defensive on the forums particularly for this club i have not seen other people doing that .yes if some thing is factually wrong people that should be corrected but free speech allows people to give their opinion. Also one or two people are louder in the forums are not going to pay the bills for the club .adult business or not people should be treated with respect by the staff other wise its bad for business "
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By *aciamiCouple 5 days ago
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"If lots of people giving similar feed back then its a feed back and not slagging off .I found very strange that staff constantly become defensive on the forums particularly for this club i have not seen other people doing that .yes if some thing is factually wrong people that should be corrected but free speech allows people to give their opinion. Also one or two people are louder in the forums are not going to pay the bills for the club .adult business or not people should be treated with respect by the staff other wise its bad for business "
We are not staff. We simply visit this club.
We witnessed the appalling behaviour of one of the commentators on this thread whilst visiting the club.
Feedback is not feedback when it's factually wrong and coming from people who have an axe to grind against the club when the club did the right thing by removing them and banning them from attending in the future due to their appalling behaviour. |
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By *aciamiCouple 5 days ago
Hertfordshire |
"If lots of people giving similar feed back then its a feed back and not slagging off .I found very strange that staff constantly become defensive on the forums particularly for this club i have not seen other people doing that .yes if some thing is factually wrong people that should be corrected but free speech allows people to give their opinion. Also one or two people are louder in the forums are not going to pay the bills for the club .adult business or not people should be treated with respect by the staff other wise its bad for business
We are not staff. We simply visit this club.
We witnessed the appalling behaviour of one of the commentators on this thread whilst visiting the club.
Feedback is not feedback when it's factually wrong and coming from people who have an axe to grind against the club when the club did the right thing by removing them and banning them from attending in the future due to their appalling behaviour."
Should clarify, this isn't referring to the OP. |
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"If lots of people giving similar feed back then its a feed back and not slagging off .I found very strange that staff constantly become defensive on the forums particularly for this club i have not seen other people doing that .yes if some thing is factually wrong people that should be corrected but free speech allows people to give their opinion. Also one or two people are louder in the forums are not going to pay the bills for the club .adult business or not people should be treated with respect by the staff other wise its bad for business
We are not staff. We simply visit this club.
We witnessed the appalling behaviour of one of the commentators on this thread whilst visiting the club.
Feedback is not feedback when it's factually wrong and coming from people who have an axe to grind against the club when the club did the right thing by removing them and banning them from attending in the future due to their appalling behaviour."
As i said if something is factually wrong people have right to correct it and off-course if some behaved badly in the club they should be removed but no one have a right to silence am opinion .any one very welcome to disagree with it but thats all.luckily we live in a free country and opinions cab be given .No one is mad enough to take a battle unless they are treated badly |
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Firstly, we are not members of staff.
Secondly there is a section on the club’s website for feedback, practical or otherwise.
Opinions are like arseholes - everyone has one, but it doesn’t necessarily mean that either of them should be aired in public, just because you have them. We have nothing against opinions being aired. We have a problem with people “slagging off” other people on a public forum.
Slagging off does not constitute practical criticism or helpful feed back. Whilst there may have been dealings with staff who were less than professional, slagging the club off as a whole, in our opinion, is not the correct way to address the problem. Just bad form. |
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"Firstly, we are not members of staff.
Secondly there is a section on the club’s website for feedback, practical or otherwise.
Opinions are like arseholes - everyone has one, but it doesn’t necessarily mean that either of them should be aired in public, just because you have them. We have nothing against opinions being aired. We have a problem with people “slagging off” other people on a public forum.
Slagging off does not constitute practical criticism or helpful feed back. Whilst there may have been dealings with staff who were less than professional, slagging the club off as a whole, in our opinion, is not the correct way to address the problem. Just bad form. "
Off course club cannot be responsible entirely for staff behaviour but when they are given the chance to rectify the problem and they completely ignore then feeb back should be given in my opinion.swinging clubs not sacred cows that a no one criticise as long as it generic and not directed to a person like naming ad shaming .other wise no one will be able to say any thing about any club ot any night |
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The only thing i will say and i am sure their is no point saying it .the more liberated people should be in swinging community the more closed minded some people are .unless you are part of the group /bubble you are treated badly single or couple
and god forbid you give an opinion and people jump on you like you have taken candy from them and personally attacked them
People should just accept the bad behaviour for staff and other members and should not say anything |
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