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By *igrobbo OP Man 7 days ago
Sunderland |
My problem is that I am very nervous and believe it or not I am actually quite shy at first and very self conscious over my appearance.
I just think if I did go alone that everyone would be staring and judging me and stuff. Specially with it been my first time to a club |
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By *lan157Man 7 days ago
a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex |
"My problem is that I am very nervous and believe it or not I am actually quite shy at first and very self conscious over my appearance.
I just think if I did go alone that everyone would be staring and judging me and stuff. Specially with it been my first time to a club "
My advice given what you have said about yourself is to go to organised swinger socials in your area first and meet women and couples socially. Once you get to meet someone in time you can ask to go along to clubs with them as a couple or as a group. |
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"My problem is that I am very nervous and believe it or not I am actually quite shy at first and very self conscious over my appearance.
I just think if I did go alone that everyone would be staring and judging me and stuff. Specially with it been my first time to a club "
Going to a club on your own is always a bit nerve racking but you just need to put your big boy pants on and take the plunge. There'll be people of all ages and body types so there's no need to feel self conscious. Just be polite, respectful and open to conversation, and you should enjoy it. Some clubs will help you out and introduce you to people if you say it's your first time. |
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"Q:- dose anyone actually go to any swingers club by them selfs ?
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Get yourself over to Shhh in Newcastle. I found them to be the most friendly of the two clubs in the NE, as far as visiting as a solo guy.
All clubs as a single guy are hard work, but you only need to get chatting with one person to enjoy your visit, so smile at anyone who looks in your direction, and read body language as to whether they would welcome an approach from you  |
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