My wife and I have been to a couple of Friday nights at Xtasia which have been great. The single men make our dynamic of me showing her off and her getting attention from random men work perfectly.
We are soon to attend a couples evening and I’m wondering if the attention levels will be similar or less due to the fact that I don’t swap. |
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"It can be tricky. If we get chatting to a couple we will always drop in our dynamic early on just so there is no misunderstanding or confusion. "
Greta advice. Thank you. Do you find a drop off in interactions at a couples event compared to single men |
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By *harAndBryCouple 4 days ago
Peterborough / Stamford |
We're a cuckold/HotWife couple and we now don't go to couples/single female only events and we simply don't have any luck. We have to have a good number of single guys.
Same as Fab really....soon as most couples find that Bry doesn't do one-to-one play with women, they don't want to know.
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Same as us
Hot wife couple here where me (Mr) doesn’t want to full swap with another female but likes to see Mrs with guys and girls
Mrs will tell you that she wants the ladies more but it’s incredibly hard to find one with in a couple or a single that’s happy with that dynamic |
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Thanks for the feedback guys. I have the feeling that the upcoming couples night won’t be as much fun as previous nights but I’m sure we’ll have some fun anyway as I still enjoy wandering round with her looking sexy and her outfit for this one is amazing. I think we all share a similar dynamic which is good to know I’m not the only man who feels like I do. Thanks for the comfort. |
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We’ve never enjoyed couples only nights and the few we have attended felt very cliquey.
Maybe it was just us but in our vanilla life we have a wide range of friends and social engagements so I don’t think so. |
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"We’ve never enjoyed couples only nights and the few we have attended felt very cliquey.
Maybe it was just us but in our vanilla life we have a wide range of friends and social engagements so I don’t think so. "
We found couples nights very similar at the first club we went to. This club we’ve only been to nights open to single men too and have had a great time. Fingers crossed for Saturday |
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"I find this thread fascinating. If the wife and I liked the look of the lady in question we would so be up for enjoying her whilst her hubby showed her off
Am I missing something on the dynamics?"
I think the usual dynamic of couples swapping involves all four participating but our particular dynamic is me the male staying passive and watching her be admired and hit on. We are new and therefor wife isn’t sure if she would want to play with the man let alone the woman. We’re taking Tiny steps and testing the waters and getting advice as we go |
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